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Posted: 10 years ago
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Urmila burning Kinjal's sarees is disgusting. It is Modis hard earned money after all.
Kinjal should be taught a lesson . but burning her sarees and making her "saree" Less is a dirty thing to do.

And Kokila behn as usual is least bothered. For her her Gopi bahu is back. She does not need anything else.

Kinjal can't she do pickle business ? why is she penniless.?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Kinjal is very lazy. She wants money without working. She is the mother of a grown up boy but is still immature.

Urmila made Kinjal to do the work to stop her from going to MM but burning Kinjal's sarees is somewhat not acceptable.

Maybe, she must be doing it to humble Kinjal.

As for the pickle business, I don't think she can do it like Gopi. If she goes for modelling, no one will accept it.

She needs to start something of her own.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharoon3210

Kinjal is very lazy. She wants money without working. She is the mother of a grown up boy but is still immature.

Urmila made Kinjal to do the work to stop her from going to MM but burning Kinjal's sarees is somewhat not acceptable.

Maybe, she must be doing it to humble Kinjal.

As for the pickle business, I don't think she can do it like Gopi. If she goes for modelling, no one will accept it.

She needs to start something of her own.


I am sorry. But to "humble" Kinjal Urmila burnt all her sarees so that Kinjal goes around in torn sarees?

What harm did Kinjal do to Urmila? In fact Urmila beat Kokila with broomstick. Made her do all the maid's work and kept calling her maid. and She was pretending to be mad.

And to "humble" Kinjal Urmila burnt all her good sarees? What "logic" is that?

What explanation can anyone give to ruin other people's stuff? And this serial has high trps does that mean public approve of this kind of destroying other's good things?

They say a Suhaagan a married woman should not go around in torn sarees. Kinjal is from an affluent house.

And her own mother told Urmila to tear her sarees? And Kinjal is a person in her own right.

She cannot go penniless in one day. Talk about woman empowerment.

How can Kinjal just because she plotted go penniless in one day to "humble" her? Whatever here crime may be

Paridhi , Maansi, Urmila all are frauds . and nobody "humbles" them. Only Kinjal who was in love with Umang had to be "humbled" by being "married" off to Dhaval who is a "good guy"

And from the beginning Kinjal is getting troubled by Urmila who even steals her stuff. and So long as Kinjal was pious wife everything was fine. Even she was "humbled" by being made to live in chawl.

And Rashi and her likes go around telling her they are in MB and Kinjal is in chawl. and that is her place etc.

And Kokila did nothing to make Urmila behave well. in all these years no one could make Urmila straight.

And Kinjal suffering because of Urmila is "fine" by Kokila. Now Kinjal is made "penniless" and her "sarees" get torn to make her "bekari" to "humble" her?

Who will humble the rest of the world? Yeh koi tarika hain kya line pe laane ke liye?

To destroy good sarees of a woman? What kind of woman is Kokila who lives in wealth and lets her daughter live in chawl?

It is this poverty that made Kinjal go and live in MB all these years. Why cannot the Modis do something for Kinjal? Buy her a house or something? Then she would not have plotted.

According to Kokila everybody must touch the feet Gopi walked on if Kokila says so.

She does not care about the rest of the world. Kinjal always has to be "humbled" or "fixed" by a chorni like Urmila and made to live in chawl. whereas a manipulator like Rashi or Paridhi will live in MB by manipulation.

And whatever harm anyone does to Kinjal they can "do it" to "humble" her because Kinjal has to be "humbled" always
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pyaaribehna


I am sorry. But to "humble" Kinjal Urmila burnt all her sarees so that Kinjal goes around in torn sarees?

What harm did Kinjal do to Urmila? In fact Urmila beat Kokila with broomstick. Made her do all the maid's work and kept calling her maid. and She was pretending to be mad.

And to "humble" Kinjal Urmila burnt all her good sarees? What "logic" is that?

What explanation can anyone give to ruin other people's stuff? And this serial has high trps does that mean public approve of this kind of destroying other's good things?

They say a Suhaagan a married woman should not go around in torn sarees. Kinjal is from an affluent house.

And her own mother told Urmila to tear her sarees? And Kinjal is a person in her own right.

She cannot go penniless in one day. Talk about woman empowerment.

