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Originally posted by: ~Saraa~

You just seem to not understand that I was not calling you "attention seekers" GO READ MY COMMENT AGAIN, Omni. Please and then get back here.

Well Saraa, I won't talk in definitions or I'll give lectures, but will only show you what you did in brief..lets take an example.

Originally posted by: Riyasi

^^ Sarah, I am all for cutting you some slack here. After all you did nothing wrong in asking them to report it, neither in using that emoticon. you are as much a member here as anybody in your place and entitled to your opinion. You also added that the group themselves are vocal about their Modus Operandi.

The kind of harsh language being used suddenly against you after your efforts to make amends, patch up and be of help, rather than being polite themselves is inappropriate.

You also just got called a "back stabber" which is worse than an "attention seeker", although your use of the latter was a irresponsible as well, don't you think?

And I support you when you say you did not backstab anyone while posting your opinion openly instead of via PMs. After all you will reply to someone only at a place where you will be asked about it.

Thankyou for cutting me some slack. I agree that calling someone an attention seeker is not right. But heck, I didn't call anyone that. I said that the act was one that was "seeking attention."

Yeah, about back stabber? I don't even know why I was called that? It's not like I went around literally trashing these people. I was asked what kind of an act that was and I said it was to seek attention. I should have perhaps edited it out once the members had read it, then I would have still be on the good side of the members.

Originally posted by: prabba

I meant that being successful in our lives , raising kids, when some members probably lot younger tags you with vicious names for an actor , it does affect you.want to lash back . but I have come a long way from that phase.

I do appreciate you mods coming here to resolve this,I'm all for seeing it from both sides

Thankyou and I would appreciate if you do look at both the sides.

Originally posted by: Omnipotence

Alright. Yes I doubt it but unliked others i wouldn't certify that your intentions are not in good faith. How about dealing with some cool viewbies who label some members as 'attention seekers'.

Minuu, I have read your comments on that thread. And yes your actions speak the same language as your words. I can see the effort being made, hope we won't be disappointed. Should we still expect that sticky thread you were talking about ???

Omni, let it be man. Let's try to work together. You don't have to trust Saraa completely if you don't want to, but hear what she has to say. As I said earlier, if you can't clear the misunderstanding, then simply talk business.

P.S: Take a deep breathe and let's start over.

Originally posted by: Omnipotence

Yo honey. Look up the meaning in the dictionary. I refered 'bitch' as in 'gossiping'

Come on now, don't tell me nothing as such goes around in your Viewbie sections. 🥱

Quit playing a victim card and quit twisting the words. No one called you a bitch.

That's exactly what you did. I called your act "seeking attention" and you said that I called you an "attention seeker"

No, we don't have time to discuss members who don't have anything to do with IPKKND. If you post something in the IPKKND fourm, then we talk about that thread. We don't talk about anyone just because we want to vent. I have a husband for that.

I think it's brilliant that the moderators are here trying to at least establish a dialogue.

Originally posted by: Omnipotence

Folks, I appreciate how you're discussing about the other things and it's perfectly right on your part. However lets not forget the main purpose of this thread. I would request you all to please quit the irrelevant discussion for a bit and foscus on some major issues.

Can we trust some two faced folks? It's funny how they're spineless when it comes to confronting us. I'm super pissed because I hate manipulative peeps even in real life. Those who stab your back. All those back stabbing fellas, make sure to kiss my ass while you're stabbing.

Politics and power game. Knew about it. Was warned about it. Yet still trusted Sarah. More than her comment, I've a problem that she couldn't confront us directly and just to please some bots, she effectively called us 'attention seekers'

Isn't this the change we want? Aren't these higher-ups who cover the backs and breed the morbid fangirls who go on to cyber bully you?

Shame on you. Playing a goody goody doesn't really work nor would it get you a 'virtual' promotion. Quit the diplomacy.

So, when I look at this, in other words you're calling me a cheap person looking for a promotion?

Oh lord spare us from self righteous peeps.

Can everyone take a chill pill? Omni, i know you hate being advised, but hear what Saraa has got to say. You gave her chance when the rest of us didnt, so stay patient and listen and have a two way conversation. You feel she judged us, arent we judging her too without listening to her?

If we want a solution for all of this and want to move ahead, we need to work with the mods.