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Posted: 8 years ago
@Sanju Sita only followed Patni dharma that is to support her husband in his dharma. Woman is Shakthi and post marriage the power works according to the needs of the husband. If a man keeps his wife in the bandhan of love he will always get bounty from her. She will move with him as per his dharma. When he is son, she will be DIL, when he is brother she will be bhabi, when he is king, she will be queen etc etc.. And she will do these roles with freewill. Just like earth rotates around the sun. Sun is the centre.
Many girls don't understand this centre point. Understand Patni dharma, depending on your husband's dharma. It is always bahu first, patni second in our soap. If you look Sita we need to understand she was always patni first. Same with Urmila and other Mithila sisters. They supported in their husband's dharma.
Sita went to jungle because that was the dharma of Ram. Urmila allowed Lakshman to go to jungle because that was his dharma, to support his brother. Mandavi allowed Bharath to be in Nandigram because that was her dharma to help him cleanse of the sins he feels he has acquired and kirti she supports shatrughna in looking after affairs of state. When you do patni dharma correctly, all your other roles will also happen quite well. Because you are moving with your husband's dharma. And you need to concentrate on only one person.
If a man suppresses a woman ideally the power will be self destructive. If not today but surely later. There is no need for a woman to accept bandhan if it is not based on mutual love.
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Posted: 8 years ago
@ shruthi Di pls visit this thread.

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4724889
Edited by Cluny123 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Sanju cant copy paste. What is the title of the post. If it is Vaidehi Vanvass I cant convince that person. 😃. She asks why didn't Ram try to change the perception. Even after so much explaining if she sticks to her perception, how was Ram supposed to change perception of 100 people
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Posted: 8 years ago
No Di it was the Navratri thread. I would never ask u convince someone on why Ram did what? Bcoz few days back someone had started a thread ram is helpless, replying there I realised it was useless. That night I felt it was gods message enough is enough for me especially after u had posted ur personal experience on duty. It was hard hitting that day for me. I felt blessed to have known the real reason for uttarkhand something which I always believed must have a reason since when I heard about UK. I thought I would share it to whoever would criticise but yes that was a learning experience. Never am I asking for that.

Edited by Cluny123 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
What a brilliant episode. Many loops closure. Raghuvansh ka nyay, Raghuvansh ki maryada šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘. Everything out in the open. What I always understood about Hari is that he brings out the hypocrisy of a society where finally you will have to make a choice. Where do you stand.Dharma ya Adharma. Posting analysis soon
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Posted: 8 years ago

30/09/2016

Today Luv-Kush asked the question that is asked generation after generation. After sacrificing an innocent wife who has shared his joys and sorrows how can Ram be a good human, how can he be a good king. What is the justice of Raghuvansh, what is the maryada of Raghuvansh. We will not stay another second in the place woman is not respected. They will ask their guru why Rajaram is called Maryadapurushottam, he has no maryada.

The only thing that came into my mind when Luv-Kush was questioning Ram and Kausalya's face listening to the insults 2 kids are throwing on her son was surpi's dialogue " Bhaiyya I knew you will bring justice for me". Justice stands at the door of Ayodhya. For Shanta, For Kausalya, for Taramati and thousands of woman who were made dispensable by patriarchy and the so called Raghukul ki Maryada.

Why Ram had to face such a question. A man who in his privacy breaks down calling himself a failed husband and failed father telling to Sita's murthy he doesn't have any answer to the kids question and neither will she have any answer to their question is heaped insults calling him an insufficient ruler. Ram who crossed the ocean for liberating his love, Ram who is always filled with love, Ram who has not even hurt one single woman knowingly and in his own way have tried giving justice to them is called heartless. He gave liberation to Ahalya. He didn't insult Tara or Ruma. He respected Mandodari and Kaikasi. He bowed in front of Kaikeyi, loved both his mothers Kausalya and Sumitra. Loved his sister Shanta and loved his wife Sita like anything. He is called a man who is against woman. Centuries later also this question hangs over his head. A man who send his pregnant wife to forest listening to a dhobi.

Why the world doesn't ask the question to satyavadi Harischandra who sold his wife Taramati and son Rohith. Why the world doesn't ask this question to Dasrath who married thrice to get a son, who send away his daughter to lure a Rishi. And then she is seen as maryada ki murthi, while the kulvadhu who has come married into that family the right way, who has followed her patni dharma to the dictum becomes impure. Why the question to Ram.

Reason patriarchy loves Harishchandra and Dasrath . They can relate to these kings hypocrite behavior. What they cannot relate to is Ram. He is a threat to them. As they do not have answers to his actions. They feel uneasy as Ram exposes the so called maryada of patriarchy society. Ram who send away the wife who gave AP. They would have loved if Sita stayed in Ayodhya, heard the rumours and then she herself decides to go away. They would have also loved if Ram made her stay there. Kids are born. They hear the society calling their mother impure and they also discard her calling her impure. But Ram messed up all those plans. His one action ended up vindicating his wife forever. His kids questioning the society, him who represents that society.

And I feel SKR by answering Luv-Kush's question why Ram is maryadapurushottam will answer the audience like me also who had wanted the answers for ages.

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Posted: 8 years ago
Ram is a suryavanshi so why is he called Ramachandra? Any idea
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Cluny123

Ram is a suryavanshi so why is he called Ramachandra? Any idea


There is a very interesting story associated with this name.

When Ram was small, and playing with his golden toys, He glanced up at the moon. He was mesmerized by it, and decided that He wanted it as a toy. He threw tantrums until a maid came up with the idea that they can give Ram the reflection of the moon. So, a platter filled with water was brought, and Ram was appeases. Even when he was older, he used to look at the Moon for relief. So He is called Ramchandra, the One Who Loved the Moon.

Some people say that the name means As Handsome As the Moon, but I like the first one better! :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
His love for moon made him Ramachandra
Thks for sharing Gowri Di.
Ram Bakth hanuman is associated with the sun
Bakth and aradhya seems to have a fascination for sun and moon respectively. 😃
Edited by Cluny123 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Yesterday's Episode was so emotional and heartbreaking. Luv kush told Ram that he is not a good King who didnt respect and trust his wife Sita and sent her to forest by listening to a dhobi forgetting all the sacrifices Sita did for him.

I cant imagine how shocked and pained luv kush will be when they will come to know that the King Ram who sent Sita to forest is their own father and Sita the victim is their own Mother. After Sita Bhoomi Pravesh Luv Kush will be so heartbroken
😭 😭
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