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Posted: 10 years ago
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Tum 😊 I expected 😳 will be back
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: kulsum_5

yes we have to wait for the swara's reason for divorce. after this only we should judge her decision whether it was wrong or right.😛

i don't know about others but i m super excited for this divorce track. so many swasan scenes...😳
one thing is sure, sawra is asking divorce this time but definitely after six month swara will be the one who is going to stop this divorce...🤪🥳

Exactly. Patience IS the key word 😉😆

IKR? It will be SO good. They'll have to live together for months & itne time me toh, Swara would be head over heels for him Just want loads of SwaSan, I'd love to see them fight for the bed & stuff like that 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: bunnyrocks

Tum 😊 I expected 😳 will be back

What deep? Expected me to bash Swara black & blue? 😊 Imma waiting 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shreeswathy

Good post kavya..

Yes.. We can't reach a conclusion now, as we are not sure about the reliability of the article itself..
As of now, Even though he affects her a lot, still she wants to go away from him, just because she is scared of the recent happenings in her life..
Though we feel like months have passed after the wedding, it is hardly a week in the show.
So, she have to come out of this turmoil first..
She needs time to think about all these..
So this divorce is a good thing..
She will get Time to think about him..
She will get to know him more..

As many says, I don't think Sanskar will initiate a divorce..
But he will stand with Swara' s decision what ever be the reason..
The guy will continue to treat her in the Same way he did in the last week..
He was not expecting her to feel for him.
Still stood with her..
Actually, the 6 months will be a grace period for him..
I am waiting for the new track, with hopes of good swasan moments...

Thanks Swathy & I completely agree with you! It is too early to expect Swara to forget everything that has happened to her & jump into Sanskaar's arms just because he loves her or even stay married to him & hurt him in the process. Sanskaar will NEVER force her & will stand with her, even if it means being seperated from her & losing her forever. He might be twisted but is selfless in love & he'll prove it with his actions. Upcoming days hopefully will be pleasant for us & I know for a fact that if Swara falls for Sanskaar, it's gonna be the forever types & will probably be more in love with him than he'll be with her 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.

Didn't Swara ask Pari to decide herself whether to give Adarsh a chance or move on? She just put her perspective in front of everyone & left it to Pari to decide. The two marriages are very different. Here Pari is in love with Adarsh & Adarsh wanted a second chance while in SwaSan's relationship, Sanskaar is in love & Swara isn't so maybe she thinks it's unfair to him to be stay in this loveless marriage. Sanskaar DID admit that he too didn't want this marriage so what's the harm in getting a divorce? I am sure if Pari had cheated, the whole family would have judged her while Swara's stand would still be the same that it's for Adarsh to decide whether to give a second chance to Pari.

Sanskaar imposing or not imposing is a completely different matter altogether. Him not imposing it is actually a good reason to get divorce cos even he isn't interested in this zabardasti ka rishta & Swara knows it.

Its not about how adarsh pari marriage being different or similar to swasan
Its about principles which remains same in every situation
Swara is ready to save a marriage in which a women is cheated
She is ready to save a marriage which has no trust ( shomi and shekhar)
But she is not ready to save a marriage in which her husband loves her
Principle of marriage is to get married to someone who loves you and not to the one you love
The point is there are more chances of swasan marriage survival than pari adarsh and shomi shekhar but still she is not ready to save it
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes. Swara is no one to be judged or blamed. From the starting only she was clear - After the truth revelation she will go on her own way away from sanskar. Now after the truth is out she has the right to ask for divorce as for her this marriage was just 'samjhota'. Seeing out sanskari babu he will support swara with this decision too,no matter how much it pains him from inside.

I really wanna see how will this go. I mean ab SwaSan ki love ki gaadi kaise aage badhegi? Excitement toh hai 😆
If she will ask sanskar to fake love with her just for the sake of RagYa, it will be bad. Like really bad for sanky. Coz in all these play it's him who will be hurt and will fall for her more.As of swara she will start developing feelings for him too but won't reveal it soon. Bohot tadpayegi sanky ko!

At the end sanky will be like: kya swara, Agar ek pal aur tumhare saath raha toh mujhe tumse aur pyaar ho jayage, aur tumhe nahi hoga 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: DivineDarkness

Well said Kavya... Swara said she believe in institution of marriage, she said she won't break RagYa marriage,she didn't ask Lux to remain married to Ragini.. RagYa marriage was their own decision but SwaSan marriage thats not the case.

Even in AdRi's case Swara clearly told it's Pari's decision whether to give Adarsh second chance or not.. she just asked her to think about it and set her priorities right.

