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People hitting below the belt is not new to me or to this forum, personal attacks are the flavor of the day. Who the hell wants to take time out scratch their heads and comment on a topic, it is always convenient to just go ahead and abuse. I personally try to ignore them as much as possible which is very much what I had done on the given thread too.

The kind of comments people made towards you personally were uncalled for and a pathetic display of humanity. Do people not have mother, sisters, grandmothers of their own to be saying such things about another person?

The problem is people always like to change subjects by personally attacking members because they don't have much to say it's like they run out of thoughts and ideas of defending there post so the best they can do it is the bullying way acting like they're in some online Schooling hiding behind Keyboards because nobody knows who you are and how you look like.
going to the IPK forum is like going back to kindergarten. Some people always comes up with the stupidest and childish response not only defending themself but there favorite stars like he/she is a victim of terrorism. I try hard to stay away from post but sometimes people are pushing it to the extreme. It was very childish of them to abuse you like that and then talking about self respect when they are not any better than that.

I felt ashamed that day when I visited that particular thread which was nothing but a abusive ground to attack fellow members with frustration...I do not get the real reason for this level of frustration which is not even for our own life...to be noted for a fictional show and for an actor who doesnt know our individual existence...

I find myself flabbergast when the same abusive members who attacks a fellow member with age, sexuality, look and attack other actors who is not their favorite with nasty languages call some other members bashers...they need some reality checking about the meaning of the word...

Many times I noticed freedom of spech has taken as bashing in this forum and real bashing considered as admiration and support to a particular actor...I do not think the particular actor for whom they are using abusive language to others will be very pround about such fans...

I really wish at-least in the name of supporting or showing admiration to a show and actor someone dont forget how to respect a human being...

Totally disgusting - period! This is nothing short of bullying, harassment and deformation! Theses comments were made by a member claiming to be a media person, a journalist and yet stooped so low to use such abusive language. They should all be thoroughly ashamed of their actions and I whole heartedly agree with you that the safety of members on the forum firmly rests with the MODS; appropriate action needs to be taken, which should act as a deterant to others.

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

People hitting below the belt is not new to me or to this forum, personal attacks are the flavor of the day. Who the hell wants to take time out scratch their heads and comment on a topic, it is always convenient to just go ahead and abuse. I personally try to ignore them as much as possible which is very much what I had done on the given thread too.

Some times people get so cheap with their attacks that one wonders about their values and upbringing, the vocab is so disgusting that it will put even wh**es to shame.

They are so obsessed with an actor that they hardly know their boundaries anymore and such obsession does requires some desperate medical attention.

Originally posted by: Luv_isnt_classy

I felt ashamed that day when I visited that particular thread which was nothing but a abusive ground to attack fellow members with frustration...I do not get the real reason for this level of frustration which is not even for our own life...to be noted for a fictional show and for an actor who doesnt know our individual existence...

I find myself flabbergast when the same abusive members who attacks a fellow member with age, sexuality, look and attack other actors who is not their favorite with nasty languages call some other members bashers...they need some reality checking about the meaning of the word...

Many times I noticed freedom of spech has taken as bashing in this forum and real bashing considered as admiration and support to a particular actor...I do not think the particular actor for whom they are using abusive language to others will be very pround about such fans...

I really wish at-least in the name of supporting or showing admiration to a show and actor someone dont forget how to respect a human being...

Respect is a two way street, just because the other person doesnt retaliate it doesnt mean they are weak, it is because they have too much class and believe in the power of silence.

But silence and patience is never unlimited.

The things said to you on that thread is uncalled for and disgusting. There are absolutely no excuses for such language and behaviour. Commenting on a woman's period cycle is the cheapest thing that someone could do. Aren't these members women themselves? How would they feel if someone told the same thing about their mom?

These members have crossed the lines of human decency and nothing less than a permanent ban would do.