What does a girl/boy want in a true relationship?

Originally posted by: -Mystery-

In the movie, Raj asks Taani about what does a girl actually want? She replied she wants a guy to love him so much, as much as no one has ever loved anyone...

I wanted to ask all of you girls and guys, what do you truly want?

For girls, is it really only love that you want? What about security? Luxuries?

i haven't seen the movie.
But i don't agree with that dialogue. i feel that dialogue is a very big problem. it doesn't go with the real feeling of love. This is one of the reason, why ppl are having so many break-ups and not finding a true love, the love they want.

If there is a pair, in which A loves B too much, but B doesn't love.
many ppl find that B is still lucky, that B has someone to love him/her so much. And i want person like A in my life.

but still there are few ppl, who will say that A is lucky, that he/she found someone, whom he/she can love so much.
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when watching movies,stories, pairs.. ppl just say, "awwwwwwww. i want someone to love me that much" and obviously if someone will love me so much, i will love him/her too.

The first thought to love someone, first from ur side, never comes in the heart. The quest is, what will i get in return ? or i want this or that.

"it is so difficult to find true love, it is so difficult to find a good person to love" well, then, be one first.
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if a ABC loves u, but u r neutral. And u love XYZ, but XYZ is neutral.
whom will u marry, if given a choice
i am amazed to see, mostly answer, that they will marry ABC. bcoz they are more comfortable in getting loved and enjoy that more. whereas giving love to someone, doesn't seem so joy to them.
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it doesn't matter whether it is abt girl/boy or abt any kind of relationship with anyone. if getting loved is more important than loving someone, then it doesn't sound like love.
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then 'security' distorts it more. well, if ur love can't hold someone, then security is just useless in love.
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and well one more thing abt Tani, what she wish is faulty. she thinks that love can be compared this way. she will always harrass her guy by saying, " the next door guy loves her girl more than u do, or just give me one example, which can prove that u love more than that guy loves his girl".

And if all girls think that way, then only one girl can be happy. All other will get less love than she gets, and will be disappointed.
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and how unconditional and true, a love can be, if first requirement is, love me unconditionally first.

Very well said Mahi, I really agree with what you say but I want to add something that I have even seen boys who have really sacrificed many things for their family...even their love. Maybe there are a few exceptions.

Girls really do want someone who would love them truly, unconditionally and moreover, would understand their unspoken words. Someone who would be there for them no matter what and listen to them. The guy doesn't need to give her expensive gifts and all...they just need to let them know that they are there for them and just let them know that they are special the way they are.

BTW, wonderful topic Mahi!

Mahii, your topics are very nice!

intersting topic...i'd say that undying love like that just doesnt exist and if one feels that way about someone then i'd say that bordering on obsession..for love is an emotion, that is constantly changing....its very fluid and will never stay the same, for we as humans are always growing, changing, evolving in our personalities wanting different things..its the nature of the beast..so yeah i would say that its always better to go with the guy that probably doesnt just love you for your looks..or even your personality..but look for commonality in your goals, the way you view the world...commonalities in your brought up..causee man marriage, relationship are hard enough without having to deal with all the other x factors that can make a relationship go sour...