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Posted: 8 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

Hell no! I'd rather stay single for all of eternity than EVER marry a guy like Uma. So what if his good looking and has a sexy body. There ain't any dearth of attractive specimens out there. I cannot imagine a life with someone who believes a woman should be a sacrificial lamb for her husband. WHY should I change my ways when he can still remain himself with no sense of compromise? Tit for tat, simple. On top of not having garlic and onion in my food (WHICH is the main source of flavour in my food), I would be expected to drink cow piss? I can't even drink my own piss let alone an animals. And just thinking about my day in that household is a nightmare. Waking up at 4am everyday :/ so what happens when I give birth to a baby that keeps me up all night? Am I expected to still wake up at 4am? And being isolated for having my menstruation is a whole new level. I'd be counting my days till menopause hits and would be the only woman happy to have reached that stage in life. FREEDOM!

Pray tell what on earth would I be doing all day? There is no television, no music, no internet. Even if I could read a book - it probably would have to be approved by Uma first. Nah scratch that, i'd only be allowed to read religious scriptures of his choosing. Reading a medical book may be deemed useless for a 'woman' who should only focus on being in the kitchen, touching cow dung, drinking piss, drinking water from my husbands feet, touching my husbands feet for blessings and catering to his needs. The hell you need a non-fiction book for right!? Imagine the punishment I would receive for being caught reading 50 Shades of Grey LMAO.

I can't even sit in idle since I'll be labelled lazy. I can't walk out of the house without an escort. I can't even SNACK ON FOOD because there is an allocated time for you to eat. Even my human right to feed my body is not of my will. Ever heard of boredom eating!? So I guess my only hope of entertainment is listening to Massi talking shit. Listening to Payal having one sided conversations with her husband in the picture frame. Who needs Skype when you can talk to a photo eh? It's cheaper too 😉
I'll be left with Shiv, and trying to prompt my husband to talk about ANYTHING that is not always religiously related. Like, wouldn't it be nice to sit down with your husband and be able to speak about general things like 'aye Uma what's your fav colour?'. Or 'Uma, I also want to get into fitness and have a 6 pack, wanna train me?'. OR 'Uma can you rub my tummy, I have period cramps'.

Nah ah. Nope. Never. Hell no.


You said it all and then some 👍🏼🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

Hell no! I'd rather stay single for all of eternity than EVER marry a guy like Uma. So what if his good looking and has a sexy body. There ain't any dearth of attractive specimens out there. I cannot imagine a life with someone who believes a woman should be a sacrificial lamb for her husband. WHY should I change my ways when he can still remain himself with no sense of compromise? Tit for tat, simple. On top of not having garlic and onion in my food (WHICH is the main source of flavour in my food), I would be expected to drink cow piss? I can't even drink my own piss let alone an animals. And just thinking about my day in that household is a nightmare. Waking up at 4am everyday :/ so what happens when I give birth to a baby that keeps me up all night? Am I expected to still wake up at 4am? And being isolated for having my menstruation is a whole new level. I'd be counting my days till menopause hits and would be the only woman happy to have reached that stage in life. FREEDOM!

Pray tell what on earth would I be doing all day? There is no television, no music, no internet. Even if I could read a book - it probably would have to be approved by Uma first. Nah scratch that, i'd only be allowed to read religious scriptures of his choosing. Reading a medical book may be deemed useless for a 'woman' who should only focus on being in the kitchen, touching cow dung, drinking piss, drinking water from my husbands feet, touching my husbands feet for blessings and catering to his needs. The hell you need a non-fiction book for right!? Imagine the punishment I would receive for being caught reading 50 Shades of Grey LMAO.

I can't even sit in idle since I'll be labelled lazy. I can't walk out of the house without an escort. I can't even SNACK ON FOOD because there is an allocated time for you to eat. Even my human right to feed my body is not of my will. Ever heard of boredom eating!? So I guess my only hope of entertainment is listening to Massi talking shit. Listening to Payal having one sided conversations with her husband in the picture frame. Who needs Skype when you can talk to a photo eh? It's cheaper too 😉
I'll be left with Shiv, and trying to prompt my husband to talk about ANYTHING that is not always religiously related. Like, wouldn't it be nice to sit down with your husband and be able to speak about general things like 'aye Uma what's your fav colour?'. Or 'Uma, I also want to get into fitness and have a 6 pack, wanna train me?'. OR 'Uma can you rub my tummy, I have period cramps'.

Nah ah. Nope. Never. Hell no.



