is kavita going ragini way ? courtsey mm boys? (plz hv a look)

Hello all...
Again...a silent member in this forum but at times like these I get,desperate to voice my opinion out...
M not sure how many of u will agree to it but for once I want you guys to think over it as individual human being nd not lakshya or sanskar fanatic...
M truly expecting u guys to comment genuinely after putting thought on it...
Since the episode of kavita started...this thing I tried so hard to ignore but knowing it's inevitable...if in future segments kavita turns negative...isn't it right to say that there is a lil bit of contribution from sanskar too for triggering that evil nerve... deja vu to what happened in ragini case?
Ragini was such a pure soul pre marriage proposal...rightly it were maheshwaris who brought their son's rishta for ragini...who didnt had an inch of malice in her naive heart...she wholeheartedly welcomed sharmishtha as her mother despite knowing the fact shekhar's betrayal was a cause of her mother's death...
Not once..but many times lakshya broke their engagement for his own convenience...ragini wasn't at fault ...it's not wrong to fall in love with ur to be husband...but the way lakshya played with her feelings despite knowing that he dsnt loves her nd feels for swara...it wasn't justified at that time...ppl who are sanskar fan now I know used to or still love lakshya at that tym today maybe dislike him for that reason...no?
Granted what ragini did afterwords can't be excused solely on that considering the fact she
Never once harmed lakshya but swara at most nd later his family... indirectly though she kept him in dark regarding her angelic pretence nd recently insulted his family for revenge...
Point is.. the trigger of evil was partially pressed by lakshya in her case by giving her false hope...
Coming to kavita now,
As much as we hate kavita...till now the only reason for that is that she is sanskar's ex...it's normal for fans to hate the haddi in our kabab..other than that...kavita is as much as innocent as a child coz she genuinely is unaware of what happened during her absense..she is relying on the facts stated by sanskar nd his family...
1. Swara is his wife...by sanskar..
2.swasan are divorced... by sujata..
3.they married without their will...by swara..

So how can anyone expect(not us but ppl over there) her to understand swasan love?
Point to be noted that sanskar nd kavita's relation was longer than what swasan have...We can't brush it off by saying it wasn't as deep as swasan coz we aren't at the position to judge that...the guy was ready to destroy his uncle nd bro for the death of his love...Now also sanskar nd swara took upon themselves to decide wats right nd wats wrong for kavita...isn't it should be her decision?
Yes she is ignoring sanskar's lack of interest in their together time but that's not foolishness but her insecurity which she maybe is brushing off?
Again...now if kavita plans on going evil...although she could hv had walked out with dignity but She chose former...won't the evil be triggered by sanskar today?
Giving her false hope nd then crushing her soul ?
No it can't be justified that kavita united them coz if they we're waiting for her permission then why now nd not before??
Its obvious she feels cheated..just like ragini...
Please be assured M not saying ragini's,misdeeds nd kavita's,upcoming plottings are justified coz at the end of the day...your conscious is responsible for ur actions nd no other person...
Yet a teeny winy part in me says all of this could hv been avoided had lakshya confronted ragini since beginning nd swara nd sanskar being honest to kavita regarding the happenings of past 5 years...
Your thoughts?

you are right...at the time, when kavita asked for engagement , sankar should told her the actual truth because at that time she was fine & i think able to understand the actual truth . i cannot find swara's fault because even sanskar did same at the time when there was triangle swasan & lakshya .so yes if kavita turns -ve , there is sanskar's fault too. he is unintentionally responsible for her because he has also given false hope to her...

I completely agree.this point i said many times.. If Kavitha turns negative then it will be sanskaar's fault..he had done this mistake already in ragini's case too...now whatever he is doing now is not at all love..he is just spoiling 3 lives...& now the answer comes that swara asked him to accept kavitha...i don't understand y he is doing this...if he confessed the truth earlier to Kavitha then the damage may be negligible but now she completely break which may lead to negative track...this is my POV

Honesty is always the best policy ...

but also one thing to consider here is that a persons real character comez out in worst of situations.

Its always easy to be nice when things sre in your favour.

but the waters are tested when going gets tough.


and as soon as things became tough for ragini she turned negative.

whereas swara didnot.

now we need to see what happens with kavita.

All I want to say is each person is responsible for their own actions ! Ragini became evil cause she chose to ,sanskar also chose the wrong path but he realized he was wrong and chose to redeem himself if kavita decides to go the negative mode it will be her own choice ! The most wronged person on this show is swara if everyone else is a trigger for your actions then she should have been the most evil person on the face of this earth .But she has always chosen to be a good person !

Question is am not very sure if Kavita is not negative from the beginning. 😕 Okay, even if she is not negative but is triggered into negative actions because of Sanskaar's being too courteous or stupid (you may term it as you like, I am confused) there is something definitely fishy about her. She does realize Swara is married to Sanskaar and even if the divorce proceedings are going on, Swara the wife was hell bent on trying to make bade papa free from the clutches of Kaveri and Ragini. Shouldn't she be more sensitive towards Swara'a condition and if nothing else atleast she shouldn't have been callous to invite her in her engagement with Sanskaar. Its almost that she wants to derive sadistic pleasure from it.Yes, I would have preferred Sanskaar to have come clean but to say that her negativity was triggered by Sanskaar's stupid, misguided goodness is wrong. I cannot say something about Ragini as well. One, because I havent seen those episodes and secondly, in our lives we do face excruciating circumstances but to say we are only victims of others' actions is going too far. And love is never easy nor does it ever follow a chronological sequence so to label he or she is wrong owing to someone else's actions is making the world a sorry place to live in.

Swara didn't give false hopes to any one , she never gave her Support to the one who does bad deeds , she was pretty clear in her mind from the very beginning what she wants & what not , she never oscillated to take decision. Yesss she is the main reason as she always forgave ragini for her deeds , not only ragini she forgave everyone who hurt her & made her a life a hell..so obviously she is evil , bad & what not

Originally posted by: hasinig89

I completely agree.this point i said many times.. If Kavitha turns negative then it will be sanskaar's fault..he had done this mistake already in ragini's case too...now whatever he is doing now is not at all love..he is just spoiling 3 lives...& now the answer comes that swara asked him to accept kavitha...i don't understand y he is doing this...if he confessed the truth earlier to Kavitha then the damage may be negligible but now she completely break which may lead to negative track...this is my POV

ragini me case me it was lakshya who misleaded her...nd then it was ragini's own fault

Originally posted by: ANfan_1810

Honesty is always the best policy ...

but also one thing to consider here is that a persons real character comez out in worst of situations.

Its always easy to be nice when things sre in your favour.

but the waters are tested when going gets tough.


and as soon as things became tough for ragini she turned negative.

whereas swara didnot.

now we need to see what happens with kavita.

that is totally justified now that I think about it...
truly water is tested in worst scenario...that's y I said in the end it's ur conscious that's responsible for ur actions...

if ragini turns negative because the fault of laksh kavitha will turn negative only and only because of sanskar