Sanskaar commands respect!

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BB_CallmeC

@BB_CallmeC

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: LoveSonu2408
Bdw,yesterday aftr engagmnt seg i was luking for our detective gang-u,anna,both shruti,leki,yukhti,shona.shona to thi firvi.i wanna ask u wht u will say abt spooky twist as nw kala jadu z nxt twist?i hope its nt actualy ghost track,jst trying 2 shw ghost track by masi.who z behind all ths?list kafi lamba ha-dadi-kavita-masi-ragini-laksh(he z too swt 2 handle in engagmnt).
May b aftr ths incidnts we get mr.&mrs.bond maheswari.i jst wnt thm 2 get marraied peacefuly thn whtevr twist cn i handle.luks lk with swara we get our sanskar bk.his presence of mind-mauli ka dhaga as ring & put tht-its very precious,swt,lovely.i hope shadi me agar aisa kuch ho sanskar handle d situatn.

Sonu,

Sanskaar will figure it out!! I can bet about that. Nothing will go unnoticed by him!!

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sam.

@sammy1956

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Agree with you completely ! We are irritated with sanskar's actions cause we are SwaSan fans but the fact was kav---san did share a lot of memories and a deep connection ! I am happy that sanskar now that has decided on a course of action is giving it a 100% he may love swara but he is not giving her false hopes he said sorry to swara but he left and is not trying to hook her along also!I don't agree with the decision he has taken but I am happy he is sticking to one decision unlike lakshya ! There was a epi in rishtey recently were he got engaged to ragini and then went and told swara ILU !And now again he has made a stupid decision by consummating his relationship with ragini he is definitely stuck now even if he wants to kick her out now she will pull the pregnancy card and he will be stuck in this relationship forever !

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soumi gupta

@soumi93

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.
I know the onslaught of Kav-----Kar scenes is pretty annoying & terrible to watch & the constant babying of Kavita from Sanskaar's side leaves a bitter taste in everyone's mouth including me. I toh feel like kicking Sanskaar & gagging that Kavita & break my TV in order to reach them but there's simply nothing we can do 😆

Although I am pretty annoyed, I would like to say that Sanskaar isn't wrong here. He's in fact behaving in a morally upfront manner by being loyal to Kavita who unfortunately is his fiancee now.

We need to understand that Sanskaar madly loves Swara now BUT he's engaged to an another woman. Him hugging her, giving flowers to her, trying to make her happy while being miserable himself truly commands respect in my eyes. We as SwaSan fans would be really delighted if Sanskaar blasted Kavita off for her childishness, rebuffed her & made her cry, I won't lie I would've been on cloud 9 if that happened but then think it from a real life scenario. Would you really appreciate a guy being unnecessarily rude, condensing & annoyed at his fiancee? Would we really applaud him? Won't we term him a jerk of the highest order who's so inconsiderate to someone he's about to marry? Will it be fair to Kavita that her fiancee is being aloof & annoyed at her for no fault of hers? Sanskaar is just like that as a person. He knows his responsibilites & how he should go about fulfilling them. His heart yearns for Swara, craves for her love, is majorly irritated with Kavita's antics but he still steels himself enough & tries his best to make Kavita happy & move on himself by putting aside his own misery. It's not like he's only buying time & planning to ditch Kavita at the right moment while going back to Swara. In his mind & in reality, Kavita is his fiancee now & it should be his priority to keep her happy & safe which he's fulfilling with all his strenght. I can't help but admire Sanskaar here who unlike other TV heroes, shows selflessness but is extremely bitter to his unwanted fiancee, making her feel miserable in return & the viewers delighted. He knows that he's about to be married to Kavita & he should stay away from Swara despite being in love with her to stay loyal to Kavita who's his fiancee now. He's truly different from other male leads & I can't help but feel respect for him after yesterday's episode & how he gives his all to all his relationships whether his heart is truly into it or not.

This is the reason I did not want the engagement to happen & was terribly angry at Sanskaar for agreeing to it cos an engagement with Kavita would only justify those Kav----Kar horror that we endure while making SwaSan scenes look a bit immoral. Swara is Sanskaar's ex-wife now & he's committed officially to Kavita now which means it would surely be pleasing but definitely leave a bitter aftertaste in our mouths after Sanskaar tries going close to Swara, hugging her, pinning her on a road side stall, going close to her etc even unintentionally. Thank god they aren't dragging it further & the horror ends tonight.

