Originally posted by: sia_lovely
Thanks Hari for the wonderful details :) 👏
The intro scene, though seemed a little rushed, still Avinash's eyes made up for that 😳 I mean I couldn't just look away from those mesmerizing pair of eyes.
Loved Avi's college boy 'tashan' and the body language. He portrayed the emotions of young Ishan really well -- Very confident, and showing off his confidence too. Loved his dialogue "Oh ho phir to tumhare jeetne ka koi chance nahi..." 😉 Avinash's dialogue delivery and body language along with expressions throughout the scene was stupendous!! 👏 The girl was easily shadowed in his presence!
However, despite all this confidence...deep inside insecurity did lie inside Ishaan and this insecurity was the prime reason why he left pari. They showed his insecurity right from the start...when he didn't like how pari got appreciated more than him.
The way he blasted her off after the concert and screamed that he can win the competition on himself, again showed his insecurity. It was as if he is trying prove and convince himself and her that he doesn't need anyone to make him win, he can win it himself.
Even after he befriended her, while the final concert he couldn't hide his insecurity if he will lose out to Pari. Though he liked her, the insecurity did raise his head time and again. After the concert, he assumed pari deliberately lost out and shouted at her again. The reason he gave her for being upset -- the world would always think that hadn't she lost out, he wouldnt have ever won the competition. Again, his insecurity -- he didn't want the world to think he got the trophy because someone else lost out...that he couldn't win the competition on his own.
However, when he came to know the truth, he did let his feelings for Pari come out and loved her.
The later morning when Pari talked of marriage, it set him off on a rage again. Both of them had a point here.
From Ishan's POV -- Ishan was a poor guy who wanted to have a decent life, where he need not depend on others for his basic needs. He wanted to earn and make a good living and hence was striving hard. At present he was just a college guy with no earnings, is studies were going on because of this music competition...and came from a poor family wherein he had to just gulp the decisions thrown at him (his dialogue). So for such a guy it was obvious to think from his brains than his heart.
Plus he never said he didn't love Pari. He did declare that he did love her, but needed time to settle down. His points were valid -- how if her family found out about them, they would just bump him off. Pari came from rich family and he was a nobody with no earnings, why would any family give their daughter to such a man? He plainly stated that "he was not saying that he won't marry her ever, but not now, at this point, because he needed time to grow"
Was he wrong? I don't think so. He loved Pari, but first wanted to settle his life and only then could he think of marriage. Otherwise how can he lead a family? He never said he was leaving her, he just asked for some time. Yes, he did make a wrong step of sleeping with her...and that costed him!
From Pari's POV -- Pari was a rich girl brought up with all the riches of the world. She perhaps had never got the harsh reality of life and thus was starry eyed. She fell of this guy whom she met on the fest...without knowing much about him. All she knew was she loved him and even slept with him because she loved him. After the night of making love, she assumed the next step would be to get married to the man of her dreams and start a music company etc. She was being dreamy and was being unrealistic -- can't help, she is in love.
Ishan was right when he asked "Kya tum sach much main koi pari ho jisne kabhi asli zindagi ka thapad kabhi khaya hi nahi"
Yes, she never had! For her life had been a bed of roses. Thus she couldn't understand why Ishan was not accepting her soon. When he can sleep with her, why not marry her soon...why should he need time? And she failed to understand his pov! Because she came from a total different world! She thought he doesn't love him, wants to leave her, assumed that he slept with her not because he loved her...! Poor girl!
The problem was they were from diametrically different world's and couldn't understand each other's POV. Ishaan thought Pari was being dreamy and Pari thought Ishaan was being harsh and never loved her perhaps.
But they did love each other for sure. Ishaan's frantic searches for her after she left, him keeping her locket carefully, his repentence for not having put forth his feelings to her in a proper way and then him calling her before going to US was all a way of telling that he did love her a lot...all he wanted was some time to prove himself.
However, she misunderstood and didn't tell him about the pregnancy. But time...she did give to him. 8 long years, she waited for him with the kid.
After 8 long years when he came back, all he wanted was his Pari. He went out with the dream of making big...and that dream was realized and now Ishan wanted to get back his pari. He stuck to his words. He needed time to prove himself and then would come to her. He came back. But was unsure of whether Pari would be still waiting for him. Coz, he assumed that she was angry on him and left him...Ishaan was more mature now and all he wanted was meet her once, even if he couldn't have her in his life again!! 😭
The father - son convo and interactions were the best parts of the show. It highlighted every emotion beautifully!!
And the climax was the best! Loved how Ishan- Pari got back. 👏
Loved how he accepted his mistakes and she did too and became a happy family again!! 😃
Anupamaa
