KDR: Should I hug him or beat him? - Page 5

Your post is very interesting

Amazing Post Kavya. 😃

It really was a heart wrenching episode today. I was feeling so conflicted while watching the episode. I love them both, and to see either of them sad troubles me equally. And today, they were both broken.

I feel that when Swara came into the room, it was to console or talk to Sanskaar (maybe about their relationship), but then Uttara came and talked about the clothes donation. Although she still may have returned to Badi later (maybe to once again try and convince Dadi to take back her ridiculous condition), I feel the clothes bit was primarily for donation purposes which Sanskaar misunderstood as her leaving the house without speaking/ informing him. And there was no turning back from there.

All of Sanskaar's pent up emotions had been a long time coming. Swara has hurt Sanskaar immensely, even though it was unintentional at times. She always talks about divorce and returning to Badi, so what is the poor guy supposed to assume? The time when he is going to need her the most, this girl is packing her bags. He was right about her not caring about what he wants, and mainly about putting everyone else over him, when he puts her above everyone else. He was hurting while saying all these hurtful things to her, but she needed to hear it or else she would have taken way more time to realize his worth. I didn't even mind him saying he didn't want her things around him. Because like you said when he has their memories, there is no need for physical things to remind him of her presence. In fact, even living in his own bedroom without her things will be a task for him now. I just feel, the using him line was an unfair allegation against her. He has willingly participated in her plans, and in the most recent case she didn't want him to ruin his life helping her and even gave him a way out. He said that it's his life and he chose to help her in her mission. That was the only line which I felt was hitting below the belt. But everything else was spot-on. She has been inconsiderate to his feelings because of her Ma-Baba-Ragini chant and even Laksh chant at times.

And while applauding Sanskaar for his much-needed outburst, my heart went out for Swara's pain. She has brought it upon herself, but given all her emotional baggage and the people in her life, I understand if she can't help but have trust issues. Of course, this is in no way saying her doubting Sanskaar was right. After everything he had done for her, it was very disappointing. But she has always sacrificed to put smiles on other's faces, and now when she has found the person who makes her smile she is being distanced from him. I teared up seeing her sad smiley. 🥺

Babies were both in so much pain today, it hurt. But it's only uphill from here onwards. All that needed to be said, has been said. This was just the push she needed to accept her feelings. In a way, I am glad she took her time to accept her feelings after Sanskaar's confession. She doesn't love Sanskaar because he loves her, she loves him for the man he is, the friend that he is. She doesn't want him because he wants her, she would want him even though she feels he doesn't want her (because he signed the divorce papers). She loves and wants Sanskaar Maheshwari, BAS! And now when she returns to him finally ridding herself of her emotional baggage, she will fully (mind, body and soul) be Mrs. Swara Sanskaar Maheshwari, and I just can't wait.

No one forced Sanskar to agree with Swara's plans it was his own bloody decision so him blaming her for all this is utter BS. If he had that much problem he should have told her then and there.But when he thought she is leaving him he had this enlightenment that she was doing nainsaafi towards him, she was using him??? Two days back Sanskar's outburst was totally justified but yesterday circumstance and choice of words were wrong.Sorry I'm not blind fan to support each and every action of my fav.

Super kdr ...
I agree to each and every point. .
I was also like...why sanskaar u ere reacting like this? Can't u see her pain? But he said the ans. I feel more pain than u everyday..
I felt very bad for our swara where she was crying hardly...but this treatment was necessary for her...
But did u notice one thing here also...Always their fights will not be known to a third party...whether it is their happiness or pain or sorrow only swasan...
About ragya...kya karu? Did u notice how laksh was doing what sje was saying...how obediently he was he holding divorce papers when she asked him to do so?

nice KDR. waiting for ME

No swara was not packing her bags to go back to baadi. She was packing her old clothes to give it to poor people with uttara. You must have seen in the beginning that uttara came to her for her help in giving clothes and money to poor people so she was giving her old clothes. Plzzz see the beginning part of episode again. You will be clarified about it

Great post :) I was really not surprised by the level of anger sanskar displayed today cause if ragini is all abt haq then sanskar is all abt trust , lets not forget the extreme level of anger he went into when he thought lakshya and durgaprasad had broken his trust! And I think he had lost all of his patience yesterday with all the drama happening as he said everyone does their manmani and he has to bear the consequences! I think swara basically bore the brunt of all of that ! But swara deserved it for now cause she needed a reality check ! Both VK and helly were absolutely brilliant today one of their best scenes together:)

It's always a pleasure reading your KDR Kavya.

Wonderful KDR as always Kavya!
I know you feel bad for Swara, and Hellys performance was amazing. But to tell you the truth she had this comming. Sanskaar was hurt angry...I'm sure even though he didn't show it infront of Swara, he's hurt and sad for what he did. Im sure we'll see a broken Sanskaar when he go to his room , and he'll breakdown all alone. We all know how crazily he loves her.
I'm glad he gave her an ultimatum, since her missions are completed, to come back only if she want give their relationship a chance. Swara needs to grow up. She needs to get her priorities straight first. Otherwise god knows how long will she go on with this only BFF husband jaap. After all he's only human, he was hurt that she didn't trust him. And trust was the onlything he shared in their relationship.

Was Sanskaar wrong when he ranted yesterday? My answer is no. Yes, He helped Swara in all her missions without him being forced, though that's exactly the word he used. Sanskaar's usage of words have hurt many people... yes it was rude, spontaneous and to a certain extent, totally unlike Sanskaar. But, here was a man who was being acted upon by his friend and love for all kinds of mission and for once, even his very presence was being taken for granted. Forget about his love being acknowledged. Moreover, he also mentioned DP, lakshya who because of their actions have hurt him intentionally or not. In such a scenario, he sees Swara packing her bags and he immediately rushes to the conclusion, that she is leaving for Baadi, that too without informing him. Any man's patience will wear out. He has often said to Swara their relationship is based on trust and come what may, he shall always be beside her. But, in spite of that she has gone on to acknowledge every relationship even that of her murderous sister's act and Lakshya's dumbo devarji scenes without even saying what's brewing between them. Swara needed this reality check, period. And was Sanskaar brutal, yes, he was. Because he was trying to maintain his own composure and not break down or give in to Swara's mahaan missions again and again.