Lakshya's mistrust,a bigger crime than Sanskar's drugging?-DTNote pg27 - Page 17

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Canuck-unz: Lakshya's stalking can indeed be stated as criminal. That's simply not done. Still not a comparison to drugging though. 😛

Originally posted by: Nandini25

Ok so let's start. 😈

I'm sure none of us SwaSan fans are condoning Sanskar's past behavior towards Swara and Lakshya. That was evil. I never supported that nor I liked his character then. But then there came a time when Swara made him realize his mistakes and he accepted it. Let me remind you, Sanskar, just like Laksh, was under the grip of a misunderstanding. But when he realized that his way of vengeance is not right he forgot revenge even when he didn't have any proof that his cousin and uncle had not caused the death of his beloved, giving them benefit of doubt. Sanskar gave benefit of doubt to those who he thought had snatched his love away from him. On the other hand, Laksh, who was also in the grip of a misunderstanding, said to Swara when she revealed her truth that he won't believe her even if God says so. Laksh refused to give benefit of doubt to the one he claims to love. If he hadn't fallen off the bridge and landed in the same hospital he wouldn't have ever even thought of believing Swara. Hell. even after it was established that the doctor Sanskar brought with him to reveal Ragini's truth is a doctor for real and the doctor confirmed that Swara was indeed brought on that fateful day and was on the same cabin as Laksh, he still needed more proofs. He checked the register and saw Swara's name entered there. Still he needed more proofs and called the fisher women who saved Swara that day and confirmed that it actually happened. After all these things he finally believed that oh yes Swara didn't run away from the wedding. Itne saare agniparikshayein toh Sita maiya ko bhi dena nahi para tha. And all this when he claimed to love her and was her fiance once. Now coming to Sanskar. Swara was no one to him. Yet he paid heed to her words and even without proof in favor of his uncle and cousin he backed away from revenge.

So Sanskar drugged Swara and that was a heinous deed. I totally agree. Laksh kidnapped Swara and as far as I know that too is a heinous deed. Do you agree? As far as I know both are legal crimes. So if you are hanging one for a legal crime you have to hang the other one too.

Now let's consider your point that Laksh had seen the video and hence his inability to trust Swara is understandable. There was a time when laksh was blamed of making an mms of Swara. That time even his own parents didn't believe him but Swara did. Not only she believed him she fought to prove him innocent. Even then there were proofs and videos, but Swara trusted him. So why can't Laksh do the same? Now you can come with the argument that Swara was with Laksh and they together saw the video of Ragini being kidnapped. So now tell me, given Laksh's track record of kidnapping an innocent girl, why should Swara not believe that Laksh was the one to kidnap Ragini and make that mms? Because let's face it when such things happen it is mostly the girl who loses her honor. But Swara had faith in his innocence and fought for the same. Did Laksh do the same?

Again its not that people ignored Sanskar's past deeds because he is 'cute'. They love him now because of the maturity he has shown by accepting his mistakes and though he had no need, decided to support Swara in her quest to prove the truth. Sanskar decided to repent and earn Swara's forgiveness and not take it for granted. Laksh, on the other hand, did not even try to earn the forgiveness she had so readily given. One moment he asked for forgiveness and the next moment he proposed Swara. If that is normal behavior I don't know the definition of normal then.

Sanskar, in spite of being so deeply in love with Swara never forced her to say that she loves him too. For him, love is something that cannot be forced. Laksh, on the other hand, is forcing, threatening and blackmailing Swara to say yes. Sanskar knows that when a girl says no it means no, but apparently Laksh does not.

So you see, its not that Sanskar is cute and hence viewers have forgotten his crimes and are loving him. They have come to love him like this because he repented, supported Swara unconditionally, redeemed himself, earned Swara's forgiveness which had already been freely given and never forced Swara to accept him. Did Laksh do any of the aforementioned things?

When Laksh will do the aforesaid things, I can assure you that I, for one, will truly like him.

