Saath saath par swatantra - Page 4

Beautiful post,

Originally posted by: neelakshi-says

OK I'll go and rewatch it again if u say so. 😃
I like the discussions you guys have which gives understanding to how things can be interpreted coz u r open to listen to another pov too and so am I nor do u guys jump to conclusions if someone is takibg a scene in a different way. I'm glad am able to talk it out. Thank u Arshics and Shruti.

@neela different POVs makes you think differently and the different thought processes enrich you, if the thought processes are positive follows the policy of give and take. So as long as the discussions have give and take everyone engaged feel positive and take something or other from the discussions.

This episode has thrown up a very interesting debate, apna naam ya kul ka naam

Originally posted by: Arshics

This episode has thrown up a very interesting debate, apna naam ya kul ka naam

Here's what I feel about this

While it's true that we are a product of our family, society, nation, we also have a unique identity which is our own!

Especially after marriage, when new defining relationships also add on, many times women lose their identity completely

Who am I?

An obedient daughter?

A dutiful daughter in law?

A loving wife?

A doting mother ?

A devout Hindu?

A patriotic Indian?

A panjabi?

I am all this

But Sometimes I am none of this

Sometimes I am a nobody

And then I am the universe

Who am I?

Why can't I be

Just me...

Beautifully imperfect, delightfully incomplete, divinely sinful

thats ME...

Acha someone tell me... Is samarpan a symbol of love... I mean to say if I allow my love for someone to overwhelm me completely, take me over completely, make me forget myself that I have no problem in being known only as someone's daughter, someone's wife, someone's lover... Would that mean I have lost my identity? What if this is how I make my identity... Submission in all ways to something someone. Soch ke batao. I have a friend whose husband died when she was quite young, she was no... Is so much in love with him still that she wants to be known as his wife only, she does not want to part away from him even though he is not there anymore, she is like I will always be his wife and that's how she intends to lead her life, what do we take this as? Has she lost her identity in being his wife or may b she takes this only as her identity. I think it depends on what identity means for a person.

Originally posted by: Arshics

This episode has thrown up a very interesting debate, apna naam ya kul ka naam

Here's what I feel about this

While it's true that we are a product of our family, society, nation, we also have a unique identity which is our own!

Especially after marriage, when new defining relationships also add on, many times women lose their identity completely

Who am I?

An obedient daughter?

A dutiful daughter in law?

A loving wife?

A doting mother ?

A devout Hindu?

A patriotic Indian?

A panjabi?

I am all this

But Sometimes I am none of this

Sometimes I am a nobody

And then I am the universe

Who am I?

Why can't I be

Just me...

Beautifully imperfect, delightfully incomplete, divinely sinful

thats ME...

Originally posted by: neelakshi-says

Acha someone tell me... Is samarpan a symbol of love... I mean to say if I allow my love for someone to overwhelm me completely, take me over completely, make me forget myself that I have no problem in being known only as someone's daughter, someone's wife, someone's lover... Would that mean I have lost my identity? What if this is how I make my identity... Submission in all ways to something someone. Soch ke batao. I have a friend whose husband died when she was quite young, she was no... Is so much in love with him still that she wants to be known as his wife only, she does not want to part away from him even though he is not there anymore, she is like I will always be his wife and that's how she intends to lead her life, what do we take this as? Has she lost her identity in being his wife or may b she takes this only as her identity. I think it depends on what identity means for a person.

@neelakshi is Maa Parvati committed to Mahadev, is Maa Lakshmi committed to Vishnu, is Maa Saraswati committed to Lord Brahma.