Aren't we being too quick to judge?

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.Sarcasmazing.

@.Sarcasmazing.

Dazzler

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Posted: 10 years ago

I think we are being a bit too quick to judge Swara?

First of all, don't even know if the divorce article is 100% true but assuming that it is, we don't yet know in what state of mind Swara is taking this decision. Yeah the girl believes in the institution of marriage but we all know she believes in love too, no wonder wants her mom to live with spineless gadodia just cos Shomi loves him AND because he's her dad. Hypocrisy on her part would be, her forcing Lakshya to forever nibhao a loveless marriage with Ragini, which she will obviously do. But even here it can be said that Lakshya married Rags with all his senses intact. Still doesn't negate the fact that he was manipulated & it should totally be RagYa's decision about their future & Swara should NOT interfere.

Regarding SwaSan divorce, we all know Swara thinks she feels no love for Sanskaar. She knows he loves her & she maybe thinks that binding him to a loveless marriage with be extremely unfair to him & maybe that's why she decides to divorce him so that he doesn't have to endure this pain all his life. Sanskaar won't initiate the divorce, even that day he said, Main zindagi bhar tumhara dost bankar rahunga aur agar tumhe vo bhi manzur nahi, toh main tumhe nahi rokunga. This clearly means he won't be initiating the divorce (although I would LOVE it if he did!) & was also clear to say, he won't stop her if she wants to seperate from him. Now if Swara comes begging to Sanskaar to stay married to her so that RagYa can re-unite, it will be hypocrisy at it's best and extremely unfair & inconsiderate towards Sanky & his feelings & I'll be the first one to lash out. Now THAT would be hypocrisy ki maa :/

Would like to wait for the episode to see the circumstances of the situation & I want Swara to go away from Sanskaar & live on her own for her to realise how MUCH she took him for granted & how used to she's become to his presence & attention around her. Damn sure they'll have to live together but for a couple months due to court orders or something. Ah, will be fun either way 😆

So let's just wait for the episode & see Swara's mental state before jumping the gun 😆 It's her life & her decision who to be with or whether to be with someone AT ALL. I hope she has a talk with Sanskaar & then decide to file for the divorce cos the guy is MARRIED too & has an EQUAL say. I really want him to agree with her, with his cool & indifferent demeanor intact. Would love to see Swara getting affected seeing him totally unaffected by this 😉 Sankaar can later cry his eyes out in private, I'd love it 😭 Is this track going to be awesome or what 😳😆

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Anu0517

@Anu0517

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Posted: 10 years ago

Amazing and Superb post Kavya...👏

True we cant come to conclusions now itself...

ET article is not so reliable as well...

I too want Sanskaar not to be affected by this news infront of Swara and be casual...

May be She is afraid of loving becos these many ppl (Shekhar, Ragini & Laksh) betrayed her love and trust...Swara too has life she can decide wat she want...

But finally we knw she ll be back to Sanskaar itself... So waiting for that day...

Hope this track ll be interesting...

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Jwala

@LoveSriNal

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Posted: 10 years ago

you are right.. but i'm thinking that sanskar already suffered a lot. if he can be with swara in her worst situation then why can't she let him a part of her happiness? she also know that he love her more than anything in the world.. she can give him a chance. what for seeking divorce ? i know it is a forced marriage.. but look at his love.. can't she see his pain? atleast she could gave him a hope.. else his heart will broke ..

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akanksha

@luvakanksha

Dazzler

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Posted: 10 years ago

Actually I am not getting this divorce move of swara

She is contradicting herself

She said that for her marriage is a sacred bond ( pavitra bandhan) so how is she divorcing sanskar without giving her marriage a chance

I mean she convinced pari to give a second chance to adarsh who was cheating her and everyone in mm was expecting the same from her why???????

I mean if pari would have cheated, adarsh would not be expected to give her a second chance

Beside sanskar has done whatever swara expected from him even more

He is not imposing this relationship on her even though he loves her

He has redeemed himself for her

But still adarsh should get a second chance but he should not even get a chance 😡

This is my only problem with swara's divorce decision

It is hypocrisy

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.Sarcasmazing.

@.Sarcasmazing.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Asha122
Amazing and Superb post Kavya...👏
True we cant come to conclusions now itself...
ET article is not so reliable as well...
I too want Sanskaar not to be affected by this news infront of Swara and be casual...
May be She is afraid of loving becos these many ppl (Shekhar, Ragini & Laksh) betrayed her love and trust...Swara too has life she can decide wat she want...
But finally we knw she ll be back to Sanskaar itself... So waiting for that day...
Hope this track ll be interesting...

Thanks Asha 😃 Exactly! We cannot come to conclusions unless we see the episode & the circumstances surrounding it. I still remember when the, Sanskaar attempts to kill Ragini spoiler came out, everyone was so panicky & afraid that Sanskaar was still negative but when the episode was aired, it was so satisfactorily executed & not at all what it seemed.