Originally posted by: Banjaaran...

apologies for butting in..

no comparison to drugging. agreed.

then how about kidnapping and leaving the girl in abandoned place tied and alone?😊

Originally posted by: Nandini25

Ok so let's start. 😈

I'm sure none of us SwaSan fans are condoning Sanskar's past behavior towards Swara and Lakshya. That was evil. I never supported that nor I liked his character then. But then there came a time when Swara made him realize his mistakes and he accepted it. Let me remind you, Sanskar, just like Laksh, was under the grip of a misunderstanding. But when he realized that his way of vengeance is not right he forgot revenge even when he didn't have any proof that his cousin and uncle had not caused the death of his beloved, giving them benefit of doubt. Sanskar gave benefit of doubt to those who he thought had snatched his love away from him. On the other hand, Laksh, who was also in the grip of a misunderstanding, said to Swara when she revealed her truth that he won't believe her even if God says so. Laksh refused to give benefit of doubt to the one he claims to love. If he hadn't fallen off the bridge and landed in the same hospital he wouldn't have ever even thought of believing Swara. Hell. even after it was established that the doctor Sanskar brought with him to reveal Ragini's truth is a doctor for real and the doctor confirmed that Swara was indeed brought on that fateful day and was on the same cabin as Laksh, he still needed more proofs. He checked the register and saw Swara's name entered there. Still he needed more proofs and called the fisher women who saved Swara that day and confirmed that it actually happened. After all these things he finally believed that oh yes Swara didn't run away from the wedding. Itne saare agniparikshayein toh Sita maiya ko bhi dena nahi para tha. And all this when he claimed to love her and was her fiance once. Now coming to Sanskar. Swara was no one to him. Yet he paid heed to her words and even without proof in favor of his uncle and cousin he backed away from revenge.

So Sanskar drugged Swara and that was a heinous deed. I totally agree. Laksh kidnapped Swara and as far as I know that too is a heinous deed. Do you agree? As far as I know both are legal crimes. So if you are hanging one for a legal crime you have to hang the other one too.

Now let's consider your point that Laksh had seen the video and hence his inability to trust Swara is understandable. There was a time when laksh was blamed of making an mms of Swara. That time even his own parents didn't believe him but Swara did. Not only she believed him she fought to prove him innocent. Even then there were proofs and videos, but Swara trusted him. So why can't Laksh do the same? Now you can come with the argument that Swara was with Laksh and they together saw the video of Ragini being kidnapped. So now tell me, given Laksh's track record of kidnapping an innocent girl, why should Swara not believe that Laksh was the one to kidnap Ragini and make that mms? Because let's face it when such things happen it is mostly the girl who loses her honor. But Swara had faith in his innocence and fought for the same. Did Laksh do the same?

Again its not that people ignored Sanskar's past deeds because he is 'cute'. They love him now because of the maturity he has shown by accepting his mistakes and though he had no need, decided to support Swara in her quest to prove the truth. Sanskar decided to repent and earn Swara's forgiveness and not take it for granted. Laksh, on the other hand, did not even try to earn the forgiveness she had so readily given. One moment he asked for forgiveness and the next moment he proposed Swara. If that is normal behavior I don't know the definition of normal then.

Sanskar, in spite of being so deeply in love with Swara never forced her to say that she loves him too. For him, love is something that cannot be forced. Laksh, on the other hand, is forcing, threatening and blackmailing Swara to say yes. Sanskar knows that when a girl says no it means no, but apparently Laksh does not.

So you see, its not that Sanskar is cute and hence viewers have forgotten his crimes and are loving him. They have come to love him like this because he repented, supported Swara unconditionally, redeemed himself, earned Swara's forgiveness which had already been freely given and never forced Swara to accept him. Did Laksh do any of the aforementioned things?

When Laksh will do the aforesaid things, I can assure you that I, for one, will truly like him.

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Canuck-unz: Lakshya's stalking can indeed be stated as criminal. That's simply not done. Still not a comparison to drugging though. 😛

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

I know, line maroing on "Bhabhi" who does not even love her so-called "husband".

NOTE: Swara was also looking at him with puppy eyes once when Ragini was maram-pattofying him.

Btw you did not answer my question: Drugging or mistrust, which is a greater crime? The latter I suppose? 😉

Originally posted by: White-Rose

Now this is new to me.

Never followed show from beginning , Sanskaar used to give drugs to swara?😕

I dont want to see swara and laksh together after the way laksh left swara, he does not deserves her.

but drugging a big crime, not forgivable and he should be punished.

I know this is a fictional show, but dont we call Ragini a criminal? Sanskar falls in same category. Both should go to jail.

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

He and Ragini repeatedly administered drugs to Swara and made her react funny, also took her and Lakshya's MMS and circulated it in public. Also, dumped her at a seedy hotel for a night.