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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes Sanskaar commands respect for unnecessarily sacrificing his love.
Yes Sanskaar commands respect for getting engaged to one girl n at the same time thinking about other girl.
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I don't know why I'm not able to respect Sanskaar 😆
And I'll not like it if Sanskaar behaves rudely with Kavita seriously I'll not like it.
Kavita is behaving childish bcos she feels Sanskaar loves her n he himself said he is the same old Sanskaar n I'm sure she will not behave this way with anybody else.

Coming to Sanskaar, Sanskaar is doing wrong by getting engaged to kavita n thinking about Swara all the time. I understand he is not able to suppress those feelings for Swara n at the same time he wants to help Kavita.
But he can help her as a friend right.
And what is he going to do after getting married to kavita ?? Will they stay as friends forever ??? or is he going to see Swara in Kavita everytime they do IT?? or he thinks he will be able to love kavita back ??? if he thinks he will be able to love Kavita back then fine.
I don't understand why Sanskaar can't help Kavita as a friend

And this is just my opinion I don't know if I'm right or wrong.
And secondly sorry for hurting u guys
And thirdly I don't want to fight with anyone bcos of these fictional characters.
Edited by Nikkkkkkkkk - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: Nikkk

Yes Sanskaar commands respect for unnecessarily sacrificing his love.
Yes Sanskaar commands respect for getting engaged to one girl n at the same time thinking about other girl.
👏 👏 👏

I don't know why I'm not able to respect Sanskaar 😆
And I'll not like it if Sanskaar behaves rudely with Kavita seriously I'll not like it.
Kavita is behaving childish bcos she feels Sanskaar loves her n he himself said he is the same old Sanskaar n I'm sure she will not behave this way with anybody else.

Coming to Sanskaar, Sanskaar is doing wrong by getting engaged to kavita n thinking about Swara all the time. I understand he is not able to suppress those feelings for Swara n at the same time he wants to help Kavita.
But he can help her as a friend right.
And what is he going to do after getting married to kavita ?? Will they stay as friends forever ??? or is he going to see Swara in Kavita everytime they do IT?? or he thinks he will be able to love kavita back ??? if he thinks he will be able to love Kavita back then fine.
Otherwise its really bad to marry someone n think about some other girl.

And this is just my opinion I don't know if I'm right or wrong.
And secondly sorry for hurting u guys
And thirdly I don't want to fight with anyone bcos of these fictional characters.


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Nikk...hoshiyar logon ko isharaa hi kaafi hai...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: .FairyDust.

Kavya, I love you SO much for this post. 🤗 Much needed one and SO accurate! 👏👏

Anna and me were discussing the same thing last night and we both completely agree with what you've got here.
Sanskaar giving her flowers was a sweet gesture! He was genuinely trying to make her feel comfortable and happy. He's a softie when it comes to people close to him and he'll go out of his way to bring a smile on their faces and that is what he did. And I didn't mind Kav---San today (part of it is because they were much better than the horror that was RagYa 🤢), I was a little upset as we didn't get SwaSan but No I didn't mind Kav---San. And once I got over my disappointment that we got BJKT in the name of SwaSan, I felt this sudden rush of love and admiration for Sanskaar. He is SO good!! ❤️ He can truly do anything to get a smile on the faces of people he holds dear/feels responsible for and he's a man who keeps his word. I LOVE him sooo much!! He's a gem! I want a man just like Sanskaar now. 🤔😳😆
And all I was thinking about was that if Sanskaar can do all this to make Kavi happy, just imagine the things he'll be doing for Swara!
And don't throw tomatoes at me for this (😕😆) but I don't hate Kav--San neither do I hate Kavita as of now. As Kavita hasn't done anything yet that will make me hate her, she may in the future but nope nothing as of now. And Kav---San scenes show us how Sanskaar was..his love for Kavita has played a very pivotal role in shaping him into the man he is today and bringing SwaSan together. So as much as I dislike this BS I don't really hate Kavita for now. No guarantee for the future though. 😆

And this will be ending tonight and we'll finally get SwaSan so what Kavita or Kav--San do today really doesn't bother me.
And really sorry to all you guys here for being so inactive on IF. I don't comment on all the posts but I do read them all. Miss you guys 🤗

-Yukthi.