How can Kinjal just because she plotted go penniless in one day to "humble" her? Whatever here crime may be

Paridhi , Maansi, Urmila all are frauds . and nobody "humbles" them. Only Kinjal who was in love with Umang had to be "humbled" by being "married" off to Dhaval who is a "good guy"

And from the beginning Kinjal is getting troubled by Urmila who even steals her stuff. and So long as Kinjal was pious wife everything was fine. Even she was "humbled" by being made to live in chawl.

And Rashi and her likes go around telling her they are in MB and Kinjal is in chawl. and that is her place etc.

And Kokila did nothing to make Urmila behave well. in all these years no one could make Urmila straight.

And Kinjal suffering because of Urmila is "fine" by Kokila. Now Kinjal is made "penniless" and her "sarees" get torn to make her "bekari" to "humble" her?

Who will humble the rest of the world? Yeh koi tarika hain kya line pe laane ke liye?

To destroy good sarees of a woman? What kind of woman is Kokila who lives in wealth and lets her daughter live in chawl?

It is this poverty that made Kinjal go and live in MB all these years. Why cannot the Modis do something for Kinjal? Buy her a house or something? Then she would not have plotted.

According to Kokila everybody must touch the feet Gopi walked on if Kokila says so.

She does not care about the rest of the world. Kinjal always has to be "humbled" or "fixed" by a chorni like Urmila and made to live in chawl. whereas a manipulator like Rashi or Paridhi will live in MB by manipulation.

And whatever harm anyone does to Kinjal they can "do it" to "humble" her because Kinjal has to be "humbled" always

Very well stated!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pyaaribehna


I am sorry. But to "humble" Kinjal Urmila burnt all her sarees so that Kinjal goes around in torn sarees?

What harm did Kinjal do to Urmila? In fact Urmila beat Kokila with broomstick. Made her do all the maid's work and kept calling her maid. and She was pretending to be mad.

And to "humble" Kinjal Urmila burnt all her good sarees? What "logic" is that?

What explanation can anyone give to ruin other people's stuff? And this serial has high trps does that mean public approve of this kind of destroying other's good things?

They say a Suhaagan a married woman should not go around in torn sarees. Kinjal is from an affluent house.

And her own mother told Urmila to tear her sarees? And Kinjal is a person in her own right.

She cannot go penniless in one day. Talk about woman empowerment.

How can Kinjal just because she plotted go penniless in one day to "humble" her? Whatever here crime may be

Paridhi , Maansi, Urmila all are frauds . and nobody "humbles" them. Only Kinjal who was in love with Umang had to be "humbled" by being "married" off to Dhaval who is a "good guy"

And from the beginning Kinjal is getting troubled by Urmila who even steals her stuff. and So long as Kinjal was pious wife everything was fine. Even she was "humbled" by being made to live in chawl.

And Rashi and her likes go around telling her they are in MB and Kinjal is in chawl. and that is her place etc.

And Kokila did nothing to make Urmila behave well. in all these years no one could make Urmila straight.

And Kinjal suffering because of Urmila is "fine" by Kokila. Now Kinjal is made "penniless" and her "sarees" get torn to make her "bekari" to "humble" her?

Who will humble the rest of the world? Yeh koi tarika hain kya line pe laane ke liye?

To destroy good sarees of a woman? What kind of woman is Kokila who lives in wealth and lets her daughter live in chawl?

It is this poverty that made Kinjal go and live in MB all these years. Why cannot the Modis do something for Kinjal? Buy her a house or something? Then she would not have plotted.

According to Kokila everybody must touch the feet Gopi walked on if Kokila says so.

She does not care about the rest of the world. Kinjal always has to be "humbled" or "fixed" by a chorni like Urmila and made to live in chawl. whereas a manipulator like Rashi or Paridhi will live in MB by manipulation.

And whatever harm anyone does to Kinjal they can "do it" to "humble" her because Kinjal has to be "humbled" always


I too don't know exactly what is Urmila's purpose to burn Kinjal's sarees. I also wonder whether Kinjal is having a single account or joint account. If she has a single account, nobody can block her card. Only in joint account it is possible.

As for her living in chawl, it is not Kokila's fault. Kinjal has screwed up a good proposal & dug her own grave.

Kinjal loved Umang but he didn't love her in the same way. And what Umang had after he married Radha? Even his house was not his own.

