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I am sorry but how is it 'double standards'?

Sanskaar was given benefit of doubt that time cos he had pretty much no monologues & the way he was behaving was quite OOC so theories were pouring in so as to WHY is he behaving like that. I had made quite a few myself but when it was proved that Sanskaar wasn't planning anything, many turned against him, talked against him, namecalled him including me so I really dunno what double standards we are talking about. People will always have differing views & would also sometimes have preferences towards a particular character, that doesn't mean they are showing double standards, it simply means one relates more to the preferred character than the other & thus has more inclination towards him & tries to defend that preferred character over the other. Swara isn't being said to be playacting is because she has monologues & is pretty much clear in her belief that it's all maasi behind it & she's thinking that Sanskaar is obsessed with Kavita & genuinely believing it so why would people theorise over it? Double standards would be for example, Laksh fans blaming Sanskaar for his past deeds while Laksh has committed crimes in the past too. Every character gets bashed when they behave unreasonably so it's alright I guess.

I myself has more preference towards Sanskaar cos I relate to him more but I do love Swara equally & try to understand both of them. I bashed Sanskaar for the way he behaved in the past, infact I can vouch for this that many SwaSan fans were utterly disappointed with him & bashed him & now some are bashing Swara which is okay. We cannot club everyone together & cry double standards when there are also people there who understand Swara & support her. I do too, I was initially angry at Swara but then I saw the situation, where her mother just had an attack & the girl just snapped at Sanskaar in her own panic & fear. Later her heartfelt apology completely melted me & it was all good so don't think too much about this. Swara is really being pretty unreasonable in her doubts & she really needs to trust Sanskaar & understand the context in which Sanskaar keeps taking Kavita's name. The MU is plain stupid & so I can understand where the frustration on Swara is coming from. If Sanskaar is saying that he SAW Kavita with his own eyes then she should understand that he's not lying or hallucinating. Sanskaar isn't delusional thar he'd be imagining Kavita in a mandir where there's no one except for them two. If he says there's Kavita behind all this, she needs to trust him just like he does with regards to Maasi. Swara knows that Maasi was there with her in the house all the time when the attack on Shomi happened & Sanskaar showed her the broken doll with her face on it & the whole Kavita incident that happened at the same time so how can maasi be at two places in the same time? It's really high time that both SwaSan realise that it's a two player game & hatch a plan together to catch the culprit & prove themselves right cos both of them are actually aiming the right person but IDK what's stopping them from concluding that both could really be well together involved here.


No offence intended, just my POV.

hmm even that time I blamed CVs now too I blame the CVs. Just to create MU between Swasan CVs are giving Swara weird dialogues. That time me too posted that Sanskar must be acting, but later on CVs didn't give any explanation. Just to bring Kavita, CVs destroyed Sanskar's image. Now also we can expect that Swara is acting, showing Maasi or whoever doing this that we are fighting... but as usual I don't expect that CVs will give any explanation That time I didn't bash Sanskar and now I didn't bash Swara, both time I am angry with the CVs.😡

Asmita agree with you.. don't know why all the time Swara is the one to be blamed !
Even Sanskar behaved like a fool during the divorce drama, We forgave him..
Swara is also a human being.
okay now people will start to call me Swara supporter and Sanskar hater..
SwaSan is made of Swara and Sanskar both..
I love them equally and become angry on them equally and supports them equally..

Asmi you know how much I support Sanskar and his actions but at this current situation I support Swara. Her phone conversation was fine with me because I could understand why she was talking like that. I was more happy with the way she spoke to Sanskar when he came to meet her. The only thing that bugs me is the precap. But I am not jumping into conclusions till the episode airs. Swara has always had the worst dialogue till date. I really want it to be some plan of Swara though I doubt it.

Swara don't have any reason to doubt Kavita but swasan know massi openly told that she is (jiji)not happy with this marriage & secondly few months back sanskar know swara never go back to lucky but when he heard his name on swara's mouth he clearly hurt so same goes with swara. Sankey know massi but he also not trusting swara.
I am Swasan fan

I don't agree that most people have double standards.

Originally posted by: MFRanjini

hmm even that time I blamed CVs now too I blame the CVs. Just to create MU between Swasan CVs are giving Swara weird dialogues. That time me too posted that Sanskar must be acting, but later on CVs didn't give any explanation. Just to bring Kavita, CVs destroyed Sanskar's image. Now also we can expect that Swara is acting, showing Maasi or whoever doing this that we are fighting... but as usual I don't expect that CVs will give any explanation That time I didn't bash Sanskar and now I didn't bash Swara, both time I am angry with the CVs.😡

Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.

I am sorry but how is it 'double standards'?

Sanskaar was given benefit of doubt that time cos he had pretty much no monologues & the way he was behaving was quite OOC so theories were pouring in so as to WHY is he behaving like that. I had made quite a few myself but when it was proved that Sanskaar wasn't planning anything, many turned against him, talked against him, namecalled him including me so I really dunno what double standards we are talking about. People will always have differing views & would also sometimes have preferences towards a particular character, that doesn't mean they are showing double standards, it simply means one relates more to the preferred character than the other & thus has more inclination towards him & tries to defend that preferred character over the other. Swara isn't being said to be playacting is because she has monologues & is pretty much clear in her belief that it's all maasi behind it & she's thinking that Sanskaar is obsessed with Kavita & genuinely believing it so why would people theorise over it? Double standards would be for example, Laksh fans blaming Sanskaar for his past deeds while Laksh has committed crimes in the past too. Every character gets bashed when they behave unreasonably so it's alright I guess.

I myself has more preference towards Sanskaar cos I relate to him more but I do love Swara equally & try to understand both of them. I bashed Sanskaar for the way he behaved in the past, infact I can vouch for this that many SwaSan fans were utterly disappointed with him & bashed him & now some are bashing Swara which is okay. We cannot club everyone together & cry double standards when there are also people there who understand Swara & support her. I do too, I was initially angry at Swara but then I saw the situation, where her mother just had an attack & the girl just snapped at Sanskaar in her own panic & fear. Later her heartfelt apology completely melted me & it was all good so don't think too much about this. Swara is really being pretty unreasonable in her doubts & she really needs to trust Sanskaar & understand the context in which Sanskaar keeps taking Kavita's name. The MU is plain stupid & so I can understand where the frustration on Swara is coming from. If Sanskaar is saying that he SAW Kavita with his own eyes then she should understand that he's not lying or hallucinating. Sanskaar isn't delusional thar he'd be imagining Kavita in a mandir where there's no one except for them two. If he says there's Kavita behind all this, she needs to trust him just like he does with regards to Maasi. Swara knows that Maasi was there with her in the house all the time when the attack on Shomi happened & Sanskaar showed her the broken doll with her face on it & the whole Kavita incident that happened at the same time so how can maasi be at two places in the same time? It's really high time that both SwaSan realise that it's a two player game & hatch a plan together to catch the culprit & prove themselves right cos both of them are actually aiming the right person but IDK what's stopping them from concluding that both could really be well together involved here.


No offence intended, just my POV.

In one way swara is right. Because for her mausi is doing all this. For her Kavita sacrificed her love for them.

I completely understand Swara's insecurity in this case. And I don't think she is doubting Sanskaar's love for her when she says "obsessed" (although that is a wrong word to use in this circumstance, but inserted into the script very cleverly by the cvs to show misunderstanding). For Swara, Sanskaar need not be in love with Kavita to remember her. She may think he still has some residual guilt, after all he did feel responsible for Kavita's future when she came back. And he never had time to deal with Kavita's return or her exit from his life. Things have just been happening one after the other so quickly in their lives.