Ruhaan's feelings - Page 9

Originally posted by: TandraB

Its a show based on real situations and emotions; that's why people like realistic shows and movies. They cannot show witches and fairies in Silsila because the show is imaginary can they?

There are some situations which are based on reality, it's not necessary that the whole show revolves around real scenarios.

And people here do believe in love at first sight so if we see from their perspective it's a real concept as well.

Originally posted by: TandraB

Soul connection cannot happen without knowing someone. The idea is like fairy tales.

But sometimes happens in real too. Though rarely.

Hapens in shows and movies many times.

Originally posted by: TandraB

He should've controlled himself because he was disrespecting his friend by having emotional outbursts like that.

he should have and he tries too but he couldn't. Abhi woh kaise control kare jab usse nahi ho raha. He wants to leave but his heart doesn't let him. Now he can't even have emotional outburst just because Veer will be disrespected. Why should his world, emotion, his feelings should revolved around Veer? 😕 What about his own feeling? Doesn't he have that little freedom to fall for someone? Can't he have feeling for someone? Why it is all about Veer? Just because Veer treat him like his saga bhai ?

Originally posted by: TandraB

Even attraction takes time to develop. Does anyone behave like that after seeing someone only two or three times? An attraction grows strong when you see someone a lot of times. He got a crush only after seeing someone literally twice. That seems quite unrealistic.

Nobody behaves so badly for someone they've seen only two or three times.

Why does we thinks that only what we think about love is the correct definition? In the same thread many people said that love can happen at first side too. Hum tho fir bhi attraction ki baat kar rahe hai. attraction or kisi ki bhi feeling time limit ke shaat nahi aata. Itne time me ho tho pyaar nahi tho attraction, or attraction wale time period bhi nahi hua tho kuch nahi. Feeling can be develop in one min or we wait for life time and we don't feel for anything. Why should we judge anyone's feeling just because we didn't want to believe that people can be in love on that small time of period or attracted. Humre believe karne na karne se kya hota hai jisko jho feel karna tha woh tho karliya 😆

Pari was attracted toward Ruhaan in first side only but she couldn't feel anything for arnav even being with him for almost all her life. Like i said before, yeh yesa emotion hai jho ek pal me bhi ho shakta hai ya puri life beet jaati fir bhi woh emotion nahi aata. Emotion koyi time period ke shaat nahi aata. 😊

Originally posted by: TandraB

Yes, because his connection with Veer is much older than this girl he's known for two weeks. Friendship matters much more in this context. No decent person would choose a kal ki ayi hui ladki over a childhood friend. Think about a real-life situation here.

I am asking again Why time period matters but not connection. He looked more connected toward Mishti's family than Veer even in that small time. For me time period se jyaada connection mahine rakhta hai. Just because he choose his love over his childhood friend who is not that close to him, he is not decent? 😕

Originally posted by: TandraB

He chose his love at the risk of breaking his best friend's home.

Connections don't develop out of thin air, right? Every kind of relationship, be it romantic or non-romantic, takes time to develop and enrich. So seeing from this POV, it is quite unrealistic that he would have a greater connection with Mishti than Veer.

Also, its he question of betrayal. Falling for your bestie's guy/girl is active betrayal of your friendship, so here it's an ethical question as well.

aap baat wohi gol gol ghuma rahe ho ethics, betrayal, friendship. I guess yaha baat Ruhaan ke feeling ki ho rahi hai. Now I am getting bore. Ek hi baat ko main bar bar nahi bol shakti. Let's meet in next topic jaha kuch nayi baat ho hum dono ke karne ke liye 😆

@TandraB Excellent points, well made 👏 Totally agree with you. Also 14 pages.. Didn't expect this topic to blow up 😂

Also for the people saying Ruhaan at first was only attracted / connected to Mishti, go over his monologue. He said himself that he was already in LOVE with Mishti before he knew she was Veer's fiance. The basis of this love - him grabbing her hair, a dare cheek kiss.

Now judge for yourself whether this ever happens in reality, whether this is sufficient or it has telepathic /soul vibes whatever. Upto the viewers. :)

Also to whoever told me thand rakh - Mai garmi sardi barsaat sab rakhungi but if someone is being ridiculous on MY post I WILL reply :)

To anyone who wanna read https://www.heysigmund.com/love-at-first-sight/

Originally posted by: TandraB

Ek baat baar baar kahan ho rahe hai?

I'm only answering your questions. Aap ek baat baar baar puche to mujhe bhi baar baar jawab dena padega na? 😆

Your question was "Why Ruhaan should restrict his feelings for Veer"?

My answer to that is: Because having feelings like that for your bestie's SO is betrayal and unethical. Therefore, Ruhaan should have restricted his feelings. Ab iss se jyada kya jawab de sakte hai? And what you said is wrong, Veer is close to Ruhaan, he himself called Veer his saga bhai jaisa.

Sab ke liye sab rishte ek se nahi hote, kisi ke liye koyi relation jyaada important hote hai kisi ke liye koyi kam. Ruhaan may have said that saga bhai jessa but jab mumbai aaya tho he didn't leave in his house. Saga bhai, saga beta jessa treat kiya hai tho shaat me kyu nahi raha? maybe they have but Ruhaan get that close to them. maybe He always feel burden because of their ehsaan so he never get chance to close to them. I will agree on that part that he is selfish and sayad veer ruhaan ko jitna close samjhta hai Ruhaan ke liye veer utna kareeb nahi hai and woh bas uska badpan samjha pyaar nahi. His feeling is for mishti something that he doesn't have to share to other nahi kisi ke charity se aaya hai. this feeling is something that is his own without anyone's charity. I can never blame someone for falling in love with other person and will not blame him, neither I blame him to choose mishti over veer. Because he never claim to be close with veer, he has always possivess toward the things which he thinks that belongs to him. Like his camera and his feeling for mishti. Veer was nowhere to found.

Apne common sense apply kijiye. Your childhood friend who you know for years, and your newfound attraction for a girl who you know for only a few days. Rishta koi bhi ho, usse sakht banane mein time lagta hai. Time plays a role in solidifying relationships. If you don't accept this fact then what can I do? No relationship becomes magically strong in two minutes, that just doesn't happen. Your relationship with an old friend is bound to be stronger than someone you know for just 2 days; its common sense. Hai ke nahin?

If you ask the same question again and again, then I'll have to keep repeating same answer, right?

People choose 1-2 years loves over 20-22 years old parents love. aap tho fir bhi dosti ki baat kar rahe ho. People keeps their love above their parents and ran away from the house when they don't approve their love. Does that mean they did sin by denied their parents? Koyi apne pyaar ko chod ke kisi aur se shaadi karlete hai. Doesn't that would be unfair to all three people? kisi ke liye parents sabse upar hota hai kisi ke liye pyaar. Everything is not always about right or wrong. For me right people took the responsibility of their decision. Right or wrong, fair or unfair they need to take the responsibility of their action which ruhaan is taking.

Note: This will be my last reply to you in this thread. Main sach me bore hogyi hu. aaj sayad koyi naya topic banega, uspar baat karege 🤣

Omg this thread! Good to see such a healthy discourse, but both parties must agree to disagree. 😅