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Posted: 9 years ago
#51
Finally got the time to read Kavya MAIYYA'S Daily Rant!😆

But u said it all true! The scene was beautiful and equally tearful!
How could Sanskaar say that?? I was furious at him for saying that he doesn't want anything of Swara??
How??
Poor Swara. I wanted to cry with her. What a blow she had received at her heart!
Heartbreaking yar..😭
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Posted: 9 years ago
#52
Also, I think that Sanskaar was more angry because he felt Swara was leaving him at this crucial juncture when Ragini has become the "malkin" of the house. So, to see her packing her bags when he requires her missions more than ever, his dam of emotions will definitely collapse. 😉. I guess when she comes back, mango icecream baby will be very happy.😳. And, yes Swara did not force him to become her husband or to engage him in any of her missions but after every mission constantly repeating her tagline of getting divorced is like hanging a damocles sword over Sanskaar's life. He helped her because he definitely he wanted to rid himself of his guilt. And Swara had often made it clear that his love was wrong, his friendship was a duty he was required to perform because of what he did earlier. But, is that justified? And if Swara really doesnt love him, then Sanskaar did more right by letting her go and be free of this relationship forever see-sawing between guilt, redemption and only best friend so so. And if she really loves him she will come back without condition. Sanskaar was rude yes, cruelly so but even while closing the door he kept the option for her to come back only to him😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
#53
Kavya 🤗
Awesome review 👏

I loved it <3 <3

I didn't felt bad for Swara dat much..
I felt normal 😆
Bcz I knw if he z rude wid her.. dats killing him more <3

Ek Villian smiley scene wz pure bliss <3
pain wala love gives me immense pleasure <3

he gonna MU her again thinking she came back fr mission MM bachao 😆

I love MUs as it leads to intense scenes <3
want more & more choti choti MUs between SwaSan <3
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Posted: 9 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: --Anna--

Kavya,


I dont give a BS that Swara was hurt. She is always hurt. Kabhi maa-baba, kabhi Ragini, kabhi MM waasis and kabhi Laksh! So good Sanskaar hurt her too - because among all these delusional people only Sanskaar has the right to hurt her just like she keeps hurting Sanskaar.

Everyone is making this outburst too big a deal than it is. Sanskaar said nothing wrong. He reacte like any other normal man would in a situation like this. I was pissed at Swara from the first scene. Sanskaar comes and asks you that what is happening - because he is seeing you pack your clothes (for whatever reason) and you begin your Dadi jaap! W*F! What is the guy supposed to think? He was forced to think that Swara was leaving him without telling him as usual. When Sanskaar listed the things that he did for her - his intention was not to say that she made him do it - his intention was revealed right after that - that he did it all for friendship which she broke! The trust that she broke!

For him all he did today and the reason he promised to help Swara in baadi was a promise he made to a friend and not to a stranger - who he sees Swara as right now. According to him when Swara never considered him as a friend - never trusted him - then she was using him. According to him - she kept the facade of friendship with him to fulfill her missions. And is he wrong? She did break his trust - she broke his trust not by questioning him but also stealthily following him and watching him burn the blanket. She broke his trust by accusing him and then trusting him on the basis of proofs. When Sanskaar screamed at Swara today - he was not speaking to the Swara who was his friend - who he had promised to help through thick and thin. He was speaking to a stranger who had used him in the facade of friendship (in his mind)

Not once did Sanskaar meet Swara's eyes properly because he knew he was hurting her. He noticed the sad face and he kept himself strong because he knew he was hurting her. He said he did not want to keep anything that reminded him of her is because he was protecting himself from the pain that would follow if her things would be there. He knows he can never get rid of her memories - but getting rid of her things - is the smallest price to pay to protect himself from heartbreak.

Just because Sanskaar always appears as the cool calm gentleman does not mean he has feelings. Swara has wronged him in the worst possible way - making him doubt everything they have shared till now! This outburst proves that he could not bottle up his emotions any more. In his heart - Swara never thought of him as a friend while he did. The promises he made were to his friend and the one he loved and not the woman who he now considers to be a stranger. He feels cheated. He feels he had promised everything to Swara in friendship but all she has ever done is use HIS friendship and his trust as an excuse to enter MM and complete her missions.

Swara has been extremely selfish! She has always kept everyone over him. She did not trust Sanskaar - she kept Laksh Ragini's relationship over him (taking him for granted) - She accused the man who stood by her without even thanking him for his support - what do you expect? Her reasons to not trust anyone I can understand - but To not trust Sanskaar who stood through everything with her - I will not!

