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Posted: 12 years ago
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wow JAM you rock! so beautiful...you are an amazing writer 👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jami, you amaze me! This is a gem! Makes one yearn for love such as this. Take a bow! You rule!⭐️
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Posted: 12 years ago
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brilliantly writen JAM dear...👏👏⭐️
excellently showed suraj's state of mind..!!!👍🏼⭐️
loved all your replies guys..!!👍🏼😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ami_dabh

Dear Sunshine,

You're the aura that I breathe, the very precise that I indigence, my heart, my soul, my all. The most cloying of my memories arrive when I think of you. The euphony of your voice exceeds that of the biggest orchestra whizzing out its very best composition. Words alone restrain me to explaining precisely how I feel about you

I can say you're the only reliever to me, the only one who ever took the ache to empathize me. You dry every tear that descends my cheeks. Loving you is the most graceful thing that ever occurred to me and I'll eternally treasure the moments we've spent together.

You're the one I want to share everything with - my persuasions, promises and dreams. I understand that you want me to pour out my ambition to you. I'm at present trap in between my dad's dream and Bhabho's expectation as a Daughter in Law. For me to fulfill Bhabho's expectation is more poignant than my own ambition. She's my mother and her love for me is like a Rose ' always blossoming, forever caring, always giving and always sharing.

You've makes my heart feel full. You're such a reservoir of aspiration for me. I love you more than you could perhaps know and my love continues growing every time I see you fighting to make me happy. You're a Gift from Almighty. You made me conceive in true love in my grimmest moments. Meeting you is like a source of alight that riddles through the end of a dark tunnel. I love you so much forever through eternity.


Your Lovingly
Rose.


P.S:- Sorry JAMi.. I'm using your thread to pour out my Chhori's feelings for your Chhora..Lazy bones to create new thread..😳..

I also have one query in my mind. Feel free if any of you wanna answer it..

Is Sandhya doing right thing by thinking about to sacrifice her dreams? Is her sacrifice is worth enough???
Bhagwad Gita
:- "Without the elevation of knowledge, sacrifices are simply material activities."
Bible:- It ties sacrifice with "love, mercy humility, and justice."
There is whole chapter in holy Qu'ran regarding self-sacrifice.

Simply wonderful Ami. A very fitting reply to Suraj's poem.👍🏼 I am falling short of words Ami. If this is level of talent the younger generation possesses ,than the literary future of our country is not as gloomy as I thought.
Coming to your question of whether Sandhya should give up her dreams than , my take on it will be a big NO. I have always believed in it and practised it in my own life. I was also like Sandhya when I married , but that did not prevent me from completing my education about which I was passionate and my husband supported me all the way. Infact , I even had my kids in between but my drive continued and today I am a working woman . Why I gave you my example is that at the end of the day if you give up your dreams you can never be happy. Despite what ever responsibilities you might have towards the society or the family, you also have a sense of responsibility towards yourself. Every individual has a right to dream and has a responsibility to fulfill it. If you don't do that than , the scars remain all your life and you can never be truly and completely happy.
However,in my case the choice of my profession was such that I could accompany my husband whereever he went as he has a transferable job. In Sandhya's case that is a bit dicey and a grey area. If she gets into the IPS which has all along been her dream , she will be the one to travel and Suraj will have to follow her and for that he has to expand his business. The problem of inferiority complex does come up in relationships where the wife is doing better than the husband , but in this case SurYa 's love for each other will trascend that. Managing a career and family after the kids come along atleast in the civil services is not at all difficult as they are provided with a battalion of servants , so they do not have to do anything at home.
Battle with Bhabo will create tensions but , I am confident given time she will turn around.
Hope I have answered your question to your satisfaction.
Edited by UMDU - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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amlu- someone is needed to speak for my chchora, isn't it?😆. I'm delighted to read such wonderful appreciation from you. I feel as drenched in bliss as I read every word you pick for my words every time. Its some joy beyond my words.😃.🤗...huggies & snuggies for u.!🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗...
I'm really very sad knowing you slept peacefully.🤣. How did it happen?😲😆
Oh and its true I've exams tomorrow. But mhara chchora made me write for him. How can I be without writing for him? Impossible exception.
Waise main hoon thaara clone, so thodi bahut tharo traits toh honge na mujhe.😆


preeti- today is a day I marked in my life for I read your first words for me. They sent a shiver down my spine. I feel very much blessed to read a few words from you, as you have always been silent. And I don't know, I really don't know how to thank you for such a big appreciation & encouragement. Thanks a million and have my platonic hugs dear.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗I write only because you all are there to read...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Umdu Chachi:- Why are you worrying so much about future of our country?It will be better for sure. Nowadays, People are more aware than before(thanks to media) and good raise voices are appreciated by society.⭐️

Thanks for your compliment.

No doubt you've answered well about my quest. But I think what I'm referring here is term "sacrifice" in broader prospective?

