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Sampu was 23 when married not 19

And samhars marraige was of 1.5 years not 5 yrs.

Varna bahuth bada confusion honayenga

Beacuse satrting mei iss baath ko leke bahuth confusion huyi he forum mei

Why do so many of us get confused about this? I too thought they'd been married more than a year... but it does make sense that SamThu wouldn't have taken all that time to elope.

Anyway,I don't get why Malhar feels guilty about his marriage with Sampu... he didn't force himself on her,from the flashbacks shown,she was always ready for sex... of course,he now knows that whenever he came home unexpectedly and found her in nighties and such,it was because she was planning to meet Atharva in his absence,but it's not Malhar's fault she then proceeded to get busy with him to cover her tracks and not let him know of her affair.

Forcing yourself on someone is a different... Sampu,simply said, is the kind of woman who wouldn't shy away from using her sexuality with anyone to get what she wants,she isn't one to care about feelings.

One year and little more due to the following points raised in serial

One beacuse sampthu constantly tried to elope they mentioned that on the day of marraige she tried but AS brought her back and made her to sit in mandap

Next time when time came sampu Prego and I don't think they had 2-3yrs between first and second attempt.

And she could have easily escaped earlier if she had a childless period so long

Maayi happy that sampu blessed with baby in short time after marraige

And then they where planning to elope after delivery but kalayni discovered their affair and hence she had to risk that Prego.

And I don't think they could have fooled around malhar for a long time like many years and thus we can conclude that moksh came somewhat immediately after marraige and malhar never had the time to realize that their visibly perfect marraige was just a mirage.

Originally posted by: Kalma007

This is my issue as well... he either should have thought about her age before marrying her twice or gotten over it after the second one.

I really want a scene at least in the fanfic where Kalyani directly asks him if he only married her simply to have a babysitter for his son and because she's the total opposite of his first wife,so he doesn't have to fear her betraying him lie Sampada... Kalyani is,afterall, inexperienced in matters of love and intimacy and insecure about certain issues,thou she puts on a brave face and does a good job at not letting it show.

It would make a lot more sense if he finally decided to take baby steps towards intimacy and then remembered her miscarriage and how deeply traumatized/hurt she was by it (and that she has,at such a young age,lost a lot) and got scared by the idea that sex could lead to an accidental pregnancy and decided to avoid it altogether for fear of causing her pain and,by extension, possibly risking losing her again.

ikr. if it continues this way in the show moksh will grow up to be of kalyani's age and kalma still be figuring out their relationship.😆

and i know many people who got married at that age and there were no any pregnancy issues. 19 is'nt a very childlike age. my cousins were married at that age.

i really hope this trilok wala track could bring kalma close. cant wait for upcoming episodes. donno when will the shoot start again this virus situation is getting worse day by day.

Originally posted by: Kalma007

Why do so many of us get confused about this? I too thought they'd been married more than a year... but it does make sense that SamThu wouldn't have taken all that time to elope.

Anyway,I don't get why Malhar feels guilty about his marriage with Sampu... he didn't force himself on her,from the flashbacks shown,she was always ready for sex... of course,he now knows that whenever he came home unexpectedly and found her in nighties and such,it was because she was planning to meet Atharva in his absence,but it's not Malhar's fault she then proceeded to get busy with him to cover her tracks and not let him know of her affair.

Forcing yourself on someone is a different... Sampu,simply said, is the kind of woman who wouldn't shy away from using her sexuality with anyone to get what she wants,she isn't one to care about feelings.

True. maybe malhar was emotionally attached to her as she is his wife. i highly doubt if he ever loved her. i think kalyani is his first love. and yeah regarding that marriage duration stuff they didn't clearly mention in the show, i guess most of us are confused on that. i almost every night watch previous episodes of tujse hai raabta still i couldn't figure out these marriage duration times and stuff🤣

Originally posted by: GAYATHRINAYAR

please edit your post

Sampu was 23 when married not 19

And samhars marraige was of 1.5 years not 5 yrs.

