Originally posted by: neelakshi-says
Acha someone tell me... Is samarpan a symbol of love... I mean to say if I allow my love for someone to overwhelm me completely, take me over completely, make me forget myself that I have no problem in being known only as someone's daughter, someone's wife, someone's lover... Would that mean I have lost my identity? What if this is how I make my identity... Submission in all ways to something someone. Soch ke batao. I have a friend whose husband died when she was quite young, she was no... Is so much in love with him still that she wants to be known as his wife only, she does not want to part away from him even though he is not there anymore, she is like I will always be his wife and that's how she intends to lead her life, what do we take this as? Has she lost her identity in being his wife or may b she takes this only as her identity. I think it depends on what identity means for a person.