Kavya 🤗

Absolutely LOVE you for making the post!! Absolutely Love ya! 🤗 I know I have been missing from the forum a lot but I have been silently reading all your posts and have managed to comment on one or two of them. Have been restricting my time on the forum (due to illogical and kiddish posts all around the forum by most people will know who 😆) - but when Yukti told me about your post, could not resist. So big jhappis! 🤗

Yukti and I are probably two crazy nut heads who have found nothing wrong with Kavita-Sanskaar till date. Maybe because we wanted to see what Sanskaar was like when he was in love with this woman and we got such a brilliant insight into the young Sanskaar. Frankly the touching and the hugging does not bother me because that is how KavSan were before and no matter how much we deny, Kavita was his first love who he was crazily close to. I know it can get to the eyes, but I have really been okay with it because Kavita from her perspective has not been wrong (till now).

When Sanskaar said yes for the engagement - he did it to make his first love happy and I did not see anything wrong with it then. I think I mentioned this to Shona, and Sanskaar himself said it in the next episode, there is a much bigger possibility of Sanskaar falling back in love with Kavita and being happy with her. It would have taken time but it could happen and Sanskaar as a character has never been selfish but selfless and his actions towards Kavita, by trying to truly move on with her commands HUGE respect! I actually am in awe that an RS show has a character like Sanskaar. 😆 Btw, if Kavita is the one who does commit suicide and is the one to die (or even acts like committing suicide), I think Sanskaar's insecurities regarding Kavita comes true too. He does fear that she will not be able to take in the fact that he loves someone else and is going to move on. True, if she fakes it, then Sanskaar will be in for a big surprise and he can call his first love a 'bachpana' (which I sometimes think it was too) and move on. 😆

Coming to Sanskaar indulging Kavita and giving Kavita roses or playing 'holi' with her - my love and admiration just grew 100 times more for him! 😳 I told this to someone, again on Shona's post, if Sanskaar has decided to move on in his life, he will do it with his full heart and genuinely try and make Kavita happy and comfortable. True, he slipped up when he sang Manchala and when he went and said sorry to Swara, but that was his heart slipping to provide his true love the comfort. However, when it comes to Kavita, he is genuinely trying, like I always knew he would. He would give her a fair chance and I will say this, if this had gone forward to wedding, Sanskaar would have kept all his promises to Kavita and this would have been a successful marriage still because Sanskaar is a moral person unlike you-know-who. 😆😆 Thank goodness that is not going to happen. 😉

And like you said, Sanskaar truly is unlike any of the male leads. I have seen shows (what am I talking about - our dear Laksh is a prime example of it) where the male lead marries another girl but treats her like crap or either continues whining - but Sanskaar isnt one of them. Man! He is doing so much for Kavita who he once loved - imagine all that he would do for Swara 😳😆

And absolutely agree with most of the posts on the other pages too! You guys rock! 👏

Lots of Love
Anna

P.S : You don't even want me to get started on Laksh and Ragya. So no comments! 🤢
Edited by --Anna-- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: Nikkk

Yes Sanskaar commands respect for unnecessarily sacrificing his love.
Yes Sanskaar commands respect for getting engaged to one girl n at the same time thinking about other girl.
👏 👏 👏

I don't know why I'm not able to respect Sanskaar 😆
And I'll not like it if Sanskaar behaves rudely with Kavita seriously I'll not like it.
Kavita is behaving childish bcos she feels Sanskaar loves her n he himself said he is the same old Sanskaar n I'm sure she will not behave this way with anybody else.

