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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..


Read the articles, and no offense but I found it all a load of hogwash. 🤬 It doesn't shed any light into Ram's character in Valmiki Ramayan. Granted, it does cite lines from the epic, but 75% of the article is the writer's interpretation and imagination, and I for one refuse to view Ram as this bitter and extremely flawed character who punished those around him due to some sexual aggressiveness that was a result of his hatred towards Kaikeyi. Ram was maryada purushotham. He was an incarnation of Lord Vishnu. He was no Karna to let his past make him bitter and punish others unjustly.

This is a typical dark interpretation of the epic that many modern authors like to make, but it's in no way equivalent to Valmiki.


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On the article, its a trashy one. I don't get why Ram is portrayed as this extremely flawed human being. Even I feel he was a human being with flaws but can't a human being be good? Perfect? Yes it is very hard to accept such a man existed standing in today's world, but we never know. We haven't seen those times. Maybe at that time, people were that good.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: naq5


I only wanted to know your views. nothing offensive in what u said😊
yes Ram was more ideal & more in control than Krishna. Maybe because they were dealing with different types of people & different situations. Also it could be regarding the purpose by which they took avataar.
yes but if you look at mistakes n decisions n all Ram's abandonment of sita(even though however much he was pained by it) is as debatable as some of Krishna's decisions in his life.


Absolutely agree with you. As much as I know Ramayan, which is not much, I have such views on Ram. I like his character, admire him, but I believe he was human. Sometimes I do have a dilemma whether he was God or not, but I feel he was just a human with exceptional qualities. I dont respect Ram any less by calling him human, I just feel he was very close to being a perfect human being. Although, just as you mentioned, I do not support some of the actions of Ram, mostly concerning with his abandonment of Sita.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..

Even though this is not the thread for it, but since it seems appropriate for the discussion, I just want to point out that I don't view Lord Krishna's actions, particularly in Kurukshetra, as wrong.

Lord Krishna's incarnation was not to show humankind ideal behavior. That was for Lord Ram to teach. Krishna wanted to teach humankind how to deal with unrighteous people. Krishna's motto was always "tit for tat". Sometimes, you have to deal with unrighteous people the same way they dealt with you. We may make the argument that, but doesn't that make us no different, but we have to look at the intention behind the act. If sometimes unrighteous means are necessary in order to vanquish wrongdoers, and it's for the welfare of society, then yes unrighteous means are required.

People like to sympathize with characters like Karna and Duryodhan, because it's the trend of modern society to sympathize with the "negative characters", but we have to look at their actions also. Their actions are what brought about their unrighteous deaths.

Yes, the Kauravas did die in an unrighteous manner: Bhishma, Dronacharya, Karna, Duryodhana, etc, but each person who died did not live a righteous life. Perhaps we can take Bhishma off the list since his "death" was pre-planned by himself, but starting with Dronacharya, each of the Kauravas performed many unrighteous deeds in their life. So they were killed accordingly.

Lord Krishna was a big Karma Yogi. He treated someone the way they wanted to be treated. If someone considered himself to be his devotee, like Arjuna and the other Pandavas, he treated him with love and affection like God does to a devotee, but if someone considered him their enemy and behaved likewise, like Duryodhana who foolishly tried to imprison him during his peace treaty mission, he treated him like an enemy too.

Is it wrong for God to punish people for their deeds? Isn't that what God does?

Although Ram was very Godly in nature, his character was portrayed as a human, whereas Lord Krishna, though human in nature, never referred to himself as human. He always accepted that he was God, and his behavior and miracles were such as well.

Everyone knew he was God, even the Kauravas, and yet they let their thirst for power blind their senses.

Lord Krishna used every unrighteous means to destroy the wicked people on Earth, and the Pandavas were simply a medium. Even though Lord Krishna never picked up a weapon, there was no need for him to, because he drove the entire war through the Pandavas. They were his devotees, his servants, and they were simply a medium used by God to achieve the purpose of his incarnation.

Nothing God does can be deemed unrighteous. Sometimes, unrighteous means must be used to defeat unrighteous people.

Even today, we cannot deal with rapists, murderers, terrorists in a peaceful manner. We have to deal with them unrighteously if we want to eradicate evil in our society.

We need another Lord Krishna.



