Lakshya's mistrust,a bigger crime than Sanskar's drugging?-DTNote pg27 - Page 16

Originally posted by: missfilmy

Yes, drugging is bigger crime but who cares Swara loves Sanskar, and we Swasan fans r much much larger in number 😉

Originally posted by: canuck-umz

Relationships require a lot of work from both people. Along with trust, communication is of utmost important. In such a situation my immediate reaction would not be to marry my fiance's brother, or his friend or any guest attending the wedding. 😆 Yes, I would be broken, I would cry but the first thing I would do is seek out my bf/fiance/significant other and talk to him to figure out the reasons behind his actions. I doubt my runaway groom would have to resort to marrying my sister to oust the other person because I would have made sure to have a discussion with him first to figure out what his why he did what he did. If after that I discover he played me then I leave, cry, and move on in life. I am not vindictive because I know that the subsequent pain would be only mine to bear.

Btw. I don't think Swara's letter ever stated that she will commit suicide, I believe it said she is moving away forever.

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Thank you. I acknowledge that typo is a grave offence.

Originally posted by: -damon-

yes exactly!! why it can't be?.. when acc. to u an ur soo called yucky fans think..drugging someone is grave offence than distrusting ur lover..then why can't this?

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Fair enough. Good reply. Not talking to Swara was a blunder indeed, as was marrying Ragini. But once he committed that blunder in that situation, everything that followed was somewhat justified.

Swara did threaten suicide in that letter.

Originally posted by: -damon-

yes exactly!! why it can't be?.. when acc. to u an ur soo called yucky fans think..drugging someone is grave offence than distrusting ur lover..then why can't this?

Originally posted by: canuck-umz

Thank-you Krystal. Ah okay, I guess I am remembering the letter incorrectly then. Yes, his reactions after that were somewhat justified. The girl did show up married to his brother after all. His feelings of betrayal were justified; however, constantly pointing fingers upon her character was not justified in my opinion. Forcing Swara, Sanskaar into a real marriage was not justified then upon finding out the truth he conveniently forgot that he was the one who forced them into a real (sham) marriage, that was not justified either. For me, it's all about the present actions of both men who have done a woman wrong (Sanskaar's more wrong, actually criminal in nature).

@ Krystal and lovely_lady - We all agree Sanskaar's actions were criminal but don't forget that Lakshya's actions (current and previous) are also criminal as they can be termed as stalking, verbal harassment, sexual harassment, blackmail, and coercion/uttering threats. All of these are punishable offenses in the court of law. So really, aren't Sanskaar and Lakshya almost equal in that sense as both their actions were criminal in nature?

Swara forgave both men and that was her choice. It's not like she forgave Sanskaar and did not forgive Lakshya. Both gained forgiveness from her. Lovely_lady, I agree with you about Swara because I myself was shocked when Swara forgave Sanskaar right away. I did not support her there at all but Sanskaar won me over since even after being forgiven he still worked for it. He continued to repent and help her something which he did not need to do because he had already been forgiven.