The Problem with Chakor - Page 4

Originally posted by: nycgal

@Italics red ... these issues are related to each other...

Security and trust go hand in hand..

Insecurity and lack of trust go hand in hand.. lack of trust will and does give rise to insecurity..

Originally posted by: binivenugopal

I have that feeling that if he find out she moved on and adjusted to new life he will simply walk off,as I already written here somewhere in the discussions here few days ago.

Exactly that is what happened.

Sacrifice also one good virtue of love and it is one good quality on him that he didn't try to confront her on that time and blast on her and it also take good courage to do so.

I'm sure,if he gets a slight hint that she still loving him,he will run to her.

Originally posted by: Eatifi

Exactly,that is what I feel

Like I said its all about Suraj's conviction of Chakor's love

When he was conviced that she loves him,he could not even think of getting off on her.

But now that he is convinced that she doesn't loves him anymore,he just allowed to let her go,for her happiness

Originally posted by: meshmesh

I didn't talk about the trust issue because my opinion will take long to express. I agree with you partially. I can't blame Chakor for doubting Suraj but for deciding not to confront him, she owed at least this much to him. About trusting strangers, I think she had her reasons in both cases. It's no coincidence that both were officers so they're more trustworthy than regular people if they aren't corrupt.

Regarding Suraj, she trusts him but she trusts Imli as much as him, so her initial reaction was to meet him and confront him. After what happened at the pandal, she had to doubt him. Still, she went to the pandal after getting out of hospital in hope of meeting him, this is the only part where I blame her, Chakor always had courage but this time, it failed her.

I know Suraj took poison for her before, saved her life in the camping trip, was willing to abandon everyone to be with her when she broke their engagement. But similarly, Chakor's love brought him back to life, she agreed to marry him and gave herself to him, she was so happy just the day before she disappeared. If Suraj can doubt her after all of this, then she isn't wrong in doubting him.

Regarding Ajay, she had seen many instances of how he was good and not corrupt, he refused bribe from Ragini and Vivaan, he protected the kids and beat Ragini's goons. So asking his help in stopping illegal activities is a no brainer, I blame her wounded heart for not trusting Suraj back then.

As for Ranvijay, here is a guy who was willing to put himself in danger to protect a stranger, whom she thinks is an upstanding officer, he listened to her complaint at the police station and paved the way for the Divya's marriage to happen, and he showed concern for Chakor when he saw her at the highway. Still, I don't think she would've agreed to go to his place if she wasn't so helpless. She was being chased by goons who wanted to kill her, she was penniless, she was weak and barely able to walk, she is pregnant, she was heartbroken and with no where to go, I don't think it was safe for her to return to the pandit's house. She had no other option but to take his help.

I think it's easier to trust strangers, especially if you accidentally watch them do something heroic or good natured because you'd think they have no ulterior motives.

Originally posted by: Eatifi

Originally posted by: Eatifi

Divya,you always explain everything beautifully.😃

But hey,why did you thought that I think like Suraj?😛

Originally posted by: .Mandy.

Chakor and Suraj both have trust issues but the problem lies more with Chakor than it does Suraj. How could she easily believe Imli about Suraj? A man who drank poison to save her life, who became a bandhua and would rather starve than lay a hand on her is the same man she believes could kill her. It just disappoints me to see that she can trust complete strangers yet has these kind of doubts about a man she claims to love. Chakor and Suraj have a long way to go before they can call what they have between them love.