Lovely post. Agree with you. Even I don't believe his acts in Kurukshetra as wrong at all. Infact, he was very correct. Especially I don't find anything wrong in Karna, Duryodhan and Drona's death. Well, what they did their whole lives, they had to pay for it. And the sad part is today also characters like Karna are respected and considered heroes, where as Krishna is considered a criminal. Hilarious it is! People actually say Pandavas and Kauravas both did mistakes so nothing is justified! Seriously? 😆 I atleast feel that yes, both sides made mistakes, but you just cannot compare the mistakes (mistake, or intentional crimes?) with the Pandavas! And another thing is that, well, Krishna said he will not pick up a weapon in Kurukshetra. He never said he was neutral, did he? Correct me if I am wrong. Then what is wrong with Krishna helping the Pandavas?
I believe Krishna was human, but I also believe he was exceptional, one of his kind, and very very intelligent. Yes, he did unjust things, but firstly it was not unprovoked, secondly, they deserved it. also believe, he put the interests of his Yadu clan first, and did a lot of things so that the Yadavas benefit. If they did not not is another issue. But in this process his actions did effect the history of the world, and it signified victory of good over evil according to the epic. It is human nature to care for your own clan. Nothing is WRONG in that. I never say Krishna was wrong. I said he had human flaws, and his nature is human.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: CaptainSpark

Just like they are showing in the show, Ram being closer to Kaikeyi than Kaushalya, and Kaikeyi loving Ram more than anyone else, was it really the case according to the epic? Did Kaushalya not love Ram enough. If he did, why is he inclined so much towards Kaikeyi but not his own mother?


In the epic (I should say most of the epics/popular versions), Ram loves all three of his mothers and gives them equal respect. It is true that Kaikeyi had a deep love for Ram (more than what this serial has shown) that surpassed any insecurity or pride she may have had, to the extent that she was at first exuberant with joy when Manthara told her the news that Dashrath was planning on making Ram the King. Manthara had to feed upon all her fears and insecurities before Kaikeyi made the choice to exile him, otherwise she loved Ram very much, and she loved Sita almost as much. The CVs' masala with Kaikeyi hating on Sita is totally untrue. Neither did Kaikeyi ever consider Mithila lesser in status, nor did she dislike Sita as Ram's wife. In fact, Kaikeyi often felt they resembled Lakshmi Narayan and desired in her heart that one day, Ram should be her son and Sita her daughter-in-law.

As for Ram's love, Ram showed more outward love to Kaikeyi (and also Sumitra), but his love for Kaushalya was almost divine in nature. Theirs was a very transcendent love. They understood each other without words. Sometimes, Kaushalya's love for Ram resembled the love one would have for the Supreme Lord, sometimes it was as mother to child. Her situation is comparable to Yashoda, who was often in quandary regarding her son. Sometimes he seemed so Godly in nature, sometimes he seemed like any other child. Ram loved Kaushalya deeply, and no one, not even Dashrath, understood Ram like Kaushalya did.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: CaptainSpark


How come Ram calls his mothers ie the Queens by name?
Thanks for the citation though.😊


Sometimes when I read the epic, I do not take every single word literally. Personally, I feel it was the author (Valmiki) talking more than Ram. Like you said, Ram would never had called his mothers by name. No one did back then, but Valmiki may have written it like that for reader to understand better.

OR

In English translation, the words may have gotten changed (more likely occurrence), we need to learn what the Sanskrit version addressed them as.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..


Sometimes when I read the epic, I do not take every single word literally. Personally, I feel it was the author (Valmiki) talking more than Ram. Like you said, Ram would never had called his mothers by name. No one did back then, but Valmiki may have written it like that for reader to understand better.

OR

In English translation, the words may have gotten changed (more likely occurrence), we need to learn what the Sanskrit version addressed them as.

First point, I don't think so. upto my knowledge,Ram never called his elders name, But he mentioned with their status and respect (for ex,Guru Vashista, maharaja Dhasarath,Mata Kousalya). But second point is acceptable. in Ramayana verbal translation, I noticed 'Raghava' word used almost equal to 'Ram'. so Ram would've used unique nick names like 'Raghunanda','Bhargava' to call them, For viewers understanding, that must be converted literally.
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Posted: 9 years ago
it seems that the kaikeyi problem is solved. ok, it won't go the zee tv ramayan way cause kaikeyi aproves the marriage. but what is ravan's problem? him sending katig/karkotak to mithila was not enough, now he is attacking yamlok.
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Posted: 9 years ago
what is this??? mrityu devi is back in siya ke ram and now she looks like kali. anarth ghor anarth.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Arijit007

it seems that the kaikeyi problem is solved. ok, it won't go the zee tv ramayan way cause kaikeyi aproves the marriage. but what is ravan's problem? him sending katig/karkotak to mithila was not enough, now he is attacking yamlok.


Don't be fooled so easily. 😆 Kaikeyi said she approved of the alliance, but not Sita, so expect lots of saas-bahu drama after the marriage.
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Posted: 9 years ago
hoi he wahi so ram rachi rakha/ ko kari tarak barhavin sakha.

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