Ruhaan's feelings

So I'm finally caught up with all episodes 😎 This post is for the one topic which is bothering me. I had earlier given Ruhaan the benefit of doubt that at first he was just attracted to mishti and after living with her and learning about her he developed feelings. But in the current epis he said sorry Veer when I fell in love with Mishti I didn't know she was your fiance. What even!? So he fell in love with a random girl whose hair he pulled and who kissed his cheek for a dare??? How does this work? What did he know about Mishti's personality, her thoughts, feelings, qualities then? Are chance encounters with strangers and attractive looks enough to fall in love? For me its not enough even to develop a small crush. IDK if the writers are really this shallow or are showing this deliberately. I won't buy the argument that he fell for her deeper later as he was giving heart broken expression in Mishti's engagement too when he barely knew her. Is this how people for in love? So easy, so fickle? For me its necessary to know the person in and out - their qualities - kindness, honesty, integrity, their dark side, their behaviour, why and for what they smile, their likes and dislikes, their feelings, their opinions, hell even their political views. Also most important - their has to be a good friendship and mutual understanding. Without a single one of this how can a person fall in love!? I still can't judge at what point Mishti fell for ruhaan so won't comment on that. But I do want to know what are the writers smoking? I want some of that.

There is concept of love at first sight, many fall for that too not all have same idea about love ..

For some love is attraction at first sight and then develop bond .

Ruhaan did not try to pursue her and that is what is good about him

ruhaan ko kuch log insaan hi nahi samjhte toh auska feeling kya khakh samjhe ga lol pari k feelings feelings hai aww srk ko har movie main pehle nazar main pyar hota hai wow king of romance lol ruhaan haters know about his feelings more than he himself know so hope u will get ur answer from thm :)

Have seen love at first sight in many Bollywood movies. Many Salman Khan movies for eg. Jaise unko Hota hai waise Ruhaan ko hua 😆

Originally posted by: poiu123

Have seen love at first sight in many Bollywood movies. Many Salman Khan movies for eg. Jaise unko Hota hai waise Ruhaan ko hua 😆

Originally posted by: -sakeena-

ruhaan ko kuch log insaan hi nahi samjhte toh auska feeling kya khakh samjhe ga lol pari k feelings feelings hai aww srk ko har movie main pehle nazar main pyar hota hai wow king of romance lol ruhaan haters know about his feelings more than he himself know so hope u will get ur answer from thm :)

Ruhaan Rakshash hai aur Mishti chudail🤣🤣 dono me koi feelings nahi hain

Love at first sight bahut saare films mein hum dekhe the na(Atleast I did watch few films where they've shown this)..This is not the 1st time..

If we are talking about real life, your post makes complete sense but my dear, it is just a show and every other show has the same story of falling in love at first sight so nothing alien here.

Kabhi kabhi kise insaan ko pahli bar dakh ka hi connection feel hota hai. bina uska ka bara mein bahut kuch Jana. Feeling hoti hai He/ she is for me. E.g arrange marriage mein esha hota hai. Most of movies/ serials mein v love at first sight hota hai. I love ruhaan's unconditional love for mishti 😍

Why just because he doesn't fall according to our judgemental, he is not in love? Maybe you don't believe in love at first side but people does fall in first side, that doesn't mean they aren't in love each other. Some people fall in first side, some grow with it. Kisi ko ek pal me pyaar hota hai kisi ko saari zindagi lagti hai. Kisi ke liye dosti pyaar hai koyi apne dost ko uss najar se kabhi dekh nahi pata tho kya dosti ko pyaar samjhne walo tho dusre logo ko judge karna chahiye? 🤓

Pyaar me logic nahi chalta, pyaar kiya hai deal todina hai ke kisi ke quality, kindnesses dekhke pyaar ho. Koyi bina dekhke bhi pyaar karta hai(letters ke basis par) atleast Ruhaan ne mishti ko dekha tho tha. I agree he fall for her beauty but isme galat kya hai? Quality dekhe, sab kuch tasali karke pyaar karne walo ke bhi kitne rishte toodte hai. Kisi ko tho end tak pata nahi chalta ke jiske woh pyaar karke shaadi karete usse tho kabhi pyaar hi nahi kiya tha and sirf dosti or habit thi atleast Ruhaan clear tho hai jho woh feel kar raha hai woh feeling kya hai.

Edit: PS: this is according to TV/noble logic and Ruhaan is also character so uske liye bhi yeh rule apply hote hai but acc to me real life me pyaar complicated hote hai. I never fall in love but jitna bhi dekha hai, first that was attraction on both side, slowly they will became each other's habit, they start to trust each other, understand each other. I think that's love. For me love doesn't have different meaning. It's come from attraction, loyalty, commitment, understanding, trust, respect. and I think Ruhaan does have these things for mishti so no complaints from my side. 😃