Varna bahuth bada confusion honayenga

Beacuse satrting mei iss baath ko leke bahuth confusion huyi he forum mei

done.👍🏼 ek paragraph hi ta us par. main ne erase kardi. and tumne bahut badi clear kardi yaar sach mein. yeh baath bahut dinon se mere dimag mein chal rai thi.😆

I also have a problem with Malhar addressing most people in the Deshmukh family based on their relationship with Sampada.

And in the few SamHar scenes and flashbacks shown before the truth came out,Malhar was shown as being able to openly show his feelings and being romantic in public or in front of others like the then SIL Kalyani.

I want Kalyani to come to a point where she gets sorta fed up and points this out and that how come Sampu betrayed him but still got to have the "better" parts of him,and Kalyani who has stood by him got only khadoos atom bomb first and now this closed book type wala Malhar Rane? Malhar should come out of this story more expressive,more capable of showing his feelings without fearing betrayals and hurtful things coming his way and over the stuff that happened in his first marriage.

Originally posted by: Chandana_1998

True. maybe malhar was emotionally attached to her as she is his wife. i highly doubt if he ever loved her. i think kalyani is his first love. and yeah regarding that marriage duration stuff they didn't clearly mention in the show, i guess most of us are confused on that. i almost every night watch previous episodes of tujse hai raabta still i couldn't figure out these marriage duration times and stuff🤣

I think I've figured out where the confusion came from: it was clearly stated that Malhar has been doing his job as an ACP for 5... many of us probably got confused by that statement and thought he got married around the same time he joined police duty,which I now know isn't true.

No

Malhar joined duty 7 years ago we believe he cracked ips after graduation as he is somewhere between 28-30.

Clearly stated during rachits track. Saath saal ki police ki naukari he said.

From general statement in serial throughout

It is understood that malhar acquainted with AN people after being posted on Aurangabad and then family found a potential groom in him. It was easier to get things done as he had no much realatives to convince ( sampada told maai that she inneed aksed auosaheb to get her married to atharva but she was only interested in getting her married to malhar the ACP due to his status and athrava was a dependent loffer for her one of the main reason why atharva still hates malhar)

And marraige year is less than 2 as many time samthrava has explained when and how and why their plans to elope failed

And pillu was the main reason it was delayed after samhars marraige if she had been childless that long they would have ran away much earlier.

Last thing again this 5 year is off Anu atuls marraige. That was clearly stated in flash backs.

Originally posted by: Chandana_1998

kalyani is over 19 near to her 20's as kalma been married for more than 1.5 years now. it's silly how malhar or all others refers her as a 'bacchi' in the show and give her all household responsibilities, responsibilities of a mother and give harsh punishments when she fails to do any small works.

and this education wala excuse is something out of my understanding. when she can take us all mental and emotional burden and do everything and anything when fulfilling responsibilities of a wife, is'nt she getting distracted from her studies by that? why they give this excuse in the show only when it comes to starting a sexual life?.

government gave right to girls to get married at 18 means everyone thinks that a girl is capable of starting a new phase in her life at that age. i never heard anyone saying that a girl can get married at 18 but can't have sexual relationship as she is too young for that.😂

many girls get married at that age around the world and leads their married life happily even without having any complications in pregnancy. they are just making her sound like a 15-16 year old by making all this age related fuss in the show that's it.

infact i think instead of feeling guilty for getting married to 18 year old, malhar should be guilty for not being about to give kalyani the right she deserves as a wife. instead calling her bacchi and behaving like father he should start behaving like a husband first.

they just get a eye lock when they fall on each other or in some other situations when they get close that's it. i never saw malhar appreciating her beauty or say u look good in this dress or staring at her. if in future my husband turns out to be like him am probably just gonna divorce and go and say ' sirf ek dost chahiye to ayise hi banalete mujse shaadi q ki' 😂😂

Now a days these serials are getting over dramatic and changing the total meaning of marriage just to sound more 'sanskari and mahaan' other than that i don't think that kalyani's age is such a big issue here. Malhar ko koyi hosh me lao aur 'how to a husband' wale tutions do koyi.😛

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