No worries, Ankita, everyone has freedom of speech here. In the Samudra Manthan, the asuras' main intention were to capture the three lokas and rule the world. At that time, they were overcome by ego and desire. So, if they were given amrit, then their ego would have increased and they would have wreaked havoc.
Dharma is your duty and the way you need to act and behave to fulfill it, and Adharma is what you should not be doing and the way to do that. These rules were made by the first human, Manu, on the command of God. God only created humans, we created rules and differences. And yes Aadhya, to understand the complexity of Dharma, we need to understand the Lord, for he is the protector of Dharma.
Many people are judge because of where they came from or from what family they came from, like Karna. This is wrong. And yes, the asura soliders were fulfilling their duty, but they were supporting the wrong side, that is why they are cursed. They could have quit the bad side and come to the good, but they didn't. Vibhishan came to Ram, that is why he is not cursed because he knew right and wrong.
Bad does change as the circumstances and perspective changes, good point!
Hope this helps!
Gowri
Edited by shabari14 - 9 years ago