Vulnerability of a marriage - Oct 20th - Page 3

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut


I do not see how this track is portraying that Raman is the only one that needs to work on this marriage? Apart from the retard Mani who called Raman a bad husband no one is asking or demanding Raman to work on the marriage and Ishita to chillax. And whoever thinks that Ishita is right and Raman is wrong or vice a versa have never been in a relationship.
I am not married but have been in a solid relationship for the past 4 years and have a male best friend. So I can relate to this minus this being all hindi soapy where all of a sudden the lead actress has a best friend who lectures her husband about their relationship. The things they make Ishita do these days is only to gain to TRP and that's it.


Dear its not whoever thinks here, but this is how CV's r portraying it as 😕 Well ya u look it in a different perspective, its ok but some of us really feel that CV's r not justifying Ishida's character properly.
Edited by mnr123 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: RisingAsh

Wow.. Beautiful post ! N i completely agree wid u ! :)
N the song at the end.. Aaah.. LOVE IT !! ❤️

Thank you Ash! I love that ghazal as well!

Originally posted by: RisingAsh

Well just Doc.. I don't hav same thoughts on sm things there.. But still as i didn't watch recent epis don't wanna comment on the track .. :)


No problem Ash we don't have to agree on everything to be friends, when do you catch the episode come back and let us know your thoughts.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mnr123


Dear its not whoever thinks here, but this is how CV's r portraying it as 😕 Well ya u look it in a different perspective, its ok but some of us really feel that CV's r not justifying Ishida's character properly.


I agree CV's are doing a great injustice to Ishita's character, it could have been beautiful but they are trying to fit her into a star plus bahu , so we are basically saying the same thing 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sometimes I become very curious if you and another user (redwine1) are associated with this show in a capacity more than that of an audience :-)
You write so beautifully...You explain the characters so well...You analyze the situations so well..It is like this show is your baby.

Although my brain tells me it is the indian trp industry and I should tread with caution...after reading your posts..my heart wishes and hopes its all true :-)

Loved your post...and I am holding on the hope that the story unfolds exactly this way and your vision is also the writer's vision...

till then will enjoy reading your posts 😊
Edited by islandgirl007 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This is such a beautiful post..
You have said everything and there is nothing else left to mention..
This track is only a push that both Raman and Ishita need for them to accept each other openly. They have already done it in their hearts but they just wont admit it.. 😳

This track may bring a hell lot of pain for them but at the end it will only do the right thing, Ishita will finally realize that he loves her erasing the scope of uncertainty in her mind. She has been seen saying that to herself so many times, but keeps going back on her thoughts. Uncertainty. This track may just be the solution to it.!
For Raman this will be a way that he completely let's go off the all the pain he has in his heart. Its not that he is not happy, he is but the pain is still there in his heart. He has moved on from Shagun but hasn't moved on from the pain his past has left on him. He doesn't deserve to go through it, he needs to go through it for him to be able to realize his love. Same goes for Ishita..

Thank you for the beautiful post.. ⭐️
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: islandgirl007

Sometimes I become very curious if you and another user (redwine1) are associated with this show in a capacity more than that of an audience :-)

You write so beautifully...You explain the characters so well...You analyze the situations so well..It is like this show is your baby.

Although my brain tells me it is the indian trp industry and I should tread with caution...after reading your posts..my heart wishes and hopes its all true :-)

Loved your post...and I am holding on the hope that the story unfolds exactly this way and your vision is also the writer's vision...

till then will enjoy reading your posts 😊


Well hello there, nice to see you again! You are always very kind to me and shower praise that I do not deserve. I can assure you that I am in no way or form associated with this show lol Just someone so bored of studying that they would rather spend ungodly amount of time on this forum discussing this show than studying 😆

Thank you appreciating my ramblings, the urge to write something here comes from the fact that I like this couple because they are different, and I dig different. In my field of work I have seen many families came in for counselling and I see the effect divorce can have on children or infertility can have on a marriage. And when I see this show commenting on these problems I am elated because these problems need to be talked about in the Indian society.