I agree. Swara is afraid of love & IDK why but I think she has already started to fall Sanskaar & just needs that push to realize it. Hope this divorce track will be that required push for her.

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Zaalima_5

@Zaalima_5

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Posted: 10 years ago

yes we have to wait for the swara's reason for divorce. after this only we should judge her decision whether it was wrong or right.😛

i don't know about others but i m super excited for this divorce track. so many swasan scenes...😳

one thing is sure, sawra is asking divorce this time but definitely after six month swara will be the one who is going to stop this divorce...🤪🥳

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.Sarcasmazing.

@.Sarcasmazing.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: harshsriti
you are right.. but i'm thinking that sanskar already suffered a lot. if he can be with swara in her worst situation then why can't she let him a part of her happiness? she also know that he love her more than anything in the world.. she can give him a chance. what for seeking divorce ? i know it is a forced marriage.. but look at his love.. can't she see his pain? atleast she could gave him a hope.. else his heart will broke ..

I think it will be extremely unfair to Sanskaar if Swara were to stay married to him just because he loves her. Damn sure even Sanskaar wouldn't want that, he is the kind of guy who will expect nothing but Swara's love in reciprocation to his love. Nothing more, nothing less. We still don't know whether Swara is sure of his love. Maybe in her heart she thinks it's not love but infatuation that he feels for her due to them staying together all these days.

It's not fair to expect her to give this marriage a chance just because Sanskaar loves her & when she thinks she can't love him the same way. Purely my perspective.

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Shree....

@Shreeswathy

Rocker

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Posted: 10 years ago

Good post kavya..

Yes.. We can't reach a conclusion now, as we are not sure about the reliability of the article itself..

As of now, Even though he affects her a lot, still she wants to go away from him, just because she is scared of the recent happenings in her life..

Though we feel like months have passed after the wedding, it is hardly a week in the show.

So, she have to come out of this turmoil first..

She needs time to think about all these..

So this divorce is a good thing..

She will get Time to think about him..

She will get to know him more..

As many says, I don't think Sanskar will initiate a divorce..

But he will stand with Swara' s decision what ever be the reason..

The guy will continue to treat her in the Same way he did in the last week..

He was not expecting her to feel for him.

Still stood with her..

Actually, the 6 months will be a grace period for him..

I am waiting for the new track, with hopes of good swasan moments...

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DivineDarkness

@DivineDarkness

Stunner

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Posted: 10 years ago

Well said Kavya... Swara said she believe in institution of marriage, she said she won't break RagYa marriage,she didn't ask Lux to remain married to Ragini.. RagYa marriage was their own decision but SwaSan marriage thats not the case.

Even in AdRi's case Swara clearly told it's Pari's decision whether to give Adarsh second chance or not.. she just asked her to think about it and set her priorities right.

Swara have full right to decide if she want to continue this relation or not. Since Sanky repents his deed doesn't mean that what he did with Swara is justified... He played a role in ruining her life and if he is supporting Swara and stand with her he is not doing some ehsaan on her.

It's her life people played with and ruined and if anyone have right to decide what she should do in future that's only Swara...

But after asking Sanskar for divorce and then she ask Lux to give his and Ragini's relation a chance then we can blame Swara for her hypocrisy. and if she use Sanky for Ragya relation then we can defo bash her.

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.Sarcasmazing.

@.Sarcasmazing.

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: luvakanksha
Actually I am not getting this divorce move of swara
She is contradicting herself
She said that for her marriage is a sacred bond ( pavitra bandhan) so how is she divorcing sanskar without giving her marriage a chance
I mean she convinced pari to give a second chance to adarsh who was cheating her and everyone in mm was expecting the same from her why???????
I mean if pari would have cheated, adarsh would not be expected to give her a second chance
Beside sanskar has done whatever swara expected from him even more
He is not imposing this relationship on her even though he loves her
He has redeemed himself for her
But still adarsh should get a second chance but he should not even get a chance 😡
This is my only problem with swara's divorce decision
It is hypocrisy

Didn't Swara ask Pari to decide herself whether to give Adarsh a chance or move on? She just put her perspective in front of everyone & left it to Pari to decide. The two marriages are very different. Here Pari is in love with Adarsh & Adarsh wanted a second chance while in SwaSan's relationship, Sanskaar is in love & Swara isn't so maybe she thinks it's unfair to him to be stay in this loveless marriage. Sanskaar DID admit that he too didn't want this marriage so what's the harm in getting a divorce? I am sure if Pari had cheated, the whole family would have judged her while Swara's stand would still be the same that it's for Adarsh to decide whether to give a second chance to Pari.

Sanskaar imposing or not imposing is a completely different matter altogether. Him not imposing it is actually a good reason to get divorce cos even he isn't interested in this zabardasti ka rishta & Swara knows it.

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