Swara Vignette - No Hope for Redemption? - Page 3

Originally posted by: lucky.m

Nynu

I love you bangaram for this . Your words are like soothing balm over the fury I feel for Swara Reading your take made me as better as venting out .. I gave up on her and Cv's on their quest to make Swara an idol of righteousness of being a Adarsh Bahu , Adarsh Beti, Not to forget Adarsh Behna ..they sacrificed one of her most important role of being a good wife.

Fury seems to be the milder form of what I feel for her. The CVs are definitely going to make her the Adarsh everything (irony, considering the fact that son named Adarsh did not turn out to be so Adarsh😉) The CVs also seem to forget that she cannot be a adarsh bahu or a adarsh bhabhi if she is not a wife - forget about being a adarsh one

Her stand , her attitude of living in la la land of I am right at any cost,I cant go wrong irks me core and to an extent I cant name.😡 Its sad to see one half of OTP to fall down to an unrecognizable extent .This is not the Swara I know .. She is beyond redemption.

And the new OLVs prove the CVs- Sanskaar blames himself for Laksh's death and Swara consoles him - now her mission would be to prove Abhimanyu is Laksh and absolve Sanskaar proving how right and great wife she is

Please pack my sunny off to an island ..He deserves to live in peace not in midst of Paagal Mental waasi's,

Seriously - I am very very tempted to have Sunny move on with someone else Maybe he will be lucky, third time round.

Absolutely Bang on post 👏👏

Love

Lucky

PS; Do you mind If post this in twitter marking RS and Sharad and Colours and Helly . They need a wakening call.

Please go ahead, if you think it would make a difference.😕

Originally posted by: Rumadiv

Surely after finding lakshya as dead swara would blame sanskar and obviously ap will also blame... n it will shatter sanskar a lot n even our fans as they can't see sanskar in pain...

I seriously have a doubt now according to swaragini laksh s dead... n ragini to help her her sis swara tells tat she s ready to move on wit nikil n obviously swara will not believe as she know how ragini s obsessed wit laksh... OK now ragini after mourning for laksh for few months everyone will surely ask her to move n at one she will surely move even though not for herself for swaea she will move.. but my question is will swara go back to sanskar again..??? Or she will move on wit someone else... I know this will not happen as abimanyu aka laksh will return n more drama will be there.. I want to know..


If CVS want trp to increase they should at least show swara having some feeling towards sanskar n start to realise her mistake she did by hurting sanskars feeling...n star giving first priority to her husband then to her sis...

It won't happen as it is SWARAGINI obviously she all support her sis but same should be done wit ragini also giving importance to swara first n then to laksh which will never happen. Swara repent should be wroth but I guess CVS will make swara did s right as according to Indian television all female leading ladies are always true...!!!

Originally posted by: Sparkler8

Hi Nyna

Honestly I am exhausted thinking of this track. I don't find any possible way the CVs can rescue the impending ruin of the characters (if aren't already)

Somehow when you say Abhi is indeed Lakshya and the redemption to his life saviors and all.. That makes me feel a bit better about Laksh (only a bit! I had lost all confidence on this character long ago.)

As for Swara, I think you say it all.. I have nothing else to add.

I think I am going to stop following the show in exchange again. I would much rather envision the good ol' days and spin out FF and SS than watch the show and destroy my peaceful mind.

Cheers

Sharon

Nyna dear.. I am in my happy place after I updated btm.. Really happy place.. As I said I couldn't concentrate on it.. Started an OS too.. But then realized I was too selfish to make the readers wait.. So tried hard to work on it and finally updated it. Means right on I am on swasan happy land with swasan from my FF.. But this is Monday soon I will get awesome news of show Swara and my happy land will be destroyed.. I will get back to this thread to rant some more than.. Until then

Originally posted by: NitaReid

Nyna dear.. I am in my happy place after I updated btm.. Really happy place.. As I said I couldn't concentrate on it.. Started an OS too.. But then realized I was too selfish to make the readers wait.. So tried hard to work on it and finally updated it. Means right on I am on swasan happy land with swasan from my FF.. But this is Monday soon I will get awesome news of show Swara and my happy land will be destroyed.. I will get back to this thread to rant some more than.. Until then

Lots of love

Nita

Until the fake marriage track or the first marriage track, I would root for Swara to win. Her schemes were hilarious at times making me wonder where the police are, yet I would cheer for her.

Originally posted by: Sparkler8

Until the fake marriage track or the first marriage track, I would root for Swara to win. Her schemes were hilarious at times making me wonder where the police are, yet I would cheer for her.

But now, she is downright irritating with Lakshya disappeared, Sanskaar is at fault. My sister is crying, Sanskaar is at fault. No salt at home, Sanskaar is at fault.. 🤡 Okay maybe not the last, but you never know.

SSK had run an episode on one spoon..🤬 I can totally imagine Swara blaming Sanskaar for even her baby brother crying (bechara baccha shayad bhook ki wajah se ro raha hoga) 🤪

Sanskaar Maheshwari doesn't deserve this. Totally No-No 😒

Sorry this seems a rant, I just couldn't hold back after reading some spoilers..

