Custody *Note on pg 11 about Ishra*

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire
Okay I have a question, a silly one I guess, but what does MCP mean? (I'm terrible at acronyms)

I have a new observation. The copy Shagun gave to Raman's lawyer had the original conditions and Shagun's lawyer said that he had added the custody exchange clause in the main paper. Does it mean that the main paper has both the 4 lacs per month and custody exchange clause? If it does, I'm pretty sure those who felt sympathy towards Shagun would reconsider their feelings.

I dont think anyone felt sympathy for Shagun...It's just Shagun was not delusional...she was doing everything out of vengeance against Raman trying to take Adi from her. In her crooked way if anyone she feels a bit of love, it is Adi...the accident track proved it...so yeah dont compare her with Ishita's unconditional love...but Shagun loves Adi in her own way 😆

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Posted: 10 years ago

#72

sumwhere i dont liking the idea of Ishu running away taking Ruhi with her...but will wait to see what it is actually there...

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Wings-of-Fire

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Posted: 10 years ago

#73

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

I dont think anyone felt sympathy for Shagun...It's just Shagun was not delusional...she was doing everything out of vengeance against Raman trying to take Adi from her. In her crooked way if anyone she feels a bit of love, it is Adi...the accident track proved it...so yeah dont compare her with Ishita's unconditional love...but Shagun loves Adi in her own way 😆

Her way of loving sucks big time!

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Posted: 10 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil
sumwhere i dont liking the idea of Ishu running away taking Ruhi with her...but will wait to see what it is actually there...

I have a feeling she's gone after the judge. Let's see what happens.

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Anjali

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Posted: 10 years ago

#75

Originally posted by: arshi21

Are people actually complaining how ishita blaming raman and fighting for her daughter is...errm...kinda wrong cause she should love her husband more?

Seriously that is happening? Wow

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Anjali

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Posted: 10 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

I'm sorry but I have to disagree with you. Yes Raman made a mistake...a grave one indeed, but it was stemming from his need to protect his family and Ishita from the stress of Rs 4 Lakh/month transaction. Yes this is going to hurt him, and he knows it too...but I dont think this has anything to do with being snooty or being MCP. While you're right, he was at fault...but the reason is not what you described it as.

Ishita's anger at him is also justified...whatever the situation, matters which are of this serious nature need a joint collaboration of a couple...and it's about time Raman realizes that Ishita doesn't need protection, rather it would benefit their relationship if he maintains a clear visibility about matters.

@ Bold : I was reminded of Mrs. Iyer and Mr. Iyer's conversation after the whole Money Stealing Drama...Communication helps solve more than half the problem just like that and the lack of that is what led to all this.

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Posted: 10 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: paru_rox

Absolutely VJ.
Its not only Ruhi & Ishita. This stands true for any mother. Imagine a mother whose child is being snatched away. Will she not do anything. Will she sit and exhibit her love & care for her husband while her little one who cannot fend for herself/himself is being taken away from her sight.

I am amazed that people are actually saying Ishita does not love Raman enough. A mother does not love anyone above her child. Period.

Couldn't have agreed more.

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Posted: 10 years ago

#78

excellent post 😊

ya its true that children have to suffer b/w parents and at certain point parents do not care about children becoz of their ego. but d child has to suffer whole life and at d certain period of life d child just loose hope in life and never ever trust anybody in their life just like me but you no wat i just learnt wat life thought me that is to be independent in your life and never trust anybody in life...

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Posted: 10 years ago

#79

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

I'm sorry but I have to disagree with you. Yes Raman made a mistake...a grave one indeed, but it was stemming from his need to protect his family and Ishita from the stress of Rs 4 Lakh/month transaction. Yes this is going to hurt him, and he knows it too...but I dont think this has anything to do with being snooty or being MCP. While you're right, he was at fault...but the reason is not what you described it as.

Ishita's anger at him is also justified...whatever the situation, matters which are of this serious nature need a joint collaboration of a couple...and it's about time Raman realizes that Ishita doesn't need protection, rather it would benefit their relationship if he maintains a clear visibility about matters.

Gan, no one is doubting his intentions. he keeps taunting ishita that you want to do things alone right, so now face the consequences! He has been behaving wierd the entire week right from the Sarika kaand and he also blamed her in anger for Rinki fiasco and ruining his life etc. Thereafter he has hidden the job, rent and esp wrt Shagun, Ishita has been chasing him but he just wont even talk to her properly. He has also hidden earlier all the expenses he sponsors Shagun for. As a wife, she has every right to know. Both Raman and Ishita have good intentions, but the way he treated Ishita now was as if he had gone back to pre accident-track days! I just saw all the old episodes and felt he was behaving better even when he did not love her! maybe he has started taking her for granted a bit too much!

Right now the custody thing has exploded, next the financial crisis will...

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#80

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For anyone thinking Ishita doesn't care about Raman...please take a look at this collage...Ishita was absolutely hysterical...everyone in the Bhalla family was trying to calm her down...and look who succeeded and whose shoulder she took spontaneous refuge in...does that look like an action of a woman who doesn't care for her husband?

And look at him, he forgot his own pain momentarily and stepped up to reassure her that he's going to take care of it. Not the actions of a snooty, MCP ..is it?

This is a human tale..where both make mistakes, and when they get angry they yell at each other but they both also feel and understand the other side...sometimes we just need to put ourselves in their shoes before we jump into judging their actions...Raman is at fault...Ishita might have said she has no one/nothing (can't recall the exact phrease)...but they have always beem there for each other. even at the time when they were not in love with each other. That's their YHM.

Sorry for the rant...but let's not make every episode about Raman v Ishita but sometimes that's all I see here in the forum..so needed to get it off my chest.

Edited by GanBarunFan - 10 years ago