And for once when she wants to give this relationship a chance - why have a by the way conversation with him? Why not sit with him and tell him she has thought about it? Why let him bring it up and them decide to tell him what she is planning?


Sanskaar loves Swara and he knows it. Swara needed to hear that everything cannot be the way she wants. She planned the fake marriage - Sanskaar agreed, She wanted to unite Ragya - Sanskaar volunteered to help her. He was out all he did for her because it was needed to remind Swara that he was there when she needed him A no questions asked - but when he needed her to believe in him she failed. The two lines where he says that she used him and where he says that she cannot chose to trust him one moment and not in the other - shows the difference he feels. He promised his help to a friend and not to a stranger in his eyes. In his eyes - this stranger used him for her own selfish goals and when it was done - she was turning her back on him!

Btw, when Swara blamed Sanskaar for falling in love with her - she was wrong. When Swara blamed Sanskaar for wanting to marry her forcefully - that was wrong - so why is that even if assumed Sanskaar did say something that most of the people do not think is right - is wrong? If this is going to be about right and wrong and how Sanskaar should have his outburst - then do we only want him to say things that hurt Swara only to the extent we want? Not to the extent he feels? He is angry, he feels cheated, he is no mahaan - the basis of his relationship with the woman he loves is broken by her - and we want him to think 'logically' before he speaks? Because only he should be hurt by Swara but two harsh words and Swara cannot take it?

I am cent percent sure, Swara did not find anything wrong with what Sanskaar said. She will realise she indeed has been taking him for granted. She always have been. When she feels like - she gives him a piece of her mind and when its her turn to get one - there are doubts raised about Sanskaar. Jeez!


Oh Sanskaar - how great you were today!

Anna Anna Anna... 👏
yaara..you just nailed it..😊 really i was little bit upset when sanskaar said.. you have used me and always taken me as granted.. But you gave best justification to his perspective..👏

the bold lines are just superb..😊

@blue.. yes sanskaar also said same thing during 'agar tum sath ho' scene.. "ham dost the na swara.. bharosa tha na tum par, mujh par.." i think she will recall this dialogue..😳

@red Shomi also tried to convince her during divorce drama.. " kyunki ye zaroori nahi hai ke jaisa tu chahe waise pyar teri zindagi me aye.."
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Posted: 9 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: sanabmw

hey kavya

so kaisa raha birthday???i hope u enjoyed alots...and cake kaunsa tha??mango ya blue barry😆

so aaj humara mango puri tarah pakk gYa tha🤣but i m not gussa on him..kabhi na kabhi to bhadaas niklegi na😲

main tujhe roz kahu i want mango mango to tu de hi degi na😆😆yahi swara madam k saath hua...everytime she said ye mission finish ho than i go back badi..talak k baad school open kRugi ..thak gayi hu main ab bas sach batakar wapas jana chahti hu divoce divoce to aaj sanskar ne kaha ok bag pack karo aur jao😡

sanskar human he..koi god ya robot nahi jo kuch feel na kare ya gussa na ho😭yes u r right swara k har mission main wo apni marzi se saath tha..but he is now angry aur gusse main nahi pata chalta hum kya bol rahe hai...me and my hubby jab bhi fight hoti hai mat puch main kya kya bol deti hu..but after half hour we both hug and smile😳its a natural ..jaha pyaar hai waha thoda bahot siqwa hoga

swara ne aajtak sanskar ko maaf karne k alawa kya kiya he soch zara??ha ragini k juthe rape charge se save kiya but saskar ne swara k liye bahot kuch kiya hai..chahe wo spport karna ho usko samjhana ho..he done everything..but usko kya mila...laksh se fight ki to swara ne sunaya than ragini ne swara ko nazaayaz bola to sanskar ko dhakka pada swara se😆than i love u kaha to tumne mujhe dokha diya..😲than laksh ko kidnaped kiya to sunaya..shadi pe khud roka sanskar ko and end main boli tum to yahi chahte the..laksh ne line maari to sanskar se dosti finish kar lee😭KC varat rakha to sunaya...diwali pe factory pe aane ko kaha to bahna pyaar jayada imp laga...so koi kitna sahega...fat gaya aaj bechara

and u watch again epi..jab sanskar kahta hai k tum jaa rahi ho bina puche so swara kahti hai k sanskar agar tum kaho to main...and than sanskar start gussa

