Aishwarya - Lost 5 Films Including Veer Zara - Page 5

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

Thank you for sharing your own personal experience here. First and foremost, I am so sorry for what you had to go through. I hope you are at a better and happier place in your life right now.

Though, I have never dealt with physical abuse, I have suffered from gaslighting. My friends and family could never comprehend how someone like me was unable to see through it. I’ve always been very assertive about standing up for others and have a strong justice-oriented approach, but when I found myself in the situation, I was the one always apologising, thinking that everything was my fault and that my shortcomings is the reason for all the issues to begin with. My self-esteem hit rock bottom and I truly, truly believed that I was not good enough. It took me years to snap out of it. So I reinforce my point that not everyone reacts the same. I have advised many women against the very same thing that I ended up falling victim too.

In regards to Aishwarya’s case, there was even bystanders who witnessed Salman allegedly pushing Aishwarya to the ground on the sets of Chalte Chalte. Everyone knows that Salman is an alcoholic with major anger management issues. But because the perpetrator in question is a popular actor, fans want to continue passing a blind eye to his shortcomings. Like him all you want, but don’t try to justify his actions when he is wrong.

Thanks darling, and thank you for sharing your story. I feel so sorry for what you went through. You are more than good enough. X

Of course I am safer now, after moving house several times to get away from him and to survive, I also had to change my number several times, and cut acquaintances off because they were close to him, and I've ghosted my own personal social media accounts because he was turning up to places I would be attending... but sadly I also lost contact with my own family in the process. They threw me out because I was still in contact with him.

Basically sending me back to my abuser.

Think Manisha Koirala in Lajja.

And since the pandemic they've been trying to contact me... - but they can kiss my brown back side.

For me it was mental abuse mostly, until the day it got physical and I realised everything that was wrong, much like Taapsee Pannu in Thappad. Then I literally ran away from him, barefoot, without my phone... and by chance I ran into the police nearby. (Yes, I will write a book about it one day).

It's been 2 years THIS WEEK and I finally feel like I can breathe. And almost starting to feel grateful for the experience(s) because I feel so strong now - it would take a lot to break me today. I didn't want to be like this, but I have no choice now but to be powerful and beautiful and gracious and cute as hell.

[might delete this so please don't quote]

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

Mostly, I would also say that I will choose the women above men when abuse and harassments are concerned. However, after seeing the Kangna-Hrithik fiasco, I believe that sometimes it is better to look into both sides of the coin. Salman, is not a saint by any means, but I definitely do not believe that he can beat up someone like Aish and she will remain quiet about it. I am glad that she got out of the toxicity though.

salman truly hit her i believe her

she had gone to a film award ceremony hiding her hand that was hurt once

for your kind info he kicked sangeetha bijlani in stomach

he hit coke bottle on somy ali head in club

he hit ash on chalte chalte sets and she fell to ground

He slapped katrina in a coffee shop

are u really saying he cannot beat ash or any girl?

his film image is different in real life hes opposite

do not go by his film image

even giving bundle of notes to a street seller and being human all is his PR stunt after running ver sleeping people

his lawyer must have give idea or his film producers how to improve your image?

i know heros have blind fans but do not go so blind also its just acting

Originally posted by: myviewprem

He slapped katrina in a coffee shop

You forgot he chased Katrina around with a stick cause he didn’t approve her clothing choices in ek tha Tiger shoot 😆

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

You forgot he chased Katrina around with a stick cause he didn’t approve her clothing choices in ek tha Tiger shoot 😆

cannot list all his hits

than i will require a book to list all he did to others

ravindra patil the constable who gave witness in drunk driving etc

people do not read or do research nowadays

they are saying ash cannot be hit - why? in public he has hit her

i admire her guts and her dignified way of responding to all that he did to her after break up

not so easy to stand up and fight for yourself when entire Bollywood and media against you - ash has courage and guts that no other heroine of bollywood had till today to fight harrasment when you are alone against the rest

Originally posted by: myviewprem

people do not read or do research nowadays

Their all pushing their own narratives. They’ll believe what they want

Originally posted by: myviewprem

salman truly hit her i believe her

she had gone to a film award ceremony hiding her hand that was hurt once

for your kind info he kicked sangeetha bijlani in stomach

he hit coke bottle on somy ali head in club

he hit ash on chxalte chalte sets and she fell to ground

He slapped katrina in a coffee shop

are u really saying he cannot beat ash or any girl?

his film image is different in real life hes opposite

do not go by his film image

even giving bundle of notes to a street seller and being human all is his PR stunt after running ver sleeping people

his lawyer must have give idea or his film producers how to improve your image?

i know heros have blind fans but do not go so blind also its just acting

Originally posted by: VaniSpeaks

omg what is this juvenile nonsense that Salman fans are writing here? Pure garbage. 🤢

Salman is one of the scummiest people in the industry. He is a certified psychopath (age has slowed him down now, but he was equally cray cray as Kangana in his hey days).

Aishwarya did go to the cops and Salman was asked to keep a distance from her. Why are people twisting facts to suit their narrative?

The Khans tried to sabotage her career and she came back with a bang. What she pulled off is unbelievable.

Also, there's a difference between being considered for a film and being signed on for a film and then kicked out for no fault of your own. Stop whitewashing the wrongdoings of these people.

Originally posted by: Rekha_ji

Thank you for this post.

When I was in a relationship which became abusive, it was the same - people were surprised it happened with me. That's the thing - the abuser uses such manipulation, gaslighting, controlling behaviour that by the time you find out you're dating a sociopath, you're already in deep waters.

In my case, I did go to the police, but I dropped the charges because I felt sorry for the guy. I hope he's doing well now wherever he is. He had major issues.

As for Aishwarya Rai - her family did go to the police. It was widely reported in 2002. The police took Salman Khan in for questioning but he got away with it. Not to mention the PHYSICAL signs that she had been abused. As well as the fact that journalists were on set the day he interrupted the Chalte Chalte shoot. And he was a known alcohol abuser - he would show up to his own film sets still drunk from the night before.

The fact that Ash has until this day maintained her DIGNITY just makes me want to cry. I aspire to be as strong and elegant as her.

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

Thank you for sharing your own personal experience here. First and foremost, I am so sorry for what you had to go through. I hope you are at a better and happier place in your life right now.

Though, I have never dealt with physical abuse, I have suffered from gaslighting. My friends and family could never comprehend how someone like me was unable to see through it. I’ve always been very assertive about standing up for others and have a strong justice-oriented approach, but when I found myself in the situation, I was the one always apologising, thinking that everything was my fault and that my shortcomings is the reason for all the issues to begin with. My self-esteem hit rock bottom and I truly, truly believed that I was not good enough. It took me years to snap out of it. So I reinforce my point that not everyone reacts the same. I have advised many women against the very same thing that I ended up falling victim too.

In regards to Aishwarya’s case, there was even bystanders who witnessed Salman allegedly pushing Aishwarya to the ground on the sets of Chalte Chalte. Everyone knows that Salman is an alcoholic with major anger management issues. But because the perpetrator in question is a popular actor, fans want to continue passing a blind eye to his shortcomings. Like him all you want, but don’t try to justify his actions when he is wrong.

Originally posted by: Anika80

but we don't know the entire truth.

They know enough for the narrative 😆