A Benchmark from where we should compare between Ishita & Raman?

These days after every episode Ishita and Raman fans in our forum are using the past incidents to justify their actions. Our forum is divided in Ishita fans & Raman fans and there is battle between these two every night after the episode. So I was wondering that what should be the benchmark point in their relationship from where we should really start comparing. In my point of view benchmark point should be time around when Mani entered in YHM. I am giving following arguments to justify my point of view.

Ishita

At time of Mani's entry in YHM

(i) Ishita is over Subbu(her past) as she doesn't gets affected by it whenever Mani mention Subbu's name in-front of Ishita.

(ii) Ishita has realized her true feelings for Raman. She almost blurted out Love word while talking with Mihika.

(iii) Started to see Raman as her husband.

Raman

At time of Mani's entry in YHM

(i) Raman is over Shagun( his past)

(ii) Raman at-least sub-consciously realized his love for Ishita and wants to move on with her.

So at this point both Raman & Ishita are over their past and consciously or sub-consciously realized their true feelings for each other. And in my view if a person is over his/her past and is in love with his/her partner then he/she will definitely try to improve their relationship. That's why I said we should only compare from this point onwards.

Originally posted by: anjali_ss_20000

I absolutely agree with you. For the past couple of weeks, I was getting very angry with this division here. It is as if people watch the episode to decide whether raman is right or ishita is wrong. I m also supporting ishra. I will always support their live for each other.