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Posted: 9 years ago
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@manasa Mandodari is a duty bound woman. As a daughter she felt when she had the power to save her father's life she should do it. It was not exactly freewill, but then that was the option she thought is right at that time. If she was intelligent and thought a bit more she would have held her life at ransom telling Ravan by killing her father, he wont get her, she will die. But maybe under the pressure of circumstances she took the other option.
Same again post marriage she feels it is her duty to protect her husband. You can actually see many Mandodari like women in reality also. They feel it is their duty to protect their husband irrespective of whatever they do. And these men gloat around of women like Mandodari.
If only women realize that they need not protect a man who doesnt respect them, world would have been a better place.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@manasa Mandodari is a duty bound woman. As a daughter she felt when she had the power to save her father's life she should do it. It was not exactly freewill, but then that was the option she thought is right at that time. If she was intelligent and thought a bit more she would have held her life at ransom telling Ravan by killing her father, he wont get her, she will die. But maybe under the pressure of circumstances she took the other option.

Same again post marriage she feels it is her duty to protect her husband. You can actually see many Mandodari like women in reality also. They feel it is their duty to protect their husband irrespective of whatever they do. And these men gloat around of women like Mandodari.
If only women realize that they need not protect a man who doesnt respect them, world would have been a better place.


thanks dii😃
i really felt sad for Mandodari
Indeed she is intelligent
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shruthi I was a bit surprised when they showed Mandodari not wiiling to go to her fathers place to ask for his help. As far as I knew there was no problem between them. Yesterdays episode answered the why. But theirs were a love marriage and it was with her parents consent. Ravan loved Mandodari very much.So they showed this to bring out the contrast in both Ram and Ravan. Now I am waiting to see how they will surpass this in Sitas case. What sacrifice she will do to break this sacrifice of Mandodary.
Ravan understood that Mandodary will always walk the path of Dharm. Even in his ego he recognized this. If he had respected her the end would have been so different.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sugunmanas

Di i did not get one thing 😕
Despite of all the pain Ravan gave Mandodari by forcefully marrying her. Why does she respect him I know its her dharam as patni but i wonder how she forgive him for his deeds???
A father daughter relationship is so strong then how did she manage to live with his fathers hatred towards her??? I felt so sad... She did this to save her fathers life and he thinks she is
kul ki Kalank
Nothing changed after these many years her father did not forgive her Poor Mandodari
I never knew Mandodari's life is full of sacrifices😭
Now i got it she is a great woman😃 Hats off Mandodari👏👏


Because in the actual story, Mandodari married Ravan willingly out of love. There was none of this fake drama with her father being threatened by him. Mayasur was actually very eager and happy to marry his daughter to Ravan, as Ravan was renowned at that time as the King of all three worlds, and he had no wife yet, so Mandodari would be his chief queen. Although Ravan had hundreds of wives, Mandodari was the only woman he actually loved. She was the only one who ever came to him willingly, and she too loved him.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@gmgi Mandodari's defence is one huge defence for Ravan. I would say the biggest one. Even after he doing n number of bad things, Mandodari never changes from her path of dharma.
It will be interesting to see how that defence is broken.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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In the actual story, Ravan once caught sight of Mandodari and fell in love with her. She too fell in love with him, and when he proposed married she asked him to go to her father, as was proper. Ravan respectfully requested her father for his daughter's hand in marriage, and Mayasur was ecstatic that the Lord of Lanka wanted his daughter as his queen, and he happily performed their marriage.

Ravan was a wicked man and committed many crimes, but in his dealings with Mandodari he was always the gentleman. She was the only lady whom he ever loved, and she was also the only lady who truly loved him. She did not marry him out of fear for her father's life.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..

In the actual story, Ravan once caught sight of Mandodari and fell in love with her. She too fell in love with him, and when he proposed married she asked him to go to her father, as was proper. Ravan respectfully requested her father for his daughter's hand in marriage, and Mayasur was ecstatic that the Lord of Lanka wanted his daughter as his queen, and he happily performed their marriage.

Ravan was a wicked man and committed many crimes, but in his dealings with Mandodari he was always the gentleman. She was the only lady whom he ever loved, and she was also the only lady who truly loved him. She did not marry him out of fear for her father's life.

Ok I agree that he loved her but did he respect her?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@janaki I agree to your version, that is what even I have read. But whether it is this, or whether the version I have read, the fact that cannot be disputed is that mandodari was a Panchkanya and her chastity gave Ravan his greatest defence.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmgi

Ok I agree that he loved her but did he respect her?


It depends on how you define respect. Ravan never spoke on harsh word to Mandodari, like he is doing in this show. Even though he married many women, she always carried the position as his principal and most beloved queen. It's written in the epic in many places that she was happy as his wife and received every comfort possible as the queen of Lanka. Before Ravan's abduction of Sita, Mandodari was a happy and loved woman. She had no major issues with him remarrying many times, because she knew and he knew that she would always be the chief queen. In fact, Mandodari treated her co-wives with love, because she was never insecure or jealous of her position.

Ravan had no respect for women in general and considered them inferior, no one is arguing that point, but his love for Mandodari was real. She was the only woman whom he ever truly loved. What he felt for other women, including Sita, was mere lust.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@janaki I agree to your version, that is what even I have read. But whether it is this, or whether the version I have read, the fact that cannot be disputed is that mandodari was a Panchkanya and her chastity gave Ravan his greatest defence.


Yeah, I agree. Mandodari was a pancha kanya, and the power of her chastity protected Ravan, same way that the power of Sulochana's chastity protected Indrajit. However, when men commit crimes and the time for their destruction comes near, no chastity of any woman can protect them. That's why the powers of Sita and Urmila were superior to the powers of Mandodari and Sulochana. Their powers protected righteous men, whereas the later two protected unrighteous men.

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