He was blackmailing Kinjal for money which means that he was a 'bhikari'. Because she faked her pregnancy & was dumped by her boyfriend with a bad name, nobody was willing to look up to her. In normal course, if anybody would marry such a woman, he would utilize her. But Dhawal didn't do that.

He never took a single pie from the Modis. If Kokila freed him from credit card debts & financed him to start his business, he made sure that he paid them back. Which son-in-law would do that?

Kinjal was always full of attitude. She also created problems between Ahem & Gopi before her (Kinjal's) wedding.

Even now she tried to harm Gopi. So God is punishing her that way. Urmila lost Rashi as she too tortured Gopi.

Even Rashi lost her life because of the kalakaris she did to Gopi.


Whatever is happening with Kinjal now is nothing compared to what she did to Gopi. She needs to be humbled more. Despite all these, Kinjal is still full of attitude.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think kinjal should go back to modeling ...she know how and she can make money ...heck with urmi and dhavel... kinjal you don't need a man to complete you ...but kinjal is lazy
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharoon3210


All I can say is Kinjal after living in her maike for ten years did not save enough money did not have even a bank account on her own ? How can someone lock her bank account?

Also if she thought up of it would she not have even one method of earning money. Other than modelling. or pickle factory? Can't she take up a job or something?

Where was the need for her to stay in her maike if Dhaval was doing good in business?

And he did beat her because of Urmila did he not?

And in MB who did not plot against Gopi? Ahem and Kokila kicked her out for Meera's accident.

Rashi plotted against Gopi for so long. And for the stupidty of MB people child Meera suffered from Radha.

Partly because of Gopi's stupidity also. Result of which Gopi is suffering now.

Kinjal all her sarees getting burnt by Urmilabehn and Kokla approving it I feel like saying serves her right for having to do naukrani work for Urmila all these years.

Kinjal has a right to live a good life. Why did Dhaval beat her for Urmila's sake. there are many women in this world whose lives are ruined by such things. Also because of their stupidity.

Dhaval himself has suffered because of Urmila. and now he is siding with her and Urmilabehn the biggest con artist of MB is being "pardoned" and she is now "turned" good.

and she punishes kinjal by burning up her sarees. if kinjal is penniless she should do something about it and start earning money to live respectfully.

why suffer at the hands of Urmila?

And as for modelling she can model for "amma" role ads . She can open a shop or do something.

work in a school. why suffer at home that too from a fraud like Urmila?

So many people need to be humbled in Sathiya, Kokila , Ahem, Meera, Paridhi ,Urmila Either they have attitude or they are frauds like Urmila.

and numbnut modis have conveniently let Sanskaar escape. and he is still messing with Meera.

And they talk about bringing Kinjal back to ":line'

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharoon3210



Dhawal had initially stood by Kinjal against Urmila most of the times. Kinjal didn't put in any effort to win Urmila's heart. If she had done that, Urmila would not have misbehaved with Kinjal.

Why should Kokila serve Urmila when Kinjal was supposed to do that?


Hey Kavitha. I would like to say something about these two points you made.

About Kinjal not putting any efforts to win Urmila's heart, if you remember after the 8 year leap Kinjal was shown to be happy with her life with Dhawal and Pappu. She seemed to have learned to adjust living with Urmila. But then I feel Urmila probably stopped hassling Kinjal as much as she did before because Rashi was sending her money from Modi Bhavan.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think things changed when Kokila came back to her senses and Urmila stopped getting that money. So Urmila had to go back to the previous equation she had with Dhawal and Kinjal where she would hassle them for money.

That is the main reason for Urmila misbehaving with Kinjal: money. The only way to Urmila's heart is money. So I don't think Urmila would have cared much for Kinjal winning her heart in any other way. Urmila always used her own daughter for money. She made Rashi break Jigar's impending marriage to Sonal so that Rashi could marry him instead and they can get their hands on the Modi family wealth.

I agree, Kokila shouldn't have had to take care of Urmila. But who asked her too? There was no need for her to do that. She could have hired a nurse to take care of her. Yes, if Kinjal had a heart she would have gone (and Urmila would have tricked her to become her slave as well for god knows how long). But when Urmila has always treated her bad and because of her her husband slapped her, why would she take care of such a woman? She's no Gopi. Might not agree with her, but that's her POV.

