It's About Time; 1st Page Edited. - Page 5

Originally posted by: zainab25

Mango, since you are here,I need to ask you about some issues. Please answer. I swear I don't know where to ask. I have Pmed everyone about this, and I am still waiting...

Without further ado,

Can you please have Trina1 derease my WL's? She had given them to me back in January and still hasn't lowered them. She usually deletes my PMs and doesn't bother replying on time. Infact she has given me 40% and still hasn't bothered to lower them.

One of them was given to me for creating two ID's, even though my sister created an ID for herself from the same computer. I was extremely new on IF then, and had no idea that two people couldn't make ID's from the same IP address.

Another was given to me for referring to a member as 'jee' since she was older than me, but the member reported and trina was best friends with her so she gave me a warning increase. I remained quite because I knew I had no grounds to prove myself. In this same thread, the person who was best friends with the Moderator threatened to stalk us outside the forum and used derogatory terms against us. But no action was taken since the topic was shut down and comments were edited. The only action that was taken landed upon me...

Can you please tell her to decrease my WL's? I mean it has been like 6 months now, so I don't think it's legitimate for her to not lower it since that's just illogical.

I wrote to you in many hopes. I just don't know who else to contact anymore regarding this issue that has become almost stale now. It's frustrating. I am writing to everyone that has some level of power on IF.

hey ....about the warning....the DT member who gives it..needs to decrease it...as they are the ones who know why they were given....
i'll get this sorted out... 😊

@Mango: I want to thank you for NOT closing this topic. Many times in the past when members created topics like these the topic gets closed, and we have to keep our mouth shut. We cannot express our opinion at all, and we sit quietly listening to everything, since DT hands out warnings for members that go against the mods. Also, in the future prior to the topic getting closed, if you can please give us a notice in advance, so that everyone can post their opinion, and the matter will be looked at.

@Everyone: That is not at all happy with IF system. I say create another forum, where everything is open. Criticism is accepted. I think all you girls are cool, and honest about your opinion.

Finally, I have to say most of us in this topic do not wake up every morning thinking, "Today is a beautiful day, let me bash the moderators 😃". No, we don't, if we are complaining, then we have a reason to complain.

Originally posted by: zainab25

One of them was given to me for creating two ID's, even though my sister created an ID for herself from the same computer. I was extremely new on IF then, and had no idea that two people couldn't make ID's from the same IP address.

^ Plus, it is time consuming to create three id's and post. Also, all three of you must have different choices, and hard for a person to keep track of all three choices.

Mango
If you are reading this

the comedy with many people signing in teh same IP can happen for multiple reasons. My sister has an id on IF..but she doesnt use it as often as I do..if she does then would I be a case of MID?

please consider to look beyond IP and into writing styles as sanya mentioned...

Originally posted by: SaNyA_21

Holy Jesus. You don't know HOW many times Sabrina, Shabnam, and I have been accused of being the same people. We're related, clearly we would sign in from the SAME laptops when we're together. And obviously me and Shabnam have the same IP address since we LIVE together. Sisters. Is that TOO hard to comprehend? Vijay himself PMed one of us telling us that we're the same people. Hello?! Two of us make creations! What, would we put different copyright signs on our creations and have two galleries if we were the same people?! Uhm..no. They wanted proof. Hah, that's pretty funny. Because before accusing us, they didn't bother checking our posts, and see how each 3 of us have different typing styles. Let me tell, no sorry, ASSURE you that NONE of us has the time to make three IDs, make creations and post them in TWO galleris, and come up with 3 different typing styles. 🤣

I agree. I think the MID case should be overlooked, especially if it is one or two id's from the same IP address. People in the same family do visit IF. It's difficult for everyone to present proof. We put up our pictures here, as proof? Real privacy. As Zainab mentioned this is not Shaadi.com.

Exactly. You guys never catch the ones with REAL MID people, you come after the innocent ones. 😳

Originally posted by: sabrinaa.

^ How about the friggen members choose themselves? Or vote or something. Anything really. Just not the way they choose them now.

I mean it's pretty freaking obvious how the viewbies get chosen and why. No one's living under a rock, here, darlings.

WAy ahead of you. We took this idea to Sam and other mods, about having members vote for a moderator, or at least have a GM choose members who could be potential moderators, and have forum members provide input or vote.

Nada.

Originally posted by: mango

^ so from what I have read...the tone used in the warnings seem to be the main reason for all this....

and roxthefox...i checked my inbox for any mssgs i got from you....there was none and i haven't deleted my mssgs in last one year or so.....so i don't know what happened then....i'll only be talking about what happened this time...

the matter has been sorted out from what I know.....the people concerned have been talked to .... also, http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1239237&TPN=3 ...

in future if you have any concerns PM me or another GM....

Mango, I PMed every single GM on IF for many months, so I'm not sure which PM I sent you, but I do recall some friends tleling me that, at the time, you were inactive, so I PMed Priya Nair, amongst others, instead. I was told by some GM's that, because of the 'attack that we planned', no one would take us seriously, and I believe there was three moderators who told me the same thing; that moderators don't like it when we question them, and because we chose to do our dirty laundary in public, no one would ever take us seriously. I can name the moderators who told me that as well. And I can also name the moderators who told us that they refuse to help our group because of its reputation.

FYI- we did our 'dirty' laundary in public, after months of frustration and no action being taken, despite PM's to mods, GM's and even the admins.