so swara ka baadi jana to pakka tha na😡wo gussa hua b/c AP bimar hai ragini ka drama on so as a friend swara sanskar k saath khadi rahegi ye socha sanskar ne but MU hua use..jo hua accha hua..atlist swara ko reality check to mila...swara madam dhakka start hai 🤣usko ye dhakka lagna tha tabhi wo samjhegi😆😆

now i want and know k phir MU hogi humRe mango man ko jab swara MM aayegi and i love u kaha to he must laugh on her and said k maine jo kaha tha wapas aao to mere ya humRe rishtey k liye aana so tum juth bol rahi ho u dont love me..🤢i hope aisa ho so swara baar baar sanskar ko belive karwayegi...i wish sanskar bole accha u love me so come on kiss me...bed share kRo mere saath tum is rishtey ko chance dena chaHti ho na☺️kiss jayada ho gYa but bed wala bolna chahiye😆😆😆

now ye dekhna hai k swasan ka love track kaisa hota hai..i know helly and VK superbbb hi rahege they both are so gud👏i want intense love scenes

so kavya thx for KDR love u😳

i hope u like my comment
😊

sana😊

Sana.. @bold wah ji wah.. absolutely correct..👍🏼
loved your post..👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
#56
Kavya your review is awesome as usual 🤗
I agree to mostly everything except beating up Sanskar point 😆
First of, in thier bedroom scene, Sanskar misunderstood that Swara was leaving and she didnt even try to clear his MU n instead said "Agar tum chahte ho toh...". His pent up anger, hurt and frustration regarding the situation in MM and with all the people there and Swara's distrust came out at that point. Otherwise, when he had entered the room, the conversation was all abt sharing each other's pain n views on the new situation.
And secondly, the missions he talked abt were finding out Ragini's kidnapper, getting Laksh out of Jail and getting Ragini her HAQ (this one thgh I didnt like coz Swara really didnt want Ragini to become malkin). All these missions were Swara's alone and happened after Sanskar had fought fr divorce with his family just so Swara could be free. Even we had been wondering why Swara was still in MM aftr Ragini's truth came out. So, I felt Sanskar saying this was justified when he saw her immediately packing her bags after the whole fiasco.
Then, in the car scene, I just felt he was turning a blind eye to her emotions like Swara had to his emotions on so many occassions. The Sanskar who had once requested Swara to leave atleast her yaadein in their room, now didnt want to keep anything of her. He might have wanted to hurt her as much as she had once or probably just to make his intentions loud and clear. This was much needed for Swara to realize his importance and think of her own feelings!
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Posted: 9 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: DivineDarkness

No one forced Sanskar to agree with Swara's plans it was his own bloody decision so him blaming her for all this is utter BS. If he had that much problem he should have told her then and there.But when he thought she is leaving him he had this enlightenment that she was doing nainsaafi towards him, she was using him??? Two days back Sanskar's outburst was totally justified but yesterday circumstance and choice of words were wrong.Sorry I'm not blind fan to support each and every action of my fav.

Swara needed reality check I agree but the way Sanskar did it was rude and brutal.

And Kavya Thank you for making unbiased post.


Agree with your every word. I feel the same way.

Kavya, thanks for this unbiased post. I am silent reader of your KDR. I always feel even thought you like Sanskaar more, you always give a unbiased post.

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Posted: 9 years ago
#58
Awesome KDR like always...👏 👍🏼

Beat him first then hug him..I think yesterday Sanskar's brain took over his heart..He was also hurt though he said those words to Swara..she took him for granted agreed that..but 'used' him..! He allowed her to 'used' himself..

Yesterday's SwaSan scene was so heart wrenching...🥺
Varun & Helly was amazing as usual..they made SwaSan so real..so magical for us...they've been portrayed every emotions so beautifully like always...👏

When Sanskar gave her phone..she looked at him continuously holding the phone..and when he was about to close the car's windshield..her hand was still there holding the phone..if she didn't removed her hand then it maybe hurt her..but he didn't look back at her..I literally cried with Swara that time..🥺
I know Sanskar was also hurt..just pretend to be strong in front of Swara...🥺(hope he doesn't do these for his brother..)

Thank you for the amazing KDR ...👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
#59
kavys while saying so called missions he meant only three missions ..just now rewatched
ragini ka kidnapper pakadagaya

laksh ghar mei waapas agaya

ragini ghar ki maalkin bangayi

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Posted: 9 years ago
#60
^ Brilliant KDR by u, Kavya! 👏⭐️
Both VaHe nailed it with their scenes! 😎

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