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@-dramaholic-

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+ 6

Posted: 16 years ago

#121

Thanks Caro..I appericate it =) @:roxthefox - lol i don't think the Dev Team are as rude as members who do use foul langauge.. Example, refer back to your pervious reply.

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aditi gupta

@psycho_angel

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

#122

Originally posted by: carolinecj

Okay I perfectly understand the pure frustration...because we have experienced it too.. I am very glad u said it in the open!!

and as we cant do anything about the issues in the past, we can start all over again and see how we can improve the forum

I am ready to start over if u are!

as u have apologized for ur tone.. i hope u do understand that her post stemmed from ehr frustration with ur tone! if u can start over with her... as we are willing to start over.... things would be different

I hope all of us start over now... freshly... !!

good day to u!

@bold..will u consider reducing neha's warning levels now?it is a closed chapter,right?

also,kindly read the reports i have sent against a particular member who attacks us and needles us.please do not ignore the report.it is a valid and genuine report and the members posts violate more than 1 IF coc.starting afresh would entitle you to look at the posts in an unbiased manner.if a warning is issued for instigatory/flaming posts to one member,it should be send to all members who violate IF cocs.

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Kavya

@Bazinga

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 16 years ago

#123

Originally posted by: DramaholicVibes
@: Kavya, there have been inncidents in the past where members have posted in such a way which bursts an outbreak between other members on the forum. When you post or criticise, please make sure you don't add anything savoury or uncalled for that you wouldn't like listening about yourself.

Some of the Poems which are posted are infact funny, but don't amuse the people who they are about. Don't get me wrong, there have been many times when i myself like reading your topics, but then there are times when members who post in CJ or IPL forget that what they might post might hurt somebody.

DB, as far as I remember, I never add anything 'savory' or 'uncalled for' in my posts about OTHERS UNLESS I feel compelled to do so when I find some members deriding my views or mentioning me or my friends in their posts by passing snide remarks at us, even then I only resort to sarcasm while shooting back my retorts and don't talk anything about their personality/comment on them on a personal level. My criticism, mostly pertains only to the show , its CHARACTERS which DO NOT EXIST FOR REAL FYI and the show's 'creatives'. And my criticism of the creatives also questions only their abilities as a creative team who pen the show, I NEVER remarked about them as persons either. So, there is NO question, whatsoever, of ME saying ANYTHING to ANYONE which I WOULD NOT LIKE to hear about myself.

Let us presume that I am okay with being bashed by some members who do it openly, then going by your statement I can bash them back because I am cool with listening to the negative things they say about me, is it not?

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@-dramaholic-

Inactive

+ 6

Posted: 16 years ago

#124

@Kavya, i did not accuse you only, i've said that in general - many members do that.

Also as i say before, its best to report any snide remarks against you to the dev team..you don't need to take things into your hands as it will make things worse. If somebody is saying something against you, report it and we can handle it.

You've accepted that at times you yourself can post sarcasm replies.. do you see how it could maybe affect other people? I know everyone has their own opinion, but all you need to do is report rather than taking things into your own hands.

One will always be the bigger person if they don't relaliate and simply forward the issue to the DT.

@: mjhtac : The DT Will look into the issues, as far as the warning is concerned, i've spoken to the member concerned when it was raised, and also told her when it will be reduced. Just simple wait and it will be done once we see improvment of such on the forum. Deal?

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aditi gupta

@psycho_angel

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

#125

soha...exactly what iv been trying to say! a mod,however rude/unsavory he might be,manages to get away without a scratch.a member gets her warning level raised.a member who is a friend of the mod gets away with the same behavior.IF COCs doesnt apply to mods/friends of mods.if it did,a certain member should have been ideally banned by now.
and im sure these points will be ignored.

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Sohathefox

@roxthefox

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

#126

@ DB:

"I have never acted like "God", nor would I compare myself to god. You can see my answer to that in Kavya's reply. As far as me saying anything to nehlove about "you should be ashamed", that was a member speaking, not a dev team and yes I do apologize for that. No I did not receive a warning, not because I'm a Dev Team but because there weren't anything foul or abusive with what I said. I did not use any abusive language against the member, and yes I do understand what was said could have upset the member, but then again different people think differently. There have been a hand full of members who believe that what the member did was far more insulting than what I replied. With that note the DT have to weigh up both sides before taking action, and that was done. "

You are right, different people think differently. And that's my point. You, and other members, felt that Neha's post was mocking the DEV team, and violating rules, therefore she recieved a warning. But what about those that felt that your warning, along with others posted in the past, were violating rules?

I'm not trying to beat this matter to death, because there are other larger issues lingering around this forum, such as the unfair treatment of members, based on your personal hate and bias, as experienced with Trina1's moderation.

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nehlove

@nehlove

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 16 years ago

#127

Originally posted by: DramaholicVibes
I have given my reason for the increase in your WL one post above. it will not be decreased until improvment is seen on the forum. Mocking/Bashing a DT with the tone you used was not allowed and therefore you received the warning.

I'd therefore like to end that topic here.

I wrote the exact same thing that was written in another forum while giving in the forum.. It was the SAME tone used by DT.. I dunno how it was any thing different

And then the mods say "Freedom of speech" is allowed..

Clearly it is NOT.

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@-dramaholic-

Inactive

+ 6

Posted: 16 years ago

#128

@: mjhtac : Is that refering to me?? I've never supported a "freind". Sorry but i'm not understanding what your trying to say. Also i'm not replying to any more posts concering the WL in IPL. That has been dealt with, and the warning will be decreased when the time comes.

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aditi gupta

@psycho_angel

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

#129

Originally posted by: DramaholicVibes

@: mjhtac : The DT Will look into the issues, as far as the warning is concerned, i've spoken to the member concerned when it was raised, and also told her when it will be reduced. Just simple wait and it will be done once we see improvment of such on the forum. Deal?

@bold ...now is a good time to reduce the warning dont u think so?since we are starting afresh and everything?again this is a suggestion thread and im giving my suggestion,not questioning the Dev Team.

edit:i didnt read this reply properly.sorry.my mistake.i was talking about warning the other member who has been reported against.kindly look into her posts and my reports and let me know why she hasnt been issued with a warning yet.the posts are full blown examples of instigatory/flaming remarks.

@red: a forum will not improve unless equality is maintained.bias will result in more ill feeling towards the mods,especially if action is taken against one member and another member is continually spared

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Sohathefox

@roxthefox

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

#130

Originally posted by: DramaholicVibes
Thanks Caro..I appericate it =) @:roxthefox - lol i don't think the Dev Team are as rude as members who do use foul langauge.. Example, refer back to your pervious reply.

Ooops, I used the word 'shit', which is so much worse than being told that I'm full of nonsense, I'm awful, I'm a shameless and loser who tarnishes the environment of IF...

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