Sanskaar commands respect! - Page 5

Originally posted by: Kamala05

Originally posted by: Kamala05

Originally posted by: Vaibhi.

Nikk I agree with you , actually love is something that happens to you so you can sacrifice the person but not the feelings , so " ho sakta hai me firse usse pyar karu" type thoughts are not logical... He got engaged with a girl while thinking about another and he continues doing everything in the same manner... He should have thought about the outcome , he can't continue this for lifelong this can spoil three lives...

Sanskar was always matured and sensible na ? But I did not get any maturity in his current actions, he is trying to get comfortable with Kavita while he is constantly thinking about Swara and he knows very well that he will never be able to forget Swara (he will confess it in coming episodes) so the thinking was at fault from the beginning , this type of actions have no future actually , it has to end somewhere and then Kavita will actually get hurt the most (if we consider that Sanskar doing it to save Kavita from getting hurt further ).

I did not get any logic here , though honestly , I don't expect any logic from RS shows😆

Originally posted by: tiny15

@kavya bang on post and totally unbiased & logical post .

i agree wid ur each word.

like u said tho its really stupid of sanskar 2 think he cud keep kavita happy wen he himself is unhappy but still hes trying 2 do keep he r happy as his duty & responsibility.i don't wnat2 compare swasan wid radha-krishna but its like radha & krishan cudn't marry each oder bcoz of society & oder things & both mrd oder ppl but their luv 4 each oder din't bcum less or they bcum immoral.Lord Krishna mrd ode r women & kept them happy .radha alos mrd oder man & kept him happy but still they luved each oder & cared 4 each oder. so why its bcum wrong 4 sanskaror even 4 swara ??

and its not that he doesn't know & feel swara's pain. i know we all want a scene or monlogue on it but CVs won't give us but they r giving enough of hints/clues thru his rxns,expressions

and saying that swara shud b resepected then no1 is denying it but here post is made bcoz again on forum its bcuming swara Vs sanskar.why?? i don't know why ppl always make it swara vs sanskar??atleast see sanskar is not blaming swara 4 anything. he even did engagement after talking wid swara widout blaming her.and this thing swara also knows thatswhy she wished that sanskar shud remain strong in this.

yes it also pains me 2 see that kavita wid sanskar & also sanskar's responses 2 her but practically hes not wrong.u can't ignore ur fiancee even if u r not in luv wid her. and kavita can't b blamed till now( tho she irked me a lot)4 doing all that stuff(tho i still don't like her doing bcoz 2 me it luks stupid that she cudn't see sanskar's that uncomfortableness despite claiming she luvs him so much)

Dear Kavya,

I liked almost all of your posts. I have really started regarding you as a friend for your sensitive sweet and humble nature. You have earned a lot of respect in my eyes and position in my heart.

But today I will differ a little, please bare with me and don't take it to your heart as my opinion differs from you today. As I regard you as my friend. You have represented your viewpoint and I will represent mine.

Today , the name of the post itself has aroused some questions in my mind. Why would someone command respect or deserve or ask respect?

Respect is earned as far as i know. While writing the post I felt u are also trying to convince yourself more than you are trying to convince us. "Respect is never assigned it is earned."

This is 21^st century dear but our mentality has remained the same. I am not blaming any one but blaming the CVs and TRP aunties.

First I must answer the question why I love Sanskar so much?(plz don't confuse Sanskar with Vk.)

I don't love Sanskar because he is good looking or handsome of-course we all die for it. But for me the most important thing is he is cunning, intelligent and knows when to take a stand and make things happen .

Now coming to kavita, she is sick and she should be taken care of.

But is babysitting necessary If doctors would have warned him also will he go on marrying spree. If she would have returned after ten years and Sanskar would have been a father then also he would have taken this decision if his son and his wife are willing to sacrifice him . No na. So why today? Would he not responsibie then? Of course he should have taken care of her as friend because friends are the best things after your parents.

He loves someone yearns for someone and sleeps with another because he is responsible or the girl is forcing her then also he is at fault.

Then there is one more thing he will not do it in front of his wife. Now what does it mean?. He will be considerate only if his wife is present. What kind of love is this one?

Now coming to the question whether she is his wife or not. According to Indian law she is his wife are these MM ppl uneducated. Even if signatures (though she was duped even if it is real one also)are done but she is his wife. Even Sanskar knows that(in shagun scene.). He could have brought some time and ofcourse it is illegal to marry someone without proper divorce. She will be called third person'. Sanskar will be happy to give kavitha this name.

In Malkin's track also Cvs gave us a BJKT our love for Sanskar made us feel it was plan. Though it was not. His behaviour is not justified (in divorce and mandir drama)."Men will be men " is what I felt their anger is above everything. If this kind of anger if shown by Swara we would have blamed her like hell. Even Sanskar was not insulted like that now here it is Swara fault to beg and plead(as it isWithout respect love is lost. Without caring love is boring. Without honesty, love is unhappy. Without trust, love is unstable. And There will be times in your life when you have to choose between being loved and being respected. Always pick being respected, that love without respect is always fleeting'' but that respect could grow into real, lasting love)but Sanskar's behaviour is not all justified.

Many people were like he is hurting him as Swara doesn't realise the day he proposed her? So according to those people a girl should go running to another because somebody rejected her the other day. One of my good friends did the same mistake married to a rich, handsome educated but a suspicious boy bcoz she was rejected by someone.

Kavya you only say oneday Sanskar might get angry at kavitha and will end the problem. It is a truth how much he tries he will not able to act all his life . The boy who is in so much love and yearns for another will surely take the wrong path in his anger as oneday he blasted on Swara for the pain. Didn't he realise this?

Now about the flowers and holi and touching her waist. Ofcourse he could do that but thinking about another woman is not only unfair but ridiculous too.

He and his wife could take care of her in a better way. Now if Kavita turns Ragini Part 2 could we blame her it is Sanskar who is to be halfblamed . ofcourse kavita is adult and is responsible for her own fault too. He is doing all this because Swara told him to do. He has never heard her and even blasted her for her mahaness. He knows his wife sanity. Then he must be the man to take a stand. He always has taken a stand whether bad or good whether it is one sided confession or temple marriage or Lakshya's kidnapping etc. When did he asked her? . In this case,Swara never told her to go back to kavitha she just showed both sides of coin she would not go on telling ILU every single day. Her last line clearly told him to take his own decision. If she would have told him she would not have hoped for it. men only ask their partners when their decision could be faulty and this applies here too. I have seen ppl madly in love maintaining distance before and after marriage and don't do PDA. So why can't they do that?

Now, the most important thing this is my personal opinion but people here take it as a personal issue .They will order you what to do and what not to do. This is not the correct way.

Isn't it a public forum and we are friends then why cann't we discuss our points of view . Kavya you are a sensitive and intelligent girl as I have understood please don't misunderstood me and I crave for ur friendship too.

Thanking you

Your friend Asmita