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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.

Agree completely Leki 🤗

RagYa marriage happened with their own consent & it should totally be their decision about how to go on with it. AdRi's case is different & she never asked to stay with Adarsh, just told her to reconsider about giving him a second chance especially because Pari loves Adarsh. She didn't want Pari to regret her decision later & cry all her life.

Sanskaar IS the culprit. Yeah he might be repenting with all his heart & soul & has come to truly love her. Swara has forgiven him for all his mistakes but it is a bit too much to expect her to reciprocate to his love & stay married to him. He's not just a friend to her but also the guy who ruined her life & reputation for his selfish revenge & no human is so mahaan to just let go of that grudge so easily.

Oh that will be hypocrisy ki maa like I said & I'll bash her SO bad for it if she does so which I am afraid she will. She has no right to decide for another married couple & be inconsiderate towards Sanskaar & use him again. I think Sanskaar will too allow to get used again :/


Exactly. Sanky is in pain he went through a lot agreed but did Swara play a role in that?? No but who got punished for that Swara. So saying Swara should give this relation a chance coz Sanky suffered a lot is not right.
And if she decide to go ahead with this relation just coz she got married to him that's when she do cruelty to Sanky coz it will hurt Sanky that the girl whom he love is staying with him jus coz of sympathy or pity and not coz of love... Sanky don't deserve that.

Situation with all three couple is different and we can't compare one with another..


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Breezy-

Yes. Swara is no one to be judged or blamed. From the starting only she was clear - After the truth revelation she will go on her own way away from sanskar. Now after the truth is out she has the right to ask for divorce as for her this marriage was just 'samjhota'. Seeing out sanskari babu he will support swara with this decision too,no matter how much it pains him from inside.

I really wanna see how will this go. I mean ab SwaSan ki love ki gaadi kaise aage badhegi? Excitement toh hai 😆
If she will ask sanskar to fake love with her just for the sake of RagYa, it will be bad. Like really bad for sanky. Coz in all these play it's him who will be hurt and will fall for her more.As of swara she will start developing feelings for him too but won't reveal it soon. Bohot tadpayegi sanky ko!

At the end sanky will be like: kya swara, Agar ek pal aur tumhare saath raha toh mujhe tumse aur pyaar ho jayage, aur tumhe nahi hoga 😆

Yeah she did tell him, tum apne raaste aur main apne & is actually staying true to her words 😆 Both of them do not want to be part of this samjhauta & it's only fair to them to not be a part of it. Sanskaari Babu is selfless in love & I love it 😳😆

Gaadi acche se aage badhegi, slow & steady types. Hopefully with Swara on driver's seat this time 😆

Oh god, that will be absolutely horrible. While that will make Swara fall for him, it will at the same time be very harsh & insensitive towards Sanskaar. Poor guy will be 🥺 I love the ek pal dialogue Sanskaar should throw it on her face if she does so 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: afreenaamna

Always Loved your topics..

LOL Thank you afreen 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Staying in a marriage just for pity or societal pressure is the stupidest thing a person can do. But opting out of a marriage just because of a fairly tale notion of love is worser.
Without Swara's realising it, Sanskar has become the pillar of her life. He is her support system, her best friend and the person she trusts most. And if she dumps him just because of the following reasons:

a) She feels that she cannot love him the way he does
b) Her staying at MM will not let Ragya get together again

I would fail to relate to he character or respect it. You cannot always be mahaan. At times one has to be practical and grasp the happiness life is offering.

Its time they show Swara taking a mature decision.


Edited by billorani123 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.

Exactly. Patience IS the key word 😉😆

IKR? It will be SO good. They'll have to live together for months & itne time me toh, Swara would be head over heels for him Just want loads of SwaSan, I'd love to see them fight for the bed & stuff like that 😆



Am with you both on this...

Lets wait and see what she does what she does and then...discuss...

Personally like Kulsum and You am all for it..as what we will as viewers will get loads of Swasan scene...be it to show the family or LakshRagini they are married and happilyetc...😆😆😆

Swasan is all I wont ...😆😆😆


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I completely agree...lets wait and watch...but this one point...i am really very sure abt...divorce or no divorce...yes sansku will be in pain...he might cry too alone...but he will respect and support swara's decision...even if they had to stay married for Ragya sake though in our eyes its not being fair from swara's part...but he will fully support her decision...
Edited by Mages - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.


What deep? Expected me to bash Swara black & blue?😊Imma waiting😆

Kavya 😃 😃 just now read your post fully was in hurry to reach home at that time ..waah kya post hai 😃 I m happy that u said to wait instead of supporting swara 😳 I bashed her enough after the article came and now I really hope it turns out to be not true ..ragya mission n using sanskar for that sounds so selfish so i really don't wanna see that crap ..once again awesome post .. I thought I will fight here with u thinking u would have supported swara isiliye said "will be back" 😆
Edited by bunnyrocks - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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In all this I'm most curious to know what Sujata's stand will be. She adores Swara now as a person but not as her daughter-in-law. She may even be happy if a divorce is on the cards, but her love for her son will make it hard for her to see him suffering again so she might actually change her stance later. Would be really interesting to see her reactions and I'm sure we can expect some great dialogs from her.
Edited by inlieu - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.

Thanks Swathy & I completely agree with you! It is too early to expect Swara to forget everything that has happened to her & jump into Sanskaar's arms just because he loves her or even stay married to him & hurt him in the process. Sanskaar will NEVER force her & will stand with her, even if it means being seperated from her & losing her forever. He might be twisted but is selfless in love & he'll prove it with his actions. Upcoming days hopefully will be pleasant for us & I know for a fact that if Swara falls for Sanskaar, it's gonna be the forever types & will probably be more in love with him than he'll be with her 😳


I don't know if she will be more in love with him than he with her because he is such an intense lover. That would be hard to match. But if she can even get close to that level I would be happy.

I just hope this happens before the Kavita mystery is unraveled because he will be in a messed up state then and she would need to be his pillar of strength then. Especially if the culprit turns out to be one of his family members, such as AP. That would break him and Swara would know exactly what he will be going through having suffered betrayal at the hands of those close to her.
Edited by inlieu - 10 years ago

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