Am a silent reader of all posts. Jumped in as you presented some thoughtful post.
I have not been watching everything from beginning so can not comment what turned Ragini negative or obsessive. But have been watching from Kavita's entry.
My 2 cents are as below -
That I find it extremely strange that Kavita does not want to accept Sanskar can move on without her, her coming out of coma kept aside. When he declared that Swara is his wife, she was heartbroken and was very happy when she heard of divorce.
But what I felt strange in the characterization is that she was never shown sensitive to Swara or Sanskar or never thought of what it is to separate from a relationship even if it is forced relationship. She never gave time for Sanskar to come out of the relationship albeit the forced one in her assumption. That borders on bit of obsession for me. True you believe the man to be only loving you but one can not forget he was in a relationship with another woman and she knows it. So not expecting anything to develop or giving time is something beyond my comprehension.
Additionally in real life also many times it happens that you may feel the person is right for you and at times you may lead them on but at the end you do feel that this may not work out and it is better to walk away then hurt the person more. So in that scenario the person can take it two ways, vengeful manner or a calm composed manner that maybe the person had best interest in the heart. And this I am saying from experience and of cases I know. It all depends on how you look at the situation half glass empty or half glass full. There are examples and one of them I know in celebrity is Javed Akhtar and his first wife. They managed to forget their differences and be friends. I saw their interview as well.
As let us accept it life is not always fair and it will throw googlies like this. So to blame completely another person for my wrong doing or becoming obsessive is also not fair.
By the way I do not support Lakshya getting physical or playing with Ragini's emotions also for his selfish reason. I think that is the lowest one can hit and does not make him any different from her. As my mum always put it, if one is bad, it need not be that you also stoop down to that level.
PS- Though CVs like to harbor on melodrama for TRPs and as people put it far from reality😆😆though
Edited by dsupriya - 9 years ago
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