stunned by the subtle finer points the show brings forth

... Starting thread today to gently highlight the finer points the show is bringin forth with each episode unfolding...these are lovely moments which are most needed in todays times...but they get lost somewhere in the bheed bhaad and bhaag daud of digital times we live in...

... Starting thread today to gently highlight the finer points the show is bringin forth with each episode unfolding...these are lovely moments which are most needed in todays times...but they get lost somewhere in the bheed bhaad and bhaag daud of digital times we live in...

today's episode's subtle point...

A woman ..a wife is expected to know what she ought to know culturally... But most men dont appreciate it...even themost educated n rich nnon nikhattu patis DO not appreciate their wives capabilities the way TITU did today...

the way he encouragingly and GENUINE appreciatingly clapped at her uttering of thestory... The essence of that she knew... And when HE clapped everyoneclapped... Titu maybe a nikhattu but as his dad said he has a golden genuine heart that minuses all the negatives...titu treats panchi as an EQUAL... I think as subsequent episodes unfold yehquality aur bhi ubar kar aayegi titu ki...

I mean she was expected to know the puthana story but he gaveher a thumbs up fo knowing it...ABOVE ALL that was so SWEET..

Ilovethe PROFOUNDNESS the cvs go into for this show...👏

I have followed the show and been a visiting bee on the forum.
Your post made me write today.

What a wonderfull thought to bring forth these things. I saw it but just passed by it . I appriciated that he clapped for her but what you say him being a genun person to appriciate his wfes qualities.

The other two married couples Bhagwati and Keshav- Keshav dose not respect and appriciate his wifes godness just because she was a widow. and Mukund and Vaishali have no guts to come forward. There both of them want to enjoy the wealth of each other heads of familys.

Even yesterday when Titu being nikhattu could have ignored his wifes sullen face but he took pain in making her smile. In todays episode too. Keep on posting your thoughts just know that there may be many who read it but not always write.

Agree with you totally What titu did yesterday many perfect man doesnt do. He always stand with panchi and treat her equally He never try to dominate or supress her thought.He is nikhatoo but I love this things about him

A very good post.. Titu may be nikathu.. but he has and bears no malice towards anyone.. His heart is of gold and does not stop at appreciating the goodness of another and really treats his wife as an equal.

Originally posted by: azuria

I have followed the show and been a visiting bee on the forum.
Your post made me write today.

What a wonderfull thought to bring forth these things. I saw it but just passed by it . I appriciated that he clapped for her but what you say him being a genun person to appriciate his wfes qualities.

The other two married couples Bhagwati and Keshav- Keshav dose not respect and appriciate his wifes godness just because she was a widow. and Mukund and Vaishali have no guts to come forward. There both of them want to enjoy the wealth of each other heads of familys.

Even yesterday when Titu being nikhattu could have ignored his wifes sullen face but he took pain in making her smile. In todays episode too. Keep on posting your thoughts just know that there may be many who read it but not always write.

true ..the sullen face incident...titu notices panchi ..but sometimes most capable of hubs are too busy even to notice days of mood off ness of wives.. urban lifestyle perils

Originally posted by: yurimehta11

Agree with you totally What titu did yesterday many perfect man doesnt do. He always stand with panchi and treat her equally He never try to dominate or supress her thought.He is nikhatoo but I love this things about him

yes he is so sweet...even during the holika dahan he believes that there is no buraai in him n panchi ..n if kisi koney mein dabi ho by chance woh buraai toh bhagwaanji pls adjust how with cildlike simplicity tutu utterred that dialogue...this is by far the most progressive shows i have ever seen👏

Originally posted by: -deepali17-

A very good post.. Titu may be nikathu.. but he has and bears no malice towards anyone.. His heart is of gold and does not stop at appreciating the goodness of another and really treats his wife as an equal.

Waiting to see how the metamorphosis from nikhathu to hero takes place and how he cares for Panchi as opposed to the 3 other younger married couples treat their wifes.

yesyes yes i wanna see the metamorphosis wud be delightful😊

And now for the finer points in today's n yest episodes... if a marriage goes wrong in the begining stage..aajkal girls..women's lib..overdose of feminism ,,etc etc ..blinds girls so much that they do not even work on their marriage n the parents r happy to pull their girls out of a difficult marriage..yes its all correct ..some situations are beyond redeem... but sadly this applies to redeemable marriages too..BUT in this show tho panchi being told to stik on to the useless marriage may sound regressive on the outset..its such a winning thing for her faith...IN HERSELF ...she will change her destiny..at least will try her best to work it out reform him...how beautifully the cvs of the show tread dangerous waters of it stepping into backward storyline..but actually its really really so progressive her courage ..her faith ..n her attitude where she does not sit crying thinking "arre ye kya ho gaya"...BUT instead she will DESIGN her own destiny her own dream man .. SO PRAGMATIC ..wow 👏

great post..keep posting..

Originally posted by: bhavni88

great post..keep posting..

shows how titu respects panchi..and values her friendship

I feel that both will want to postpone their sr until they are more comfortable

panchi for her own reasons😉

titu looks in no hurry tho😆