On the other hand, we have Lakshya who goes ahead & sleeps with a woman to get his property back (if they consummated which I think they did) kind of cheating her & faking love. IDK what to say cos at one hand I want Ragini to be punished in the worst possible manner & at the same time, the approach for revenge is just so goddamn wrong. Well then I also think that what if Ragini managed to get her HAQ & consummate her marriage with Lakshya while he was unaware of the truth before her revelation? We are sure they would have done IT if Sanskaar didn't come drunk that day & put fire to the tent, creating a ruckus in the whole house. So wouldn't that be the same situation too? Ragini kinda taking undue advantage of Lakshya? RagYa are one messed up couple from both sides 😆 But the point here is Sanskaar definitely comes across as a much better man here who's trying his best to stay loyal to the woman currently in his life & being pretty successful at it. Although yes he's being pretty dumb too for thinking he can be happy with Kavita while being madly in love with an another woman & also thinking that only caring for Kavita can be sufficient enough to spend the rest of their lives together. Thank god for this drama ending tonight & everything going back to fine again 😆

Kavya once again amazing post my dear 👏

I'm waiting for your post from yesterday...I agree though i was also annoyed with those gestures of him to be goody-goody with kavita but still his efforts to be normal, happy with someone who used to his past love inspite of loving an another woman from the core of his heart...commands huge respect.👍🏼

It makes me feel proud to ship sanskar more and more rather than others in the show.The way he controlled himself every time is truely commandable.Swara is somehow free to show her emotions freely infront of her family members and they are supporting her for that but sanskar is somehow holdon his feelings for too long that he didn't even show his anger, sorrow here.He cant cry, cant shout...and this is quiet suffocating...i know swasam themselves choose this path for themselves but still choosing such path need guts👏 Proud pankhi of swasan

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_Payalj_

@_Payalj_

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

100% agree that Sanskar is behaving like a true gentleman. He is doing everything a fiance should do (even though his heart is screaming otherwise) and I respect him for that. He is being kind to Kavita

But that is not my grouse here. My problem is that Swara and Sanskar while believing that they are acting very mature and sensible are in fact taking a very immature decision and that is hurting at least Sanskar's image in my eyes. Swara I longago accepted as an emotional idiot.

You cannot love someone out of kindness or pity. Yes Sanskar is able to show kindness to Kavita today. May be for the next 2-3 years also. But one cannot keep up an act beyond a point. Ultimately his disinterest will begin to show and he unwillingly will cause Kavita more sufferring and pain than he can imagine.

Further, how is he planning to perform in the marriage bed? Very tough to do when you are mentally committed to someone else. Somethings cannot be done for duty. The disinterest makes a huge impact there. Believe me, nothing hurts a woman more than being given a cold shoulder in bed. Her entire self respect and self confidence goes for a toss. It is the quickest way to send her into depression.

Then he is considering that poor Kavita is lonely. Is he even realsing that it will literally be impossible for Swara to marry after this. This is India. Maximum she is going to get is a divorcee or widower with children. So out of the compassion Sanskar is showing for Kavita, some he can also reserve for Swara.

If Swara is acting stupid then its Sanskar's duty to take tough decisions and simply not do what Swara has asked him to. A couple is supposed to complement each others weaknesses not add to them.

The better course of action would have been to delay the engagement, donot allow Kavita to act like a road roller, get her a job and slowly break the news to her.

Because of the aforesaid reasons, I am not able to appreciate Swasan in the current scenario. The only saving grace is that they are ending this farce soon enough.

Edited by _Payalj_ - 9 years ago

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Ranjini

@MFRanjini

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Agree with you Kavya about Sanskar and Kavita

The reason Sanskar decided to hurt himself as well as Swara because he thinks/Swara thinks that they are much more strong and selfless than Kavita. Its like two lovers decide to separate knowing that the third person can't accept the truth, will kill herself. I think both Swasan want this. Its their mutual decision.

It happens in many movies, story books

Though in real life its impossible to handle it and finally end up hurting the person u wanted to protect.

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.FairyDust.

@.FairyDust.

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Kavya, I love you SO much for this post. 🤗 Much needed one and SO accurate! 👏👏

Anna and me were discussing the same thing last night and we both completely agree with what you've got here.

Sanskaar giving her flowers was a sweet gesture! He was genuinely trying to make her feel comfortable and happy. He's a softie when it comes to people close to him and he'll go out of his way to bring a smile on their faces and that is what he did. And I didn't mind Kav---San today (part of it is because they were much better than the horror that was RagYa 🤢), I was a little upset as we didn't get SwaSan but No I didn't mind Kav---San. And once I got over my disappointment that we got BJKT in the name of SwaSan, I felt this sudden rush of love and admiration for Sanskaar. He is SO good!! ❤️ He can truly do anything to get a smile on the faces of people he holds dear/feels responsible for and he's a man who keeps his word. I LOVE him sooo much!! He's a gem! I want a man just like Sanskaar now. 🤔😳😆

And all I was thinking about was that if Sanskaar can do all this to make Kavi happy, just imagine the things he'll be doing for Swara!

And don't throw tomatoes at me for this (😕😆) but I don't hate Kav--San neither do I hate Kavita as of now. As Kavita hasn't done anything yet that will make me hate her, she may in the future but nope nothing as of now. And Kav---San scenes show us how Sanskaar was..his love for Kavita has played a very pivotal role in shaping him into the man he is today and bringing SwaSan together. So as much as I dislike this BS I don't really hate Kavita for now. No guarantee for the future though. 😆

And this will be ending tonight and we'll finally get SwaSan so what Kavita or Kav--San do today really doesn't bother me.