Swara have full right to decide if she want to continue this relation or not. Since Sanky repents his deed doesn't mean that what he did with Swara is justified... He played a role in ruining her life and if he is supporting Swara and stand with her he is not doing some ehsaan on her.
It's her life people played with and ruined and if anyone have right to decide what she should do in future that's only Swara...

But after asking Sanskar for divorce and then she ask Lux to give his and Ragini's relation a chance then we can blame Swara for her hypocrisy. and if she use Sanky for Ragya relation then we can defo bash her.

Agree completely Leki 🤗

RagYa marriage happened with their own consent & it should totally be their decision about how to go on with it. AdRi's case is different & she never asked to stay with Adarsh, just told her to reconsider about giving him a second chance especially because Pari loves Adarsh. She didn't want Pari to regret her decision later & cry all her life.

Sanskaar IS the culprit. Yeah he might be repenting with all his heart & soul & has come to truly love her. Swara has forgiven him for all his mistakes but it is a bit too much to expect her to reciprocate to his love & stay married to him. He's not just a friend to her but also the guy who ruined her life & reputation for his selfish revenge & no human is so mahaan to just let go of that grudge so easily.

Oh that will be hypocrisy ki maa like I said & I'll bash her SO bad for it if she does so which I am afraid she will. She has no right to decide for another married couple & be inconsiderate towards Sanskaar & use him again. I think Sanskaar will too allow to get used again :/
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: harshsriti

you are right.. but i'm thinking that sanskar already suffered a lot. if he can be with swara in her worst situation then why can't she let him a part of her happiness? she also know that he love her more than anything in the world.. she can give him a chance. what for seeking divorce ? i know it is a forced marriage.. but look at his love.. can't she see his pain? atleast she could gave him a hope.. else his heart will broke ..

I agree with you..
But Sanskar really deserves this pain..
Though swara forgave him, we can't let go the cruelty he did to her.
She was not at fault
Still he played with her mind.
He tarnished her image..
Made her a drug addict.
Through her to a state where even her own people disowned her..
Swara is not punishing him, still he is getting the taste of his own medicine..
I can't say Swara is wrong.
A girl can't get over a love and fall for another this soon.
She need time.
Now she is scared of relations.
She wants to go away from the dreadful past and relax.
Let her think calmly and realise the feelings in her .
For now, let Sanskar, feel the pain, which only will deepen the love and respect for her
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: luvakanksha


Its not about how adarsh pari marriage being different or similar to swasan
Its about principles which remains same in every situation
Swara is ready to save a marriage in which a women is cheated
She is ready to save a marriage which has no trust ( shomi and shekhar)
But she is not ready to save a marriage in which her husband loves her
Principle of marriage is to get married to someone who loves you and not to the one you love
The point is there are more chances of swasan marriage survival than pari adarsh and shomi shekhar but still she is not ready to save it

Though Adrash cheated Pari... she loves him... And it was Pari decision to stay in that mrg swara didnt force her...
In SwaSan mrg... Swara wont love Sanskaar that is wat she is thinking...
Though Sanskaar loves Swara it doesnt mean she should love him...
Swara faced a lot of problems and the ppl she loved cheated her and broke her trust so now she is not in a position to think anything abt love...
Though Sanskaar is redemeed and helped Swara in her fight he didnt do any ehsaan on Swara he did it becos he is also responsible for Swara problems...
Wait for sometime and give time to swara she ll understand Sanskaar love and ll be head over heels in love with Sanskaar...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: luvakanksha

Its not about how adarsh pari marriage being different or similar to swasan
Its about principles which remains same in every situation
Swara is ready to save a marriage in which a women is cheated
She is ready to save a marriage which has no trust ( shomi and shekhar)
But she is not ready to save a marriage in which her husband loves her
Principle of marriage is to get married to someone who loves you and not to the one you love
The point is there are more chances of swasan marriage survival than pari adarsh and shomi shekhar but still she is not ready to save it

Swara has consistently proved that love is of prime importance to her. You think she would be so adamant to unite her maa & baba if Shomi wasn't so hopelessly in love with Shekhar? She knows Pari loves Adarsh & she only doesn't want her to cry later for her decision. She never asked Pari to forgive Adarsh, just asked her to reconsider & Pari instantly agreed cos even she in her heart wanted to give Adarsh a second chance.

She's not even considering whether their marriage will survive or not, maybe she knows it has full chance to but wouldn't it be unfair to Sanskaar to be in a loveless marriage? Damn sure he wouldn't want that. Like I said, the guy will accept only love in return, nothing more nothing less.

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