Coming to Sanskaar, Sanskaar is doing wrong by getting engaged to kavita n thinking about Swara all the time. I understand he is not able to suppress those feelings for Swara n at the same time he wants to help Kavita.
But he can help her as a friend right.
And what is he going to do after getting married to kavita ?? Will they stay as friends forever ??? or is he going to see Swara in Kavita everytime they do IT?? or he thinks he will be able to love kavita back ??? if he thinks he will be able to love Kavita back then fine.
I don't understand why Sanskaar can't help Kavita as a friend

And this is just my opinion I don't know if I'm right or wrong.
And secondly sorry for hurting u guys
And thirdly I don't want to fight with anyone bcos of these fictional characters.



well said nikk.. agree with you 👏 👏 👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Respectable post Kavya.!
Kavita and Sanskaar scenes made me flinch too. but there this fact also exists that they loved each other, girl doesn't know the reality, and Sanskaar really cares and is concerned for her. All because of him being a good human being, yeah, both Swasan are so selfless, but isn't it this quality make us proud and them admirable. :)
the same thing I was discussing with Viji because when Sanskaar does anything , he truly takes its responsibility. that's why for a moment I was so afraid of him moving on despite Swara in his heart! thank Goodness! Both Swasan realised on time(because of not realising right path , I wasn't buying Sanskaar's sorry), this shouldn't be case of self sacrificing or them feeling guilty for choosing themselves not Kavita and its good that Kavita realised them loving each other.
But thing is have patience!! all we want Swasan happy and content together, getting their much deserved peace , which I guess we are getting among melodrama. As together they can overcome any difficulties. :))
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with you
No matter how much we disgust at kavkar scene but we should remember thats it's natural for sanskar character as he's a gentleman and he truly gives respect to all others around him. He can't be rude to his ex love n friend kavita
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikkk

Yes Sanskaar commands respect for unnecessarily sacrificing his love.
Yes Sanskaar commands respect for getting engaged to one girl n at the same time thinking about other girl.
👏 👏 👏

I don't know why I'm not able to respect Sanskaar 😆
And I'll not like it if Sanskaar behaves rudely with Kavita seriously I'll not like it.
Kavita is behaving childish bcos she feels Sanskaar loves her n he himself said he is the same old Sanskaar n I'm sure she will not behave this way with anybody else.

Coming to Sanskaar, Sanskaar is doing wrong by getting engaged to kavita n thinking about Swara all the time. I understand he is not able to suppress those feelings for Swara n at the same time he wants to help Kavita.
But he can help her as a friend right.
And what is he going to do after getting married to kavita ?? Will they stay as friends forever ??? or is he going to see Swara in Kavita everytime they do IT?? or he thinks he will be able to love kavita back ??? if he thinks he will be able to love Kavita back then fine.
I don't understand why Sanskaar can't help Kavita as a friend

And this is just my opinion I don't know if I'm right or wrong.
And secondly sorry for hurting u guys
And thirdly I don't want to fight with anyone bcos of these fictional characters.




niku i totally agree with you. if some one needs respect then its only swara.

Edited by PRINCESS_ALISHA - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Fab post sis!! I have much to say but Im at the start of a ridiculous work day with back to back meetings that are very serious so I'll reluctantly reserve for now and be back.
Unres:
Before I go to meetings otherwise would have been even more detailed! Basically I love this post, thank you for saying this Kavya. I agree with most of what you say and certainly agree with the parts about a man who decides to make a decision no matter at what personal cost to himself and then tries to really live it through deserves respect. I have always loved Sanskaar and not because of VKs undeniable good looks or his acting, both of which are fab, but because to me Sanskaar represents a different and refreshing brand of hero. Where I slightly disagree is our individual analysis of his reasoning behind accepting Kavita. BUT more importantly, that in no way diminishes for me the respect angle. I think Sanskaar is misguided and wrong in having gone the "Swara" way of sacrificing his personal wishes and having accepted Kavita. A lot disagree a lot will agree- it matters not- that is MY take on what I see as Sanskaar's character. I have said before that I think that to fit various tracks in the CVs there slightly compromised with what I expect Sanskaar to do. Which was to say "damn you all" and walk away but this is a show and we cannot have that so I totally get that. And if you see the sequence after Swara herself again refuses to accept them being together, he decides to make at least someone happy and goes for the option he does. I don't like that, heck I actually detest it, and I think he is totally mistaken and inadvertently doing wrong to himself and Kavita BUT do I understand it? Yes I do. This is a human character, something I have always loved about Sanskaar is his all to fallible nature. He can take steps that may seem harsh, sometimes even extreme. Here it was that he took a step that is long term clearly misguided but I can understand that as we are not always rational in love or pain. How it can be compared to what Ragini did is beyond me but I don't want to get into all that.