Totally loved ur reply and agree with u completely.Uma and family would have a cardiac arrest if they would see someone reading fictional books,
, especially the one u mentioned 😉
Would they expect a new mother to never sleep ? What abt her pregnancy cravings ? Should she forget abt them ?
Edited by Star_Wonder - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#33
@FingerFetish
🤣🤣...50 shades of grey is a good.option for entertainment..just buy the book and let maassisa see..then u will have an entertainment period full.of 50shades of punishments for a month..

anyways i doubt anyone would have time.for entertainment after kitchen works and cleaning with cowdung...and getting a bath 100 times a day to.take that stink out...then later on a bunch of kids too..its obvious how.much a husband is supposed to.help.in that house..
Edited by deeps07 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: deeps07

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do u really think if he has enough patience and uses force only as a last resort to get his way done makes it reasonable?..what if payals family had not come?..he would have send those people to bring her by force..(tht was his intension by that dialigue anyways.)so then his action is justified..because he waited?
well..according to me that is an invation of another human right..
yea he was fair enough to let kanak win test and all..but for a min .consider it was not.kanak and someone like palomi in kanaks place..she woulsnt mind doing the one night stand..and if that happens he would.burn her alive..is that ok?..is it ok.to.kill anybody because they r wrong and characterless..as he said..vaishya?...he is not law..i can understand his anger..but the thoughts are really what makes a man..if he is.thinking about.murder then he is really thinkinh about it..any person would be worried abt such a man..
uma is an extremist..thats the prblm.here..hopefully love for.kanak changes him for better..

well thta my opinion..😛


@Deeps, sorry late respond 😃

Maker not too much show he command his man to violence others ... And we can see how villager respect him, didnt scare of him & they come for treatment with no fear, it wouldnt be happened if his act like an villain

About what will happen if Payal's parent didnt come ... i think he'll patient enough to meet Payal's parent again til he decide they'll never change their mind ... His patience is one of good point frm him, he ever said to Kanak Dharm help him for self control ... Then we'll see how patient he is when he has to face up Rathi's fam & deal with the law bcz of his mistake

Beside, he looks rigid but he's kind of person who will try to understand others mind ... That why he can explain his mean & most of people understand it, then he doesnt need to used his power

Agree with you his mind is very extrem ... We know he was born & grew up in family whom use violence such as normal thing ... we can hear there leader of village/region/country are extrimist because they learn about that from their forerunner/family & much of them can be the worse than their forerunner

But in Uma's case i think he know his mind is his weakness and realized Dharm can help him to control this ... That why whatever he said/think but he did otherwise

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The question of sneha_17 is anyone here would be ready to marry Uma Shankar?? Not can you deal with all his family's rules? ... so im try to see how is Uma's personality & what is his kindness & badness ... Rules & punishment in his family is only consequences, when someone can changes his mindset then he can changes the rules for the good & gives understanding to his fam for that

I just realized Uma's life looks alike Suraj's life with different problem, a man who has good soul but get stuck in mis upbringing/tough rules of their fam

Sandhya has to face the same burden like Kanak when first time she came to Suraj's fam (we can see she ever slept in cow cage in the cold night for punishment & she ever use cow dung for something too), there're misunderstanding between Suraj-Sandhya too & Suraj not always support Sandhya, looks he often choose to support Bhabho/his fam & let Sandhya disappointed with his decision ... But finally love, experience of life & time can changes everything & make them understand to each other til die 😭😭

So believe maker will create the same pattern in Uma-Kanak love, but this show will be more excited, with more extrem character & storyline, & more experience for us as viewer to learn that we can't judge someone by the cover only 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I would never marry Uma... too much of a control freak. I like living my own life on my terms and not on anyone else's.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#36
@Star_Wonder: Thanks! = D I would probably be left to burn at the stake - Salem Witch Trial essstyle 😎. I have sooo many more points that I wanted to mention in my post but I was spending too much time in the toilet and did not want people to presume that I had been kidnapped lel. But YES pregnancy cravings is another valid point. Also, imagine never being able to wear jeans or even trackies/sweat pants and a t-shirt. Jeez ... I'm hyperventilating at the thought of not being allowed to do anything.


@Deeps07: BAHAHA '50 Shades of Punishment' 🤣🤣.
I don't even want to know what kind of punishment I would receive for that. If cleaning cow dung and drinking piss isn't enough of a trauma than I wonder what else I could endure.
The role of a husband appears to be spending all day doing Yoga, praying and prancing around the house shirtless.

To be honest, I'll probably end up turing into the vamp bride and will either poison Massi-sa or push her down the stairs. *Camera pans 360 degrees around every angle of my evil facial expression* 😈
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Posted: 8 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

@Star_Wonder: Thanks! = D I would probably be left to burn at the stake - Salem Witch Trial essstyle 😎. I have sooo many more points that I wanted to mention in my post but I was spending too much time in the toilet and did not want people to presume that I had been kidnapped lel. But YES pregnancy cravings is another valid point. Also, imagine never being able to wear jeans or even trackies/sweat pants and a t-shirt. Jeez ... I'm hyperventilating at the thought of not being allowed to do anything.


@Deeps07: BAHAHA '50 Shades of Punishment' 🤣🤣.
I don't even want to know what kind of punishment I would receive for that. If cleaning cow dung and drinking piss isn't enough of a trauma than I wonder what else I could endure.
The role of a husband appears to be spending all day doing Yoga, praying and prancing around the house shirtless.

To be honest, I'll probably end up turing into the vamp bride and will either poison Massi-sa or push her down the stairs. *Camera pans 360 degrees around every angle of my evil facial expression* 😈


🤣🤣😈..pure survival instinct does the work..😆
hopefully kanak learns something from this..

Edited by deeps07 - 8 years ago

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