Ruhaan's feelings - Page 7

Originally posted by: TandraB

Bold: Superficial beauty dekhke pyaar ko pyaar nahi kehte, attraction kehte hai. Love is when you fall in love with someone as a person, as a human being. Only falling for someone's beauty is not love; most folks agree on that.

so you think in real life too people fall for someone's soul not beauty ? 😆 agar real life ki hi baat hai tho you must not have known about it but many people does fall for someone's beauty, yeh quality, kindness us a human being yeh sab baat me aata hai jab relationship me aate hai.😆 That might not be love but starting of it and must of folks will agree on that too. Romantic relationship me attraction one of the most important factor 😉

Arrange marriage mai kaunsa log ma soul dekhte hain🤔

Originally posted by: Naturegirl99

I'm not judging just asking. As for letters love, my dear that is the deepest form of love. You don't know what the person looks like true, so u don't fall for their looks. U fall for their soul which is in the letters. As for understanding trust respect etc did he have these the moment he met her? Coz acc to him he is in love since then.

You say that's the deepest kind of love but when we don't know the person how would we know that jho woh letter me likhta hai woh sab wohi hai jho woh socta hai, kya pata he/she is writing something to impress but believes the opposite. Agar soch samjh kar, kindness dekhke quality dekhke pyaar karna chahiye tho we never know ke jho hume letter likhe raha hai woh sach bhi bol raha hai ke nahi. Kisi ko impress karne ke liye tho koyi bhi kuch bhi likh dega uske sach me nature kaisa hai woh tho usse milne ke baad bhi pata chalega na 😆I don't agree on that people can fall for anyone's soul (if you talking about real life) real life me yeh sab nahi hota, because I have seen many people who fall in love in FB( they never met, fall in love only because of chat 😕 ) and jab mile than they realize they are not people jho woh log ne socha tha jab chat kar rahe the. How would anyone can judge ke konsa tarika se sacha pyaar hota hai? who is your soul mate? Falling for your beauty is wrong than how can anyone fall of anyone's soul? atleast falling for someone's beauty is realistic which happens in real life too.

Like I said before he is imaginary characters and uske liye bhi wohi rule apply hote hai jho noble, tv wale baki characters ke liye hote hai, woh understanding, trust, loyalty, respects, commitment tho mere according hai and when I see to Ruhaan I see all these things now which is enough for me to say yes he is in love with mishti. For me attraction is first stage of love which Ruhaan had in first meeting it self. What he means is ke, he starts to like her than he didn't know that she is veer's fiancee but jab pata chala tab dher hogyi thi, he couldn't control anymore, sayad phale pata hota tho he would have seen as veer's fiancee only.When you say someone I like you that mean I am attracted toward you. Is that wrong? people gets in relationship on with that I like you phase only love slowly develop hota hai. Ruhaan ka tho I love you wala phase bhi start hogya hai 😆

Originally posted by: TandraB

Arranged marriage mein bhi log looks se zayada compatibility, basic criteria match karke shaadi karte hai. Otherwise ugly people would never get married.

Aur aj ki zamane mein arrange marriage bhi kuch months dating ke baad finalize hote hai, so yeah wahan bhi log soul dekhte hai.

hum soul kaise dekhkte hai? 😕 beauty tho dekh sakhte hai but soul? (IF you are talking about real people, Tv, noble, movie me de shakte hai but real me) People can easily hide themselves and not expose their real self. How would we know ke samne wala jho dekha raha hai woh sach hai ke nahi. For example: Veer ne Mishti ka real self nahi dekha tho usne uska soul kab dekha? tho kya veer ka pyaar pyaar nahi tha?😕

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

The makers want that.

They wanted support for divine love in s1 and now they want audience to feel intense love (tensed high school antics ) of mishaan .

And they succeeded this time. Only a minority of viewers are against it so doesn’t matter to them.

Last time it was the majority that’s why it mattered to them.

Waise bhi men are attracted fir bond wond hota hai. Whether it’s looks or personality.

It’s women mainly jinko bond Pehle chahiye.

Originally posted by: TandraB

Arranged marriage mein bhi log looks se zayada compatibility, basic criteria match karke shaadi karte hai. Otherwise ugly people would never get married.

Aur aj ki zamane mein arrange marriage bhi kuch months dating ke baad finalize hote hai, so yeah wahan bhi log soul dekhte hai.

Wrong ppl select pic say OK based on what guy/ girl qualification is then meet once and get married .insab mai soul kahan dikha ,only after engagement many couple start talking and that is why it is okay to break engagement..

But engagement hoti hi most time looks ya family background par

Originally posted by: TandraB

Obviously attraction matters, but ONLY attraction is not love, is it?

And no, you don't need to be in relationship to know someone's quality. Love comes after you have known someone well to a certain extent, before that it is infatuation or crush. Agar aisa nahin hota to crush or love mein koi fark nahin hote.

like I said attraction is the first stage of love. It may not be love itself but beginning of it. You can't get involve with someone romantically if you are not attracted to them. Even if friends falls in love, they only realize it after attracted to each other.

Ruhaan was attracted to Mishti but that develop into something beautiful. For me Love ke seven stage hote hai attraction, understanding, respect, trust, loyalty, commitment and than love and I can sure you that Ruhaan has those things for mishti. So yes this is not crush on Ruhaan's side. Just because Uska pyaar attraction se suru hua tha iska yeh matlab nahi hai ke his love is not love or pure. 😃

You may have different concept of love but that doesn't mean people who fall in love differently than your concept they are not in love or they have only crush 😆

Originally posted by: khatimeethi

Wrong ppl select pic say OK based on what guy/ girl qualification is then meet once and get married .insab mai soul kahan dikha ,only after engagement many couple start talking and that is why it is okay to break engagement..

But engagement hoti hi most time looks ya family background par

True initial filtering in matrimony profiles is based on looks, qualification, job etc

In arrange marriages ,after knowing personality, background n everything they will marry then y we r having so many divorce cases?