Originally posted by: nisha_hc_bs_dd
Why people love SwaSan ??
I have been watching Swaragini from its inception, but the character of Lakshya is not of a person to take up the responsibilities of marriage, he feared marriage in the first place . His parents felt , just because he reached the age of marriage they should settle him down. He was the definition of bade baap ka bhigda hua aulaad as portrayed initially, took no ownership of his mistakes and not too grown up as a man. So, his parents felt that marriage would change him and make him feel more responsible towards life, hence they found a more docile girl like Ragini.
So as a character Lakshya never pleased me, coz he swayed to the direction where the winds blew heavy.He accepted the proposal of Ragini coz he was forced by his father , Sanskaar on the other hand stood up for his love, made a life for himself and then wanted to take up marriage with Kavita. I would any day love to marry a self-made guy like Sanskaar, not someone who despite being served everything on plate did not know what to do with it. Lakshya is a very waivering character not having any traits of his own.
So, when he is still engaged to Ragini for the fear of his father, he falls in love with the modern outlook Swara. He comes back and tells it to Ragini ,pursues Swara though she denies his love coz they are sisters.Ragini might be instigated , but I think she could have used her brains and a heart if she had place for her own sister , she would not have tried to kill her as well malign the character of Swara to such extent. Had she been dead everyone in the family would be hating her .
Sanskaar burns in his hell for 5 years of his life just to avenge the killers and targets his family but owns up to his mistakes to a level where he reveals it to his entire family of his intentions, hate him or love him whatever it is, he owns up to it.
Anyone may ask, Laksh has supported Swara so many times but when the acid test came in , he just blindly out of a fit of anger married the next option available- Ragini, agreeing to the fact that Ragini has created the entire drama. His parents said they'd be leaving but he did not want to leave, he wanted to marry Ragini , so it is Laksh decision. He did not wait for anything else, nor he did believe Swara when she came in with the bandage on her head.
Sanskaar for 5 long years was in hell of losing first love --not moving on, whereas Laksh could move on pal jhapakte hi to get married ...both the cases are their respective first love ..
Sanskaar not even once has denied the fact that he loved Swara once he knew about and he never lets Swara herself demean the love that he has for her.
Laksh on the other hand says that ghin aate hain Swara ko dekh kar, love in real might feel cheated at times but would never call them characterless .. so in real any real woman with self -respect wouldn't stay with a person who does not trust and respect.
All the endearing love giving roses and tinted glass proposals are good in the initial stages but to take on the world a couple needs understanding... that understanding is there in Swasan
Coming to SwaSan, a real love- love along with friendship stands by all the lows and highs in life and takes pride in their other half, though this might have been a relationship out of the situations but they survives everything thrown at them.
For me any day SwaSan !! You SwaLak .. one's choices that's all !!
Anupamaa
