Regret or Redemption!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Regret or Redemption?

I've seen a lot of fingers being raised at Kunj, and well that's justified. Like I've said before, I'm a supporter of Kunj, but NOT a blind supporter who'll just ignore or pretend he has no flaws.

Kunj HAS flaws, he's the hero but at the end of the day he's a human. We see him as a hero, but in the show he's far from it. He's a regular guy who fell in love with a girl, got betrayed, literally loved his family to death, can do anything for his loved ones.

Now I'd like it make it clear that I IN NO WAY SUPPORT HIM SLAPPING Twinkle or any other girl as a matter of fact. I'm not a feminist but I know where to draw a line.

What he did is completely unjustified and completely useless. But does he really need to REDEEM himself? Coz as far as I know, redemption is a way to completely change the way one person used to live in, evilly that is. Like a rebirth in a way.

I mean redemption, according to me should be done by a character like Yuvi, whose done so many conspiracies that even the count of stars would fall short. A person like Yuvi should redeem himself.

Coming back to Kunj, he needs to regret his actions. He should make sure that he shouldn't repeat it at all and also that apologise to Twinkle for what he did. I read posts that say that Twinkle needs to divorce Kunj, walk out of their marriage. But let me ask you, is it really necessary? I, for one, think that Kunj could've walked out, no actually, he didn't need to marry Twinkle at all after the whole MU and accusation thing, but he did, because he respected her family and most importantly her.

Can't we give Kunj one chance? Yes, because for me this is his first mistake because I really don't count for not trusting Twinkle as his fault.

Coming back to the slap, Kunj will always be at fault for that unless and until it's shown that he did it because of a ploy or plan he's cooking, but apart from that I'll hold it against Kunj until he apologises.

P.S : I'd like to make a point here, Kunj is not a hero, he's a person whose full of emotions, he's aggressive when he needs to be and most importantly he's impulsive like everybody else. And that's what made him slap Twinkle, the panic he was in made him react in the worse possible way.

Second, do you seriously want a perfect Kunj? Like all heroic? Coz to be honest the character with no flaws are absolutely of no use, I mean agar Kunj ekdum perfect hoga toh usmein and ek sacrificing Bahu mein kya difference hoga?

We like Kunj because, as a character we can relate to him, he's very normal and behaves like normal people do in a situation.

No ones perfect and I'm glad that Kunj isn't perfect as well, otherwise he'd be predictable and that would be no fun at all. Right now, we are seeing a different side of Kunj which we never thought existed in him. Though this side is a little annoying, it's just a part of Kunj, which we should be ready to accept.

So what do you think? Kunj should redeem himself or regret what he did.
Do you think that Kunj and Twinkle should separate ways just to start their romance?

LAST THOUGHT : I personally think this track will help Kunj and Twinkle to accept each other coz this is a track where we are seeing Twinkle watch Kunj protecting her from the family drama and we will hopefully see Kunj admiring Twinkle's trust in him.

Hopefully this track will do some good!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i agree kunj needs to regret his actions redemption is not needed for him it is needed for person like uv .kunj is a normal human being not any extra ordinary person soits normal he will have flaws otherwise he will be a saint.i hope after the entire mess get sorted out this will strengthen their bond ,and increase their trust on each other ,if in future if they face similar situation they will become each others strength and overcome it for sure.it is a test for their relationship i am sure they will definitely win this test.iam sure uv will get exposed soon and wish twinkle is able to set kunj free from false accusation and from the jail and get the real culprits get punished . i think todays entire incident was an eye opener for kunj and how much twinkle trusted him .i hope he will reciprocate this trust and help her in mission pardafaash uv and anita
Edited by kusharberry - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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You said it all

He did not slap her because of Bebe's injury, he was worried for bebe n Twinkle's "Yuvi mention" at that time he couldn't able to handle

It was definitely a huge mistake but as u wrote he is also a human
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Posted: 9 years ago
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When Twinkle moved forward n told "Kunj can't do such a thing" to everyone n Kunj looked at her during Sajnave background "That look" Stole the epi for me

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I totally agree with u
kunj is also human being
but he should regret what he did with twinkle for not trusting her
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This is literally what i have been saying since the start...
Second evrything u mentioned. Have nothing to add to it..
I'd love to see kunj repent and make it up to twinkle.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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agreed with you. every human being ain't perfect
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I too agree with all you said.
I just don't want it to be like a regular soap where the cvs forget that
Kunj has to regret his treatment of Twinkle forgetting what type of people (Anita and Uv) he is dealing with.A bit of remorse on Kunj's part will be nice just to acknowledge that it was wrong he did not think of Twinkles point of view where UV was concerned.
I don't like the fact that after so much negativity that happens there is no continuity.The characters at least should accept their fault before moving on.This could be an opportunity to give us those cute moments between TwiNJ.Just my POV.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you my soul thinker. You and i share the same mind and i am so glad when you come.on say what you say cause we are usually always on the same page.
I agree kunj needs to regret in my opinion and yuvi redeem. I think ive been using the words correctly...

