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Originally posted by: StarySKY
Nynu .. š¤I totally agree with you .. you said it allAmazing post of yours .. šSwara .. I tried really hard to understand her , to know how she is thinking and why ?But I failed .. I just can't get her ..Swara has always been the difficult one to understand, despite not being a layered character, mostly because she tries to fit everything into the shades of black and white, into the boxes of right and wrong. And her decisions are based on her classifying anything which is not right is definitely wrong, but never the other way around. So because Sanskaar does now do what her idea of right is he is wrong. Life does not work that way, as I wrote in Litost, usually there are different levels of rightI am not saying Sanskar is right but Swara is more wrong .. And I can't feel sympathy for her because whatever he is doing - as it seems to me somehow - she desarve it , all of it ..Sanskar just started it but Swara is the who finished it ..True that, I agree Sanskaar was not right when he said he would break up with her, but he apologised and begged for another chance, but Swara is...and if she continues, she would really finish them off.Swara as always is the perfect daughter , perfect sister , perfect daughter-in-law , perfect sister-in-law .. but never ever been the perfect wife or perfect lover .. ( I can't say she didn't love Sanskar or not loving him now , but ... )I kind of feel that Swara still didn't forget what Sanskar did to her in the past ( i.e his revenge ) even if it is not intentionally but like by her subconscious .. There is always a trust issue from her side ..Ragini kidnapping , Kavita .. this are before their marriage , the real one .. But after that though as they are husband and wife they should never be hiding things from each other but she always do that and land in a big trouble .. Rajat truth , when she came to know about her brother , when she come to know about the blackmailer , the truth about Adrash and the last but not the least her deal with Ragini .. She do this every time hiding things from him and he always there for her saving her every time ..It felt like she doesn't trust him enough to share everything with him ..I agree with you when you say she is the perfect everything, but not the daughter in law - she cannot be one if she is not a wife, it is ironic, right when DP says she is the daughter of their house?I think Swara has not forgotten about Sanskaar, too. She is so quick to doubt him and does not waste any time pronouncing him guilty. And for one who would never like Sanskaar not telling her things upfront, she always hides facts and her plans from him. Always, and gets upset when he treats that as a lack of trust in him. She certainly is one confused soul.What did Sanskar do to desarve all this from her ? How she turned to this cold hearted ? Why all this anger ? Why all this blame ?She has the right to be angry on Sanskar for what he said about breaking their relationship .. For a week Ok acceptable , but For 6 months .. really ?!! Why this blame for Laksh disappearance ?!Laksh is a grown man and can made his own choices .. ( well hello Sanskar is elder just by 6 months ) No one was blaming him till she said it .. Ragini didn't and so did Annapurna ( I think she blamed Sanskar after what Swara said .. well Swara do and say what is right .. )Even if we agree that Laksh disappeared because of Sanskaar and Swara is right to be upset for Sanskaar is the reason for Ragini's pain, she should be feeling sad for being away from him, seeing him deteriorate to a guy who needs alcohol to make it though the night.And yes, surprisingly Ragini has not blamed Sanskaar even once, she would know that Laksh left for his own impulsive reasons rather than because he was scared off by Sanskaar. But when has Madam actually ever paid attention to the perspective behind the facts?And why this cold hearted .. she didn't feel anything in this whole 6 months ?!! Sanskar said that he can't live without her , she is the light of his life .. did she forget all this or what happened to him when everyone thought she is dead ( sorry I forgot she wasn't there when this happend ) If the man her husband who loved her so much , always smiling turned 180 degree and start drinking .. start to hate her as he says .. how can she not to feel scared or even concerned .. ?! He said once that he hate drinking .. How can this all be his ego problem .. ?! She can't see how much pain he feel ?!And this is my major grouse, fine, let us for a minute agree that Swara was justified in walking out of the MM, I am making a very very huge concession here, I still do not accept it, so it is more for argument's sake. But then, how come she is not affected by Sanskaar, not even a bit? There is no sadness, no love, no sympathy not even pity. God, that man is the one you loved, gave of yourself and today you treat him with contempt? Even if a beggar on the roadside, falls down drunk, she would have rushed to his aid. And her husband whom she still loves, supposedly, does not evoke even a twinge of regret in her - if not for what she had done (I forgot, she is always right) at least for what he now is?About Nikhil thing ..I don't think that Sanskar mistrusting her or anything .. he is just hurt and jealous .. Come to see what he says and do , he just seeking attention from her .. to see her reaction .. ( like a child when he want his parents attention he would make a disaster for that ) ..Absolutely agree with you, Sanskaar is definitely not the jealous type. It think it is the hurt and the pain - one that she can blindly trust Nikhil and secondly that she can actually find it in herself to laugh as though nothing has happened in her life, that not having him with her does not affect her at all. After all, actions do speak louder than words, and here there are no words that could give Sanskaar any hope of reconciliation.I think Sawa is ( sorry for the words ) Stupid, dumb and delusional if she really think that she will come back as Laksh come back ..Sanskar is her personal toy or something ?! Sanskar once he is hurt , he will never forgive easily .. she did it before when she suspected him for Ragini kidnapping .. and it took her a lot of time to gain his trust again to make him believe in her love for him .. ( she literally begged him to trust her and he did nothing and walked away ) Now what she will do ?It had been 6 months and more , how she will get Sanskar back to her ? She doesn't even show any sings of regret for what she did .. she is always right and it just Sanskar ego what break their realtionship .. seriously ?! ( from which planet she did come from ?!!! )No the words are very appropriate, she is over confident and completely delusional. For all the goodness she possess, she had never understood what it needs for a relationship, especially one like a marriage, which needs a continuous emotional inputs. You do not build a relationship by threatening the other person to bend to your will and think that you can simply waltz in and out of their lives at your wish. She also needs to understand how wrong she is.And why she is taking Sanskar's words as an absolute thing.. truly as he is saying ?! She said something about look at the eyes the words can mean a different thing .. then why she didn't try this with him ?! If she didn't take his words seriously about to consider him dead if she mend her relation with her sister .. then why she took the rest as an absolute truth .. ?! And she keep saying that Sanskar hates her .. really she does believe that ?!!!Swara needs a gigantic reality check, maybe Sanskaar should simply tell her that he is moving on and should do that. She knows that she is his weakness and is taking absolute advantage of that. Her idea of being able to read his eyes, it is only when it is convenient to her, currently she is busy reading Ragini, Shomi, Shekar, Uttara, and Nikhil's eyes to have any time or inclination to look at Sanskaar. And he should know, once Laksh is found, she would anyway go back to him. š”š”And if Swara blamed Sanskar for Ragini condition after Laksh death news .. this is will be the last nail in the coffin ..Sanskar must not accept anything from Swara or anyone else .. ( I do really hate breaking up , but what remain in their relationship to be mend for ?!! ) But I can't judge before watching the scene .. so let see what will happen .. ( though I have no hope )Exactly what will happen, and as per the spoilers, even Sanskaar will blame himself and Swara will console him (Really...) thus proving her right and now that Sanskaar will apologise, Swara will be back in her Mission ..." whatever it is going to beš¤¢š¤¢I lost hope on Swara from a long time and I learnt not to expect anything from her ..Same here...I wish there were more stories, where Sanskaar gives up on her and moves on with someone else.P.SThat was so long .. sorry I got carried away .. and still I have more to say .. but I think this is enough .. š
Absolutely fine with me, go on if you like.LoveKhushi
for me she has gone long ago she killed swasan whnever she decided to lied to him nd go behind his back fr every living, non-living people material relation out there...
For swara sanskar become a source of booster nd shoulder on what she cn cry when she is sad fr others bt refused to gv that shoulder a support in shoulder holder's sadness.
her begging in kavita phase or tking his nm while falling ffom cliff wnt undo his long 6 mnths suffering which is forcedly charged on him by her...
Honestly any kinda accusation of her wl nt effect us either anymore that phrase us gone.
Once i gt she is nt mine Swara thn hw cm i expect her to b sanskar ki swara
P.S - Now nthing cn light her up in mah eyes.her love for sanskar is also a bubble like her belief on Ragini's intention of getting laksh is pure love
Originally posted by: chibi_deea
I'm more of the silent type person but I just got to say this:
I completely - 100000% - agree with youYour analysis is bang on šššI thought she would slowly realize that accusing Sanskar of Laksh's disappearance is wrong but instead she keeps on adding accusations that can in fact be held against her. Heights of hypocrisy man
Well... everyone said everything... nothing more to it...š bang on analysis di...š
Tani
Originally posted by: NitaReid
Me Me Me Me And Me
Hi NynaYou know we are thinking along the same lines right..So i am sure it wont be shocking when i say i agree with everything you said 100%.. Girl, yesterday you told you want to rant and i felt the same too ..I am glad i got this thread to rant aheadšRanting was nice, it felt good to get it out and surprising that so many agree to it. Swara is truly beyond hopeSeriously i dont get Swara.. And i lay on the bed last night thinking about how her realization or redemption can work out.. Because the blunders she made a sorry wont cut it in my minds..Since i know the Cvs wont give it to me , i thought let me think of an logical way..And i got none,absolutely none.. I fear we crossed the bridge of reunion long time ago.. Whatever swara do from now on, i fear i wont be able to accept it..Beg,plead,apologize,save Uttara ,save laksh none of this is going to make me like her and that were cvs destroyed herSeriously, all doors seem to be closed for her - correct that - she has locked all of them and hammered gigantic bars across them for good measure. There is no way she can work her way to earning forgiveness, for she still continues to blame Sanskaar.š”š”Biggest worry to compensate Swara,they might ruin Sanskar to that extent..And that my biggest worry.I got SwaSan destroyed,Swara destroyed and not Sanskar tooš”š”š”The spoilers already indicate that, Sanskaar will blame himself for Laksh's death and Swara would console him𤢠Then she spots Abhimanyu, proves him to be Laksh thus absolving Sanskaar of all guilt - dutiful wife š”š” that she is.And my biggest anger is that i lost connnect with Swara.. And i am stuck in my FF..I had so lovely moment planned for SwaSan in that chapter and now i feel too sadist to make them happy even in my FF...What did this track do to all of us i wonder.. But anyway thanks dear for this post that let me rant .
It seemed to have worked quite well, your ranting - we got the update of BTM - I have read but waiting for page 100š³Lots of loveNita