Then I come to the crux- whatever it is, right or wrong, Sanskaar is sticking to his decision or trying his best to and not being horrible to the girl he has compromised with. I respect him and even salute him for that. I hate men who use the "other" woman as a pawn and then are abusive to them and show their frustration in that way. It may make us as shippers happy but as a woman I think it disgusting and is not an indicator of manliness. Also the measure of a man for me is his commitment and if he can commit like this to someone he isn't in love with but loves (in a different way), I admire that.

I also want to specify that this isn't about Sanskaar vs Swara and it hurts me big time to see that recently this forum seems to have turned into a war zone over this issue whereas we are all SwaSan fans (I hope!). Everyone who knows me knows I'm a dyed blue SWASAN fan and through my writing and posts have always put forward both sides or tried to be fair. I relate with Sanskaar more, but have always also supported Swara if I thought her right but here it isn't about Swara at all. It's about whether Sanskaar deserves respect for the stand he's trying to take. As for his overwhelming love for Swara- of course he weakens with her, they're soul mates and being torn apart. That doesn't make him worthy of disgust.

We all have views and opinions, that's what makes this forum fun. Anna and Yukhti and I disagreed on the points I made about Sanskaar and Kavita (different point but this is just to illustrate) and we had a very interesting debate. I still don't agree 100% with them on some angles but I get where they are coming from totally and I (hope) they understand and respect my stand on this. I just cannot stand fighting on this issue. That is why along with mad work schedule and personal commitments I have stopped coming to the forum so much. I am sorry for saying this on this post and if you want I'll edit it but please can we all understand that we are in this show shipping together so let's try and see the other persons viewpoints and have reasoned debates, it's so much fun that way! Sorry to digress!

But overall lovely post and I really enjoyed sharing my view after so long, I hope it will be taken constructively.

Love to all xoxo
Edited by tootiefrootie11 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikkk

Yes Sanskaar commands respect for unnecessarily sacrificing his love.
Yes Sanskaar commands respect for getting engaged to one girl n at the same time thinking about other girl.
👏 👏 👏

I don't know why I'm not able to respect Sanskaar 😆
And I'll not like it if Sanskaar behaves rudely with Kavita seriously I'll not like it.
Kavita is behaving childish bcos she feels Sanskaar loves her n he himself said he is the same old Sanskaar n I'm sure she will not behave this way with anybody else.

Coming to Sanskaar, Sanskaar is doing wrong by getting engaged to kavita n thinking about Swara all the time. I understand he is not able to suppress those feelings for Swara n at the same time he wants to help Kavita.
But he can help her as a friend right.
And what is he going to do after getting married to kavita ?? Will they stay as friends forever ??? or is he going to see Swara in Kavita everytime they do IT?? or he thinks he will be able to love kavita back ??? if he thinks he will be able to love Kavita back then fine.
I don't understand why Sanskaar can't help Kavita as a friend

And this is just my opinion I don't know if I'm right or wrong.
And secondly sorry for hurting u guys
And thirdly I don't want to fight with anyone bcos of these fictional characters.

Nikk I agree with you , actually love is something that happens to you so you can sacrifice the person but not the feelings , so " ho sakta hai me firse usse pyar karu" type thoughts are not logical... He got engaged with a girl while thinking about another and he continues doing everything in the same manner... He should have thought about the outcome , he can't continue this for lifelong this can spoil three lives...
Sanskar was always matured and sensible na ? But I did not get any maturity in his current actions, he is trying to get comfortable with Kavita while he is constantly thinking about Swara and he knows very well that he will never be able to forget Swara (he will confess it in coming episodes) so the thinking was at fault from the beginning , this type of actions have no future actually , it has to end somewhere and then Kavita will actually get hurt the most (if we consider that Sanskar doing it to save Kavita from getting hurt further ).
I did not get any logic here , though honestly , I don't expect any logic from RS shows 😆
Edited by Vaibhi. - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: tootiefrootie11

Fab post sis!! I have much to say but Im at the start of a ridiculous work day with back to back meetings that are very serious so I'll reluctantly reserve for now and be back.


Shru 🤗

You know I am waiting! 😉 Especially after we discussed. 😆😆

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