We as a woman tend to do lots of sacrifices in our lives esp after marriage. So What kinda sacrifices one should opt for? I don't believe in phenomena to blindly sacrifice for family or others sake. 🤔.

Let's assume that Sandhya sacrifices her dreams for her family.. So by looking at current scenario of Rathi house, Is her sacrifice is applaudable or not?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: June_Anne_Mary

amlu- someone is needed to speak for my chchora, isn't it?😆. I'm delighted to read such wonderful appreciation from you. I feel as drenched in bliss as I read every word you pick for my words every time. Its some joy beyond my words.😃.🤗...huggies & snuggies for u.!🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗...
I'm really very sad knowing you slept peacefully.🤣. How did it happen?😲😆
Oh and its true I've exams tomorrow. But mhara chchora made me write for him. How can I be without writing for him? Impossible exception.
Waise main hoon thaara clone, so thodi bahut tharo traits toh honge na mujhe.😆


Oye JAMkudi.. How many huggies n snuggies are you giving me in the morning??? It's really hot out here.. One is more than enough..😆..

I thought I'll sleep peacefully but someone has to speak for my "Chhori" na?? When I completed my seminar preparation around 2:30am n jump IF to check if someone created thread to defense my chhori's feelings or not??? sadly no one..😭..So I thought to write it down in your thread.. Why to create separate thread??? 😳

Haan, I know we're super-duper clones..🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗.🤗
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Posted: 12 years ago
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sindu- hoping I'm not wrong calling you sindu, I read in MKD thats your name. Dear, I'm really moved by your words. You're so kind that you always choose the most pretty and lucid words for me. They coolen my thoughts and satisfy the writer within. See how our thoughts sail together. The words you liked are the same I love the most, especially the last line. Thanx a million for your soulful appreciation and encouragement.⭐️


UMDU- I'm really runnning out of words to thank someone elder like you. I thank you from the depth of my bottomless heart for you poured your appreciations encouraging my thoughts.🤗. I do believe somewhere unknown among us, SurYa exist in reality. But no one could realise them for they are silent. One example is my aunty & uncle with whom I stay now. Both are poles apart in nature. Sooraj is literally like my uncle, in every aspect. My aunty is another Sandy, but a bit silly & melodramatic at times, still very matured & understanding. My uncle is the one who educated his wife against his parent's wish. Sometimes, I guess, I feel a little jealous, for they are like as if they just got married two months back, though their kids are elder than me. I always wonder how do they manage to be with each other despite the huge differences between each other. Some relations are made in heaven, for the earth to be more beautiful & meaningful.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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bharathi di- thanks a million. Its really encouraging to read two words from you. I feel I got officially certified for my writing.


shehjar di-as always, your words touched my soul. I have no words than a simple thank you. Thank you.⭐️
the poem you picked for my chchora suits him more than my words, especially the last lines..⭐️now this is icing on the cake! Just perfect.!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ami_dabh

@Umdu Chachi:- Why are you worrying so much about future of our country?It will be better for sure. Nowadays, People are more aware than before(thanks to media) and good raise voices are appreciated by society.⭐️

Thanks for your compliment.

No doubt you've answered well about my quest. But I think what I'm referring here is term "sacrifice" in broader prospective?

We as a woman tend to do lots of sacrifices in our lives esp after marriage. So What kinda sacrifices one should opt for? I don't believe in phenomena to blindly sacrifice for family or others sake. 🤔.

Let's assume that Sandhya sacrifices her dreams for her family.. So by looking at current scenario of Rathi house, Is her sacrifice is applaudable or not?

Ami dear ,I was referring to the literary future not political future as you interpreted. Regarding Sandhya that is what I tried to answer.She is not being applauded for her sacrifice even now. Her missing the award function was not even bothered about. That is why I said she has to pursue her dreams and it is not worth sacrificing it and remaining unhappy all her life. If she does sacrifice her dreams she will be taken for granted. Rathi parivar will go on as usual and she will carry a permanent scar in her heart. She will have to bear Suraj fighting for her with Bhabo just like she did in WTC ,but she has to take the chance .Her not pursuing her dreams will benefit no one in the Rathi family except satisfy Bhabo's ego, but will hurt her deeply. It will be foolish to give up your dreams to satisfy someone's pride. Regarding sacrifice in general terms for an Indian woman after marriage all said and done since she goes to the husband's house the compromise will be more from her side. If husband is supportive and helps out fine .Otherwise hire a help to manage,as these issues often lead to fights and breakup many a times.Marriage is an institution based on mutual trust and understanding and ego has no place in it. If on every issue you start a debate on why can't you do it than it will not work. That would be my advice to the younger generation. Sorry JAM for using your thread to answer Ami. Please forgive your aunty for it. Last time ok...

Edited by UMDU - 12 years ago

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