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I know the onslaught of Kav-----Kar scenes is pretty annoying & terrible to watch & the constant babying of Kavita from Sanskaar's side leaves a bitter taste in everyone's mouth including me. I toh feel like kicking Sanskaar & gagging that Kavita & break my TV in order to reach them but there's simply nothing we can do 😆
Although I am pretty annoyed, I would like to say that Sanskaar isn't wrong here. He's in fact behaving in a morally upfront manner by being loyal to Kavita who unfortunately is his fiancee now.
We need to understand that Sanskaar madly loves Swara now BUT he's engaged to an another woman. Him hugging her, giving flowers to her, trying to make her happy while being miserable himself truly commands respect in my eyes. We as SwaSan fans would be really delighted if Sanskaar blasted Kavita off for her childishness, rebuffed her & made her cry, I won't lie I would've been on cloud 9 if that happened but then think it from a real life scenario. Would you really appreciate a guy being unnecessarily rude, condensing & annoyed at his fiancee? Would we really applaud him? Won't we term him a jerk of the highest order who's so inconsiderate to someone he's about to marry? Will it be fair to Kavita that her fiancee is being aloof & annoyed at her for no fault of hers? Sanskaar is just like that as a person. He knows his responsibilites & how he should go about fulfilling them. His heart yearns for Swara, craves for her love, is majorly irritated with Kavita's antics but he still steels himself enough & tries his best to make Kavita happy & move on himself by putting aside his own misery. It's not like he's only buying time & planning to ditch Kavita at the right moment while going back to Swara. In his mind & in reality, Kavita is his fiancee now & it should be his priority to keep her happy & safe which he's fulfilling with all his strenght. I can't help but admire Sanskaar here who unlike other TV heroes, shows selflessness but is extremely bitter to his unwanted fiancee, making her feel miserable in return & the viewers delighted. He knows that he's about to be married to Kavita & he should stay away from Swara despite being in love with her to stay loyal to Kavita who's his fiancee now. He's truly different from other male leads & I can't help but feel respect for him after yesterday's episode & how he gives his all to all his relationships whether his heart is truly into it or not.
This is the reason I did not want the engagement to happen & was terribly angry at Sanskaar for agreeing to it cos an engagement with Kavita would only justify those Kav----Kar horror that we endure while making SwaSan scenes look a bit immoral. Swara is Sanskaar's ex-wife now & he's committed officially to Kavita now which means it would surely be pleasing but definitely leave a bitter aftertaste in our mouths after Sanskaar tries going close to Swara, hugging her, pinning her on a road side stall, going close to her etc even unintentionally. Thank god they aren't dragging it further & the horror ends tonight.
On the other hand, we have Lakshya who goes ahead & sleeps with a woman to get his property back (if they consummated which I think they did) kind of cheating her & faking love. IDK what to say cos at one hand I want Ragini to be punished in the worst possible manner & at the same time, the approach for revenge is just so goddamn wrong. Well then I also think that what if Ragini managed to get her HAQ & consummate her marriage with Lakshya while he was unaware of the truth before her revelation? We are sure they would have done IT if Sanskaar didn't come drunk that day & put fire to the tent, creating a ruckus in the whole house. So wouldn't that be the same situation too? Ragini kinda taking undue advantage of Lakshya? RagYa are one messed up couple from both sides 😆 But the point here is Sanskaar definitely comes across as a much better man here who's trying his best to stay loyal to the woman currently in his life & being pretty successful at it. Although yes he's being pretty dumb too for thinking he can be happy with Kavita while being madly in love with an another woman & also thinking that only caring for Kavita can be sufficient enough to spend the rest of their lives together. Thank god for this drama ending tonight & everything going back to fine again 😆
Although I am pretty annoyed, I would like to say that Sanskaar isn't wrong here. He's in fact behaving in a morally upfront manner by being loyal to Kavita who unfortunately is his fiancee now.
We need to understand that Sanskaar madly loves Swara now BUT he's engaged to an another woman. Him hugging her, giving flowers to her, trying to make her happy while being miserable himself truly commands respect in my eyes. We as SwaSan fans would be really delighted if Sanskaar blasted Kavita off for her childishness, rebuffed her & made her cry, I won't lie I would've been on cloud 9 if that happened but then think it from a real life scenario. Would you really appreciate a guy being unnecessarily rude, condensing & annoyed at his fiancee? Would we really applaud him? Won't we term him a jerk of the highest order who's so inconsiderate to someone he's about to marry? Will it be fair to Kavita that her fiancee is being aloof & annoyed at her for no fault of hers? Sanskaar is just like that as a person. He knows his responsibilites & how he should go about fulfilling them. His heart yearns for Swara, craves for her love, is majorly irritated with Kavita's antics but he still steels himself enough & tries his best to make Kavita happy & move on himself by putting aside his own misery. It's not like he's only buying time & planning to ditch Kavita at the right moment while going back to Swara. In his mind & in reality, Kavita is his fiancee now & it should be his priority to keep her happy & safe which he's fulfilling with all his strenght. I can't help but admire Sanskaar here who unlike other TV heroes, shows selflessness but is extremely bitter to his unwanted fiancee, making her feel miserable in return & the viewers delighted. He knows that he's about to be married to Kavita & he should stay away from Swara despite being in love with her to stay loyal to Kavita who's his fiancee now. He's truly different from other male leads & I can't help but feel respect for him after yesterday's episode & how he gives his all to all his relationships whether his heart is truly into it or not.
This is the reason I did not want the engagement to happen & was terribly angry at Sanskaar for agreeing to it cos an engagement with Kavita would only justify those Kav----Kar horror that we endure while making SwaSan scenes look a bit immoral. Swara is Sanskaar's ex-wife now & he's committed officially to Kavita now which means it would surely be pleasing but definitely leave a bitter aftertaste in our mouths after Sanskaar tries going close to Swara, hugging her, pinning her on a road side stall, going close to her etc even unintentionally. Thank god they aren't dragging it further & the horror ends tonight.
On the other hand, we have Lakshya who goes ahead & sleeps with a woman to get his property back (if they consummated which I think they did) kind of cheating her & faking love. IDK what to say cos at one hand I want Ragini to be punished in the worst possible manner & at the same time, the approach for revenge is just so goddamn wrong. Well then I also think that what if Ragini managed to get her HAQ & consummate her marriage with Lakshya while he was unaware of the truth before her revelation? We are sure they would have done IT if Sanskaar didn't come drunk that day & put fire to the tent, creating a ruckus in the whole house. So wouldn't that be the same situation too? Ragini kinda taking undue advantage of Lakshya? RagYa are one messed up couple from both sides 😆 But the point here is Sanskaar definitely comes across as a much better man here who's trying his best to stay loyal to the woman currently in his life & being pretty successful at it. Although yes he's being pretty dumb too for thinking he can be happy with Kavita while being madly in love with an another woman & also thinking that only caring for Kavita can be sufficient enough to spend the rest of their lives together. Thank god for this drama ending tonight & everything going back to fine again 😆
Jhanak
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