@Shirley you answered your question. Sita is earth's daughter, not earth😆. How many times our mothers have surprised us. How many times we have regretted that we didn't heed her warning because we never understood why she told what she told at that time.
In any battle if you have to win, you have to understand your mother. Not just in part, but in full. Things in which she warns, signals to you that goes beyond the realm of 5 senses. From a girl to a woman your growth happens then. When you understand your mother fully.
@DD you bought an interesting point. I remember the pre-stress part that exists in static beams. I actually forgot quite a lot of it. And I remember I had struggled to visualize this stress in those beams. They looked so static and which point mein stress used to be my question.
Now friction. You bought another interesting aspect. Friction is that force which is also positive. First fire was created because of friction. So when 2 bodies comes into contact friction happens. Fire happens. Now whether to use the fire constructively or destructively is with the 2 bodies concerned right. We can use the fire constructively or destructively. When we create conflicts stress increases, but when the energy is used for some productive purpose it goes than it build up.
In cables and all the friction follows natural law. Each conflict some stress is given for moving forward. To move forward we have to unload ourselves. But what to do. We keep ourselves in past 1970 mein that happened. So though we are in 2016 we are in 1970 mentally and all stress from 1970-2016 is carried forward. Every friction we take fire inside, adding to the already existing fire. In a way we are static jiske uper weight pe weight rakka jaata hai and when it can no longer take the weight. Collapse.
Move, with each friction allow some closure for the past, let go of some past. Some of your stress will also go. Atleast in 2016 think about 2000 if you cant bring it to 2016. Atleast it is better than thinking about 1970
Anupamaa