Kunj was and is wrong for slapping her. Not at all right. However i think of it from pov. And from pov. Kunj has constantly told twinkle to please stop creating situations and from his pov she was so hell bent on proving uv wrong that in his eyes he saw twinkles carelessness topple over poor bebe a woman whom is next to his mom is respect and he loves and adores. Anyone in that position would be fuming. Was the slap justified ABSOLUTELY NOT. Because in marriage i believe a hand should never go up. but i do get where kunj came from with it. In no way am i saying he should have slapped her. Im just saying if i put myself in kunjs shoes out of anger and frustration i myself dont know how id react. Maybe id do the same. who knows.

Id also like to point out and make the statement to all the people criticizing kunj for slapping twinkle and reacting so harshley that they want twinj to seperate and twinkle to leave kunj... to each their own. And while i dont agree with that particularly, i do agree twinkle needs to stand up for herself.. which she is doing.dnt think shes a doormat. I agree twinkle needs to make kunj realize that he needs to trust her just like she trusts him. But trust builds slowly in relationships. Kunj for the most part does trust twinkle. But i sound like a broken record when i say that he has no proof against yuvi and all twinkles acts are doing is creating drama in the family which he just doesnt want. Hes a family guy and loves his family. And doesnt want the drama daily.

Kunj cares for her clearly. He trusts her. For goodness sake instead of appreciating him arranging a party for her to make her happy, everyones forgetting everything he has done for her now and in the past, and easily focusing on one slap and saying they should seperate. Again to each their own, but i dont agree with it at all.

Marriages if they were based on a single act of mistrust, no one would get married ever. This entire situation is only going to teach twinkle and kunj how to increase their trust in eachother and recognize how much each individual cares for one another and how much they both need eachother. Twinkle ignored the slap and people say shes a pati vrata sati savitri. No. She is loving of her husband Yes, but she most likely ignored the slap cause she probbably understood where kunj was coming from. She knows he would never intentionally harm her considering how much he is always there for her. That also wasnt the time to leave kunj over a slap and storm out and stand up for herself. That moment and all the moments currently are to save kunj, save her family and expose yuvi. Once its all over, she can and i fully support her if she wants to ignore kunj or confront him about his mistrust and slapping her. But NO i do not think she needs to leave him for that. I dnt mind if twinkle however distances hersrlf from kunj. Not physically.. just ignoring or cold shoulder or whatever .. a little punishment for him to repent will be worth watching and always is cute. 😳

Kunj does need to regret his behavior.. he trusts twinkle but clearly is more rational and following of evidence first than what twinkle says and thats all good in life and court to judge after proof has been evidenced, but in marriage.. especially theirs and in addition to twinkles history with yuvi and anita included kunj needs to trust twinkle when she says something. And have faith that what she says might be true.

Id also like to add to this whole slap thing that i love how when someone evil yuvi or anita gets slapped numerous times we all cheer and count the amounts of slaps they deserve. But in this one case some of us arent willing to see a characters pov and reason behind the slap.

All in all.. kunj needs to regret his behavior and mistrust of twinkle and hopefully this is a learning situation for him. Twinkle needs to confront kunjs mistrust in her and get him to apologize for the slap. Which im sure she wont need to and kunj will apologize for his brhavior on his own. And going forward both of them need to be in their marriage together. Mistrust lack of faith and keeping secrets wont help them stay together itll only drive them apart.

Id also like to backtrack my own words cause prior to actually watching the slap episode i just heard kunj slapped her and i was really frustrated and called kunj a hypocrite. I didnt know the context. Now that ive seen the episode and saw where it was coming from i still domt think slapping was the way to go, but i dnt think he intentionally wanted to hurt twinkle. Im sure he will regret it knowing kunjs character. Or at least i sure hope he does.


Ps i love that you said kunjs is human and he has flaws. Exactly. Shit like this happens in real life as far as slaps go. It humanizes these characters. Kunj isnt perfect but he also isnt evil by any means and doesnt deserve so much hate.

Edited by -BolNaHalke- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I 100% agree with you. It is completely unfair of us to judge Kunj for being human. Everyone has their weaknesses and for Kunj that is his family. The slap was wrong and unjustified but at the end of the day I personally think it'll make Twinj's relationship stronger. As for redemption vs regret, I just want to see Kunj regret what he has done. As you said redemption is for a character such as Yuvi who has committed many sins. The way you have written your argument is beautiful. It's well structured and gives a clear message. So for that I congratulate you.

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