There is someone very close to me who was treated very badly by her in-laws. They used to take her husband's money. They wouldn't give milk to her youngest child because she was a girl. Eventually they threw her, her husband and their 3 little children out of the house. They had to build their life from scratch. But the mother-in-law still wouldn't stop hassling them. She would always fill her son's ears with bad things about his wife, when one day he ended up hitting his wife. Her family told her it was her house and she should never leave, if he wanted to leave, his wish. Fortunately, things got better and the wife and husband are very happy. But now her in-laws want her to give up her job and take care of them in their old age. She obviously refused because 1) she needs to work for her family's sake and 2) she can never forget how they made her and her children' s lives a living hell. None of their kids want to support them now. Why? Because they always caused trouble in their lives. Now imagine if they had shown care and respect for their children and their spouses before, today no one would have point blanked refused to support them. End of the day, you reap what you sow.

Same thing with Kinjal and Urmila. If Urmila would have left Kinjal and Dhawal to happily raise their family, at the time when Urmila needed support, Kinjal would never have backed off. If Urmila has been in an accident at the beginning of the 8 year leap, I'm sure Kinjal would have looked after her.

What I'm trying to say is, Kinjal has been wrong since the beginning of this leap, but that does not make Urmila right. If Kinjal and Dhawal have problems, they should try and sort it out. And if they can't resolve things, get a divorce. Pappu's over 18 so there's no issue of child custody and alimony. Kinjal will have to fend for herself. But Urmila getting a license to treat Kinjal like crap, don't agree with it.

Sorry for the long post. But these were some things I wanted to get off my chest. 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharoon3210


I answered in purple.

Also I want to mention one more thing.

Kinjal will get a share in preperty I was told. So she will. But now she wants something be it jewelry or expensive clothes what is the use of her getting property after a long time? Now when she wants stuff she is not able to get what she wants. What is the use of such property?

On top of that Kokila gives bhashan that gold will be useful in times of need. And not a diamond necklace.

God forbid why do they need to use their jewelry in times of need? Does not KInjal have any jewelry on her own or even that she did not get only because Dhaval's "self respect" would be hurt.

I remember an incident someone told. me.

There were these people who very magnanimously said they did not want dowry for their DIL.

And not to give expensive presents to the girl at the time of wedding. So parents did not give her anything.

And the girl was ranting. said marriage is one time when you will get good sarees, good presents. and because of her magnanimous sasuraal she was denied even that. when the rest of her sisters got expensive sarees, jewelry from parents for their marriage.

Sasuraal people should not exort the girl's parents. But parents on their own give stuff to their daughter why do these people stop that? Just to be magnanimous?

Same way not giving anything to Kinjal just because Dhaval's self respect would be hurt this Kokila has been doing since a long time.

When Dhaval could not get a decent job and Ahem offered him a job that too Kokila did not let Ahem do.

Kokila has been the cause of Kinjal's problems for a long time now.

If Kinjal plotted it was only to stay in MB and then she stayed there only because she did not want to suffer with Urmila.

Leaving Pappu is what I did not like in all what Kinjal did. She should have taken the kid with her. Gotten a job and supported the kid.

She has more confidence and more educated than Gopi. Why should it be so difficult for her to get a job?
Edited by pyaaribehna - 10 years ago

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ok I read in this post that Kinjal will get her share of property... I want to know when is that auspicious moment??? Usually parents give children their share when their marriage is fixed or one or two year after marriage.. here Kinjal is married for nearly 20years and Modi's still didnt find the right time to give her what she deserved. About hurting Dhaval's self respect It's Modi's giving their daughter what she rightfully deserves and should be considered as security not something that hurt Dhaval's so called self respect. If he had so much self respect why is he staying in his aunt's place where he knew his wife was treated like shit( well before the leap).
Kinjal did drama so she could marry Umang, she was in love and she know her MOM wont accept it. when Modi's realised she was acting what they did married her off to DHAVAL!!!rather they should have given her some time and space then than marrying her off right away.
If Modi's have given what Kinjal desrved should wouldnt have behaved this way. We did see just before 8yrs leap and after that leap Kinjal was pretty content with her married life. So blaming Kinjal is not fully right.

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