Originally posted by: Nynaeve

I do not mind it at all, do not apologise, I am glad you can take out your frustration. Just this morning I had replied to Divya and I had a similar observation:

"Sanskaar is now used to being blamed for everything, I am sure the traffic jams or the sudden rains or unexpected dip in the temperature to the penguins not finding enough fish - every thing is Sanskaar's fault, if one asked Swara. I never realised that Sanskaar is so pivotal to the workings of the universe😉. "

And regarding that salt not being available complaint, given the recent demonetisation of the 1000 rupee note and 500 rupee note, there is a spate of "salt hoarding" (it is selling for a minimum of Rs. 50 per kg in Hyderabad) So Sanskaar being blamed for salt not being available is a compliment, he is directly involved in the Modi administration😈

Nynu 🤗🤗


See, once before we had gone through this rigmarole regarding how the serial chooses to portray remorse/redemption. At that time, it was Ragini. Instead of giving a compelling, layered character like hers a solid redemption track which many of us were so keen to see, remember what we got? We got Lakshya being made to do such negative things, Ragini's acts were supposed to pale by comparison. Ok, maybe not pale altogether, but at least, have a counterpoint saying "So what if she did this...He did this to her..." So basically, two wrongs make a right, X's and O's cancel each other out kind of thing. 😕


So here we have unfolding, the perfect remedy to counter the fact that Swara basically walked out on her marriage those months ago. A decision which was completely un-Swara like, if I may say so. At least, Un-original Swara like, who was always excessively devoted to the well being and comfort of those around her, but would never take such a step which would inflict mortal agony on someone she loved. And then, imagine, for 6 months, she stays away from her husband citing 'ego issues', despite knowing (as she must have), that he had taken to drink? 😕 It boggles the mind, really. And this despite the fact that I spend a lot of time, trying to think through possible loopholes and plot angles which might justify inane serial plots. Seriously. Pffftt.

But hey, we would imagine, that there is a profoundly moving track coming up; wherein Swara would gain some perspective----that while she need not fundamentally change as a person, she can continue always wanting to set things right around her; BUT she has to learn to take her marriage more seriously, she cannot, just cannot, hold it hostage/ place it of secondary importance to another's relationship. We certainly might hope for such a realization right? Are we going to get it? Perish the thought! We seem to be getting a perfect, engineered way to knock over all these difficult, existential questions of realization, repentance, remorse and redemption. How?

Its extremely simple, you see! So simple, that my 6 year old could have thought of it! Now that Lakshya would be reported dead, Sanskaar will blame himself. 🤢 😭 Why? No clue. I guess he will be emotionally shattered, because his own family will once again blame him for acts he never did and never would have done, either. That is besides the point. But now that Swara will sincerely reassure him that he is not to blame himself, it wipes the slate clean for her wrong decisions of the past, don't you see? If you don't see that logic, time to get new glasses. Or lasik eye surgery. Your choice! But don't ask for a genuine, thoughtful realization/ repentance/ remorse/ redemption.


Is it just me, somehow, who is finding logical lacunae here? If Swara says that Sanskaar is not to blame himself for Lakshya's death, why did she take a stand 6 months back, that he was to blame for Lakshya's disappearance? Why is there still tashan going on now, why doesn't she just return home, by his side, where she is supposed to be?

Yup, I know, I know. He said that he would never accept her back, that she cannot return to him even after Lakshya is found. But the whole world and its grandmother knows (and of course, Swara surely does!!!), that Sanskaar is saying this because she left him and walked out. And has never expressed any genuine contrition for doing so, or soul searching doubt if indeed she had made the right decision. If she actually told him that she missed him terribly, and that she felt she made a terrible mistake all those months back, he would rush to welcome her with open arms. Yes he would, even if she added a caveat that though she did wrong, he did wrong too, by snapping in anger that their bond was over (a statement he apologized for, and asked her for another chance for, right then, in fact...😕).

Basically, I know this is a rant. It is pointless and futile, and seems to be carping when after all, I should be glad that Swara is supporting Sanskaar and is not blaming him for Lakshya's 'death' (as the spoilers initially claimed she would). But the point is, this acknowledgement of his non-culpability in the present, should tie in with her realization of her monumental error in the past, and her remorse for the same. And her sincere attempts at making amends----by putting his feelings and interests first, a lot of the time, if not most of the time. Sigh...sometimes it seems like a pipe dream.

One point to ponder----why is the character of Sanskaar so very popular? Is it because he made no mistakes and has always been as pristine as driven snow? My Gosh, no. He is a complex character, edgy and layered. For every glittering facet in his nature, he has a corresponding angle which is in shade, too. But here's the deal. He realized his mistakes, and undertook a determined, sincere, devoted effort to redeem himself. He atoned for his mistakes, sins and misdemeanors, a hundred times over. And he has always treated Swara as his benediction, his salvation.

Would it be too much to hope...or at least to wish?...that Swara should glean some of that perspective? That she should not try to negate a past wrong (a terrible wrong), merely by platitudes of support in the present? She needs to walk the walk, not just talk the talk. Dare I hope for mission SwaSan from her, and not for mission 'Abhi is actually Lucky'? 😕 Scratch that, I know she will undertake mission 'Abhi is actually Lucky' with verve and sincerity--and I don't grudge her that. Really, I don't. After all, any sister would be concerned about her sister's happiness. But it would be ludicrous in the extreme, to expect that all her time would be focused only on her sister's reunion with her missing/ presumed dead husband. The required degree of attention, care and consideration to her own reunion with her own estranged husband, who still loves her with a potent, compelling intensity----surely, that is called for too? Sigh...One can but hope. 😕

Nynu...I have long ago reached the conclusion, that Oscar Wilde read the tea leaves very accurately, when it came to Mrs SSM. 😆


"It takes a thoroughly good woman to do a thoroughly stupid thing."
-- From Lady Windermere's Fan

"Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood."
--From The Sphinx Without a Secret

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Loads of Love,

----Viji

Viji,