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Tahitien-moon

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: malikakas
^ I don't disagree with you Prasa. But I think this situation is more complex than the usual sibling relationships because of NK's condition. A big part of Meghna's overprotectiveness in this situation comes from her guilt that because of her, Naina is in this position.
Naina chose to be the savior of Meghna's happiness even if it meant going against Meghna's wishes. So Meghna *has to* attempt to be the savior of Naina's happiness even if it means going against Naina's wishes. Anything less from Meghna would be irresponsible from her.

yaar Naina did decide to get married against meghna's wishes but end of the day it was Naina's decision it was her wish that count and it was her marriage 😆 end of the day she is the only one who can decide not her sister ok meghna can advise against it but she neither force her opinion on naina nor should ever try to force there I don't I would like it😆 ok she has the right to feel guilty she has the right to try to protect but hope it is not gonna be meghna grabbing and dragging Naina away( naina is not a child she is a grown intelligent young woman) like in promo nor forbid things like shown in promo cause there this is going way off limits of sisterhood it's almost dictatorship 😆 hope only promo was exaggerated 😉 i like gently persuasive meghna ( as she is with nirmala) 👏don't want forceful meghna who would go against wishes of her own sister😆

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Tahitien-moon

yaar Naina did decide to get married against meghna's wishes but end of the day it was Naina's decision it was her wish that count and it was her marriage 😆 end of the day she is the only one who can decide not her sister ok meghna can advise against it but she neither force her opinion on naina nor should ever try to force there I don't I would like it😆 ok she has the right to feel guilty she has the right to try to protect but hope it is not gonna be meghna grabbing and dragging Naina away( naina is not a child she is a grown intelligent young woman) like in promo nor forbid things like shown in promo cause there this is going way off limits of sisterhood it's almost dictatorship 😆 hope only promo was exaggerated 😉 i like gently persuasive meghna ( as she is with nirmala) 👏don't want forceful meghna who would go against wishes of her own sister😆

But from Meghna's persepective... Naina already made such a stupid choice😆 for Meghna's happiness. How does Meghna know that Naina isn't just settling for Meghna's happiness? Naina is someone that would settle for less-- so how does Meghna know that her sister isn't continuing to do just that?

I am not saying Naina doesn't have the right to make her own choices.. but this wedding was never a free and clear choice for her. It was an act of desperation for Meghna's happiness. It was a choice made under pressure. There is a difference. And Meghna has no way of knowing if Naina is continuing to stay in that marriage out of that same type of pressure.

For example, if it was a marriage where Naina wasn't happy.. would she tell everyone she was? From what we've seen probably yes. When Karan was being harsh in the early days... she stuck it out and lied to everyone. So how does Meghna know that Naina isn't just pretending to do that to keep the peace? I really feel strongly that its Meghna's responsibility to ensure Naina's happiness.

I am not saying I want Meghna to pull Naina away etc. But at the same time I want Meghna to do what she couldn't do at the wedding time because of Sharda's kassam and say this scenario is wrong and should never happened. Even if Naina chose to make a sacrifice, Naina should never have been put in a position to make these kinds of choices. So what I really want is Meghna to maneuver a situation where Naina and Karan actually get a real choice. Naina has to show to Meghna that she isn't staying in this marriage because of archaic traditions or societal pressure. Once Naina is able to show Meghna that she is actually making a choice for her own personal happiness then I think Meghna would automatically back off.

Edited by malikakas - 8 years ago

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Adhya

@Agni_Jytsona

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

I agree completely meghna is not wrong from her pov she is naina s elder sis and she will protect her from pain no matter what

I m sure she would have reacted the same way even if nairan s wedding wouldn't have been prize for saving her own marriage

U see the sisters are very close and their love for each other is enough for them to go all out for each other

But meghna needs to understand thar nairan have already passed the stage of compromise and forced wedding now they are much more for each other

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Tahitien-moon

@Tahitien-moon

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha
I agree completely meghna is not wrong from her pov she is naina s elder sis and she will protect her from pain no matter what
I m sure she would have reacted the same way even if nairan s wedding wouldn't have been prize for saving her own marriage

U see the sisters are very close and their love for each other is enough for them to go all out for each other

But meghna needs to understand thar nairan have already passed the stage of compromise and forced wedding now they are much more for each other

yehh i think after all segments we've seen lately both sisters came to some sort of understanding 😆 just as devar and babbi too😆