And really sorry to all you guys here for being so inactive on IF. I don't comment on all the posts but I do read them all. Miss you guys 🤗

-Yukthi.

Edited by .FairyDust. - 9 years ago

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Cintila

@Cintila

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

Dude...this is BANG ON !!👏

You know I can't rant 😆 SO. ..umm I love you for making this post okay ??

Bye now 😆

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DivineDarkness

@DivineDarkness

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Kavs you know my take on this so all I wanna say is Love ya so much for making this post🤗

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Nalini Ansh

@Bennet.Lizzy

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Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Yep. True that.

No matter how much annoying it is for us, he stays justified in every move. in each and every scene where he tries to act his old self with kavitha he just utterly fails to get there.

And we would surely not like a Sanskar who is unnecessarily rude to anyone. Well he wasn't rude to ragini too.or to laksh. And that's what we love in him. His careful consideration of others feelings. And how he measures the other person so well. He never fails to know what to do with the other person. His denial to the obvious love swara repeatedly professed was just out of simple heart break. But once kavitha was back and he understood that kavitha is his resposibility as she doesn't have anyone else he started trying his best in giving her a life. But it's too obvious to us that It's an absolute fools errand. There was no happiness in his acts. He was constantly back to swara be it in his thoughts, dreams or reality.

Well tonight all ends well. Kavitha will be putting an end to his foolishness and swara's too. That's one good act she did till now. She realised it and accepted it right away. And we have an awesome confession coming. They were literally shouting their frustration out and confessing at the same time in the OLV. love such raw dialogues with no overtures. It seems so natural when you ultimately shout at the other person that you love them, uncaring for the world. No nonsense guy.

Somewhere in the episodes ,despite the annoyance, I could relate to kavitha too. If at all she could be positive I'll surely feel sorry for her.

Ragya. Well they are more than messed up. If lakshya is really playing the haq card to get the property Sanskar will be really pissed at him, not to mention swara, who will bring hell down on him for her BEHENA.

Sanskar surely commands respect.

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Sajiie

@Sajiie

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Posted: 9 years ago

#20

I get ur pov completely kavya ..it's sensible and I am happy that ur views are not partial.

I am just irritated with the mahaanata card these two play ..they are just murdereing their own love and wishes for a third person . He is trying his level best to give happiness to Kavita and it commands respect too and I know given a chance he would have went ahead with marriage too.and would have given wifey rights to Kavita too. How much ever unhappy he may at heart .(.this is exactly the thing that hurts me most as a swasan fan,,I am too possessive about my Jodi and I can't see them sacrificing for a third person ) .. ..he s ready to give the place back to Kavita that is swaras right .if they would have shown one monologue from his side where he would have thought how this could affect swara I would have been satisfied ...it gives the viewers the illusion that he really don't care about what will happen to swara once their marriage takes place,,( I blame the cvs here as they are insensitive sometimes ) there is no doubt he will be unhappy in his marriage once he knows about swaras condition,.the girl would have never got the courage to fall in love again..Sanskar is shown a responsible person and how can he forget he too had a hand in breaking swara heart the first time eventhough ragini and Laksh too played their parts ..now it's going to be second time ..here too he has a part along with swara too.i am disappointed that he didn't try once to clear the matters with Kavita ..I know he is emotionally blackmailed and too much pressure on him as Kavita has nobody to support other than him..this is the exact reason for swasan sacrifice that she is alone .

..but I would have been much more happy had he been honest with Kavita that his heart now belongs to swara ..thank god the torture ends today or tomorrow ..happy segments really helped ..

If u look at the last intense scene between swasan just before Sanskar said yes to engagement ..Sanskar wanted swara to say that she loves him and wants him ..same way swara wanted Sanskar to choose swara. And both didn't do the right thing., I don't know choosing is the right word coz I can't see swara as an option in Sanskar mind I want hiim to see swara as the only one .she was heartbroken when she heard about the engagement at the same time she knew why he took that decision ..no misunderstandings on that front and respected his decision and never blamed him..I so loved the little selfish streak swara displayed while talking to shomi as it clearly shows how much deeply she loves him and can't live without him ..

Now I am so happy that Kavita blindness went away when she saw who is Sanskar s priority and thankful for her now ( as we don't know what twist the makers will bring in future ..)for uniting swasan ..otherwise these two would have continued with their sacrificing jaap .i so feel like go in there and whack the heads of these two to come out of their sacrificing mode .

Have to say the last two weeks have been extremely difficult to handle ..as they were apart and just wanted my old swasan back more I want my old Sanskar back..coz swara will fall in when he comes ..

Once they are married I hope they don't give up on each other so easily ..this is the reason I want them to get married and stay in same room come what may .

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