I'm not sure what provoked this in the first place, skimming back i see it's Saruu's comment referring to you and gang as "attention seekers". Best thing to do is settle it face to face, vent it all our here, come to a conclusion and end it.
My main agenda here is too focus on the fact that every member has the right to have their say, and too turn this place in to a friendly forum where we all can be friends and trust each other.
RE: Backstabbing/B* (as you feel, in the relevant forums): NO ONE has the right to B* about any member of the forum, that includes DT members. I can assure you from my side that there has been no such barking behind your backs from us (IPK DT).
It's all been said here.