Originally posted by: shruthiravi
Happy to know Shirley that we could clarify your queries. But believe me it was a nice discussion that made me think too.
Now yesterday's analysis. Before that again I want you to take to some back episodes. I cant help but say SKR team amazing screenplay and connectivity.
Urmila- Aapne pitashree ko bataya kyun nahi. Aapne swayamvar ke liye haan kyu ki di
Sita- Agar meri anubhooti mein sachayi hai, tho woh anubhuti satya hoke samne aayegi ( It was something similar)
A dialogue of soul sisters. Here her younger sister asks the elder sister why she didn't tell her feelings to her father. And the elder sister says she only has a feeling. She doesn't know what the other party feels and for that feeling if she destroys the present relation there is no point in it. If her feeling is true, that feeling will come as truth in front of her. We need to understand how much Sita gives importance to the feeling of the concerned other party. When Urmila-Sita have the talk Sita doesn't know what Ram feels for her. So she abides by her father. Because at that point he is the truth for her. And she tells this truth to her sister Urmila.
Mandavi- I didn't get a say in my marriage just like my sister
Mandavi- Mata please ask Bharath. I do not want any blame on my husband
Mandavi- Rajyaadhikaar belongs to elder son and my husband is not the elder son.
Fierce independent Mandavi. Fire. Who want to have say in everything. And who is pleased only when someone bows before her. Both Janak and Bharath bows in front of this lady and she melts.
Sita before leaving Ayodhya. You are the eldest among sisters after me. So I give the responsibility of mothers and other sisters to you.
Sita , the dharma keeps Mandavi the fire, power in check so that she doesn't go about doing unnecessary breaking. The right knowledge enables Mandavi to be within Maryada.
And remember relation between Mandavi and Urmila in Mithila. Always teasing, fighting, yet loving and Urmila's dialogue when Kirti's run to stop Bharath. "Aap kuch bhi karthi rahti hai " and Mandavi looking at Urmi with remorse.
Now imagine what would be the situation if Mandavi instead of Sita was in charge of Mithila sisters. Fire in charge without dharma.
That is what we are seeing in Lanka. Surpi is fire. Sita tells her she has the right to love. No one can stop her. But what surpi doesn't understand is yes she has the right to love, but the other person also has the right not to love her.
Now Surpi writes a long winding letter to her nephew's wife showing how well the both the ladies are connected. Sulochana the water or wealth reads it. See her first reaction " Yeh bua ko kya hua hai" and she smiles. But Sulo immediately sends whatever her bua had asked from her.
And when Meghanad questions her we see the adamant, strong woman sulochana. She tells she has only given a woman the right, her independence to fall in love and if she is going to be killed for that she is willing to take it.
If you see here sulo is not wrong. Surpi has told about her feelings and asked her help to impress the man she loves. And Sulo felt her bua has the right. See even the knowledge Ram is married need not deter her from that. Because in those days men married more than once. And if that man gets truly impressed by her bua and decides to marry her what is wrong. She supports.
And we know what is going to go wrong. When Sita managed Urmila and Mandavi or rather when Knowledge managed wealth and power they became duty bound, they didn't had any restrictions, but each one knew their limits and supported knowledge by doing their duty.
Look how wealth behaves when managed by power and dharma or rather knowledge Mandodari she is seen no where.
Isn t Mandodari Surpi's badi bhabi, Isn t Mandodari Sulo's MIL. Both of them feel no need to consult her. Apni manmani chalo.
Reason is dharma is not independent. Mandodari has no independent voice. She will only support Ravan's cause, his rules which are of course restrictions for both Surpi and Sulo. So they have taken things in their hands to break lose. To break the restrictions.
And when power and wealth start their dance without the knowledge, result is destruction, destruction at the root of a system, root of a family, root of a city.
And look where both Meghnad and Sulo stand. They are at logger heads. Swadharma of Meghnad is weakened at every step by Sulo. And when Sita comes, Sita is put in restriction in Ashoka Vatika this woman most probably is gonna blast. And she might even fight it out with Surpi when it happens.
If power controls wealth and wealth dances to power when the right knowledge comes power and wealth will be in logger heads at each other.