Lessons from charcaters of anupama

Lessons from each character of anupama show

1) Anupama: Learn to talk for your rights do not expect anuj, devika, samar to always stand up for you while you yourself will not stand up for your abuse

2) Vanraj: Do not do arranged marraige to please your parents than make that woman suffer all life 

3) Samar: Learn to focus on career and do not sacrifice it to stay with family 

4) Anuj kapadiya: Do not go bonkers over your classmate at 16 years of age and spoil your and your parents, sibling life for that teenage love. It was not love you fool it was infatuation like teenagers have for hero/heroine/singer/sports person/teacher etc in young age 

5) Kinjal: Stop worship ping abuser husband and in laws and learn to stand up for your rights

6) Dimpy: Loving hubby is not enough in traditional patrichial india in laws charcater most important than hubby's for your good life 

7) Adhik: Do not marry for future property and gain and repent full life 

8) Malat Devi: Do not make your inheritor as somone who has other top priorities like family, ex hubby, ex in laws etc 

9) Malvika: Do not write your 100% property of your dad and empire to yoir sibling to please him specially when sibling is a fool simp like anuj kapadiya 

10) Kavya: Never fall in love with boss or colleague in office 

These things should not come under the category of "lessons" instead it should come under "Common Sense " 

I think Dimpy and Kavya has something more important to teach.

Kavya : Don't fall for married men. If he can't have the guts to tell his wife he doesn't like her and cheats on her, he's a redflag. Infidelity and pretending to be someone's friend won’t bring about positive outcomes in your life. Most importantly have some self respect and don't force your husband to father a child that is not his. It's not good for your child.

Dimpy : Don't be an extremist, don't be too good or too bad to people. Anything in excess is a vice. You shouldn’t become a slave neither should you insult people, backstab the people who were there for you when you needed them. Show gratitude, be polite, mind your own business, at the same time speak up when your rights are being violated.

Barkha : If a hypocrite gawar us showing you knife, immediately slap her and call the police. Show her your qualifications and assert dominance over her with confidence. 

Iss show se koi kuch naahi seekhe toh achcha hain.

But I agree to ALL the "Not tos" written here.