I am student of science and there is no room for music, creativity or poetic thoughts in my field of work so I subject you all with these kinds of posts!
I too share the same fear that this show might go down the drain for TRP but let's hope we are proven wrong. Thank you once again for your kind words, I am glad someone enjoys these posts.
Edited by Eyes-Wide-Shut - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -IshRaDivAn-

This is such a beautiful post..
You have said everything and there is nothing else left to mention..
This track is only a push that both Raman and Ishita need for them to accept each other openly. They have already done it in their hearts but they just wont admit it.. 😳

This track may bring a hell lot of pain for them but at the end it will only do the right thing, Ishita will finally realize that he loves her erasing the scope of uncertainty in her mind. She has been seen saying that to herself so many times, but keeps going back on her thoughts. Uncertainty. This track may just be the solution to it.!
For Raman this will be a way that he completely let's go off the all the pain he has in his heart. Its not that he is not happy, he is but the pain is still there in his heart. He has moved on from Shagun but hasn't moved on from the pain his past has left on him. He doesn't deserve to go through it, he needs to go through it for him to be able to realize his love. Same goes for Ishita..

Thank you for the beautiful post.. ⭐️


I couldn't agree more, this track no matter how badly executed or how badly the characters are butchered is necessary. I would have preferred Subu to be the one to jolt out Ishra from their complacent relationship but since we got Mani that's what we will accept.
This realization no matter how painful will force Ishita and Raman to self introspect and ask very important questions about their relationship. And you are band on that after this track, Raman will be completely over the pain and hurt that Shagun infected on him. He might be over Shagun but the pain still persists.

@Bold: Only if all us got what we deserved then life wouldn't be so unfair!

And thank you for your wonderful comment!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut


I couldn't agree more, this track no matter how badly executed or how badly the characters are butchered is necessary. I would have preferred Subu to be the one to jolt out Ishra from their complacent relationship but since we got Mani that's what we will accept.
This realization no matter how painful will force Ishita and Raman to self introspect and ask very important questions about their relationship. And you are band on that after this track, Raman will be completely over the pain and hurt that Shagun infected on him. He might be over Shagun but the pain still persists.

@Bold: Only if all us got what we deserved then life wouldn't be so unfair!

And thank you for your wonderful comment!



@ red : Exactly.! That was another thing I said in some other post. Until today, it was only playful jokes, taunts and a bunch of communication gaps between them. They have never actually discussed the seriousness of their relationship. Even if they have done something for each other, they haven't accepted it. Its always been " Ruhi ke liye " but now that they have realized that it has gone beyond that point, this track will bring in the much needed seriousness in their relationship.

@ bold : WORD.! 😉 Life isn't fair and nothing having worth comes easy..😳

Edited by -IshRaDivAn- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I have mixed views about this track and sometimes I am confused to what to think about it generally. I decided instead of putting in my input I am going to let the track play out. Now coming todays episode your post just said everything. I love the poetry that you chose because it is exactly Ishra's feelings today and the situation they are in. I know many people may not agree with me or hate me for this but Ishita has put more stakes into the marriage then Raman. I am not saying Raman hasn't done anything for the marriage he has but Ishita has put more into the relationship. This track to me is not about Raman's lack of trust in Ishita is more about his fears and insecurities and now he has to face them. This is the part that confuses me about I should feel about, Is the mani track necessary or not to help Raman's fears or insecurities. I think if the CVs handle the storyline and characterization properly and do not stretch the track then this could be one of the best tracks so far in YHM history because KP and DT are amazing in emotional scene. It is some of their best acting.
Sorry for the long trant! I love your posts they are so poetic and beautiful written. I would really love to read an OS, FF, SS from you if you ever chose to write on. 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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that was my exact reaction ! 😆


Beautiful post doc !! (i read it with "when you say nothing at all" in another tab, it makes it even more perfect!)

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