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Posted: 6 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: Alohomora_

Exactly my point. I mean Radhika is being justified for being a hypocrite and putting up her son's picture opposite Mauli despite knowing what she went through because of his betrayal but Pari is being questioned for not calling out on her dead mother ! She is a child who never saw her mother for God's sake. She didn't see what her parents did or what Mauli went through. All she knows is that their love brought her into this world. She is in this world today because of their relationship so how do you expect her to be that mature and call them out for it . If parents can have bias for children and you understand it then you should also understand that children will also be biased to their parents .If you can justify Radhika then you cannot question Pari either.


This is exactly my point, nandini should have place in house as Pari's mom...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Alohomora_

Large hearted lady my foot! She is the biggest hypocrite in this show. I still remember her cursing Nandini that she will never become a mother but her son making babies with different women was completely fine by her. Her son has the right to become a father but Nandini shouldn't have the right to become a mother even though they BOTH CHEATED. That is HYPOCRISY! If you expect Pari to be all mature and talk crap about her dead mother then why don't you expect humari dearest Radhika jee also to condemn what her son did and not have his photo alongside Mauli as a sign of respect for her? Isn't he the same son that abandoned all of them while Mauli stood with them? Why then she should have his photo opposite hers? I am sure she can also utilise her own room for that no?




She was a large hearted lady. Other than that one dialogue about not becoming a mother, she has never said anything nasty to Nandini ans mind you Radhika did regret what she said to her eventually. What more should she do? We all agree that Kunal was forgiven way too easily and we are not okay with that. Post leap Nandini was hardly mentioned in the show barring the initial episodes. The current house they are living in is not the Malhotra family home. Why should she put up Nandini's picture up there to remind Mishti and Ansh of the woman that broke her mother's trust?

Kunal is there as Mishti's biological father. Who is Nandini to Mishti? She didn't even know her. All we know is that Kundini make her uncomfortable
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Posted: 6 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: -poloenigma-


Is Radhika a hypocrite for forgiving her son? Maybe

Err " MAYBE"? How about HELL YES! Son can make as many babies with as many women he wants to, then come back with the new kid and she is already ready to accept her precious aankho ka taara with his new baby back into her life 😆 Oh but Nandini shouldnt be able to produce babies kyunki usse khun ka rishta thodi na hai 😳 Kal ko son murder bhi karde woh bhi accept karlengi shayad...mother hai toh everything becomes justified I guess?

. Did Kunal deserve forgiveness? No. But why should Radhika be obligated to forgive Nandini? That is clearly up to her. And Kunal's photo is not next to Mauli, it's next to Dida. Nobody here likes Kunal . All we are saying is that we can understand why Nandini's pic is not up there. She was never a part of that family

By the same logic I am also asking you ,why should Pari be obligated to call out her mother or her relationship with her father as their relationship is the primary reason she is even in the world today. KuNan are WRONG - there are no two things about that, but they are wrong to everybody else not for their own child as for her they are the ones who brought her into the world. What is a mistake to all of us is not to her because that is the base of her existence! How hard is it to understand that?And if you can understand Radhika's bias because of her blood relation with Kunal then you should understand Pari's bias for her dead mother too because of her bond and blood relation. Same rules for both!

And next to deeda or next to Ishan ,Kunals pic is on the SAME WALL as Mauli's is it or not? So it is fine for you if they put Nandini's pic near Deeda too as that also wont be next to Mauli and thus not a disgrace to her right ? Nandini is very much part of the family. She was Radhika's son's wife till she died and till he died as well. She is her granddaughter's mother and took care of her beloved son all the years he spent with her . But nah I dont expect anything apart from hypocrisy from Radhika jji She has proved her double standards time and again .

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Posted: 6 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: -poloenigma-



She was a large hearted lady. Other than that one dialogue about not becoming a mother, she has never said anything nasty to Nandini ans mind you Radhika did regret what she said to her eventually. What more should she do? We all agree that Kunal was forgiven way too easily and we are not okay with that. Post leap Nandini was hardly mentioned in the show barring the initial episodes. The current house they are living in is not the Malhotra family home. Why should she put up Nandini's picture up there to remind Mishti and Ansh of the woman that broke her mother's trust?

Kunal is there as Mishti's biological father. Who is Nandini to Mishti? She didn't even know her. All we know is that Kundini make her uncomfortable

Err 'other that one dialogue' ? So we are going to look at it at just another dialogue only because it was Nandini at the receiving end not Kunal or Mauli is it? We are going to be over looking the fact that she CURSED a woman to not be able to bear a child for life apart from shaming her and ONLY her for something that her son also was an EQUAL PARTICIPANT of? Can there be anything more nasty than wishing that a woman never conceives and loses her child because of he curse? Go on I want to know!

@Red That is my WHOLE POINT!! It wasnt Nandini alone in the affair! It was her deewana son too! If she can put up Kunal's pic which will also remind everybody of what he did to Mauli then Nandini ki photo lagaane me kaisi jhijhak? Dono ne hi toh cheat kia tha ..treatment bhi dono ka equal hi hona chahiye right? If she can forgive her precious son and even PRAISE him at the end of all that he did to them why not Nandini? She accepted Pari because that is her OWN blood.but she isnt ready to forgive Nandini who gave her another grand daughter and also looked after son till the time she died That just highlights her double standards if anything..no large heartedness anywhere sorry.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I see a LOT of hate towards Nandini and ofcourse she was wrong as hell, infact she infuriated me throughout the show. That being said, there has been some disrespect to her in terms of being Pari's mom, towards Pari herself for being Nandini's daughter to the extent people said she deserved to die of cancer (get a grip).
Kunal should have fought harder for her if she was the love of his life - when Mauli learnt she passed away she was genuinely heartbroken despite everything that happened. Poor writing by Gajra but in the end we can assume that after being diagnosed with cancer perhaps she was genuinely repentant for what happened.

At the end of the day if Radhika loves Pari, well guess what that girl is infront of you because Nandini gave birth to her. It IS disrespectful and damaging for a child's psyche that her mother's death is not ever mourned and given respect when the dad who was a cheater is glorified. Radhika said she was PROUD of Kunal well Nandini was dead so she didn't have a chance at redemption. So yes her picture should be on that wall because Kunal was more to blame for what happened than Nandini was and if he can be mourned, so can she.

So I agree do not judge Pari for having sympathy for her mother - any child is defensive to their parent and tries to justify their actions. It is Kunal who should have stood up for his SOULMATE infront of his dida and radhika.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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@Alohomora
Radhika did regret what she said to Nandini so there's no point in fretting over that


@Kunal being there. Kunal actually did seek forgiveness from Mauli. He tried to mend the bridge. They spent quite a few years as family friends so I can understand why his picture is there. We all agree that Kunal was equally trash so we are not absolving him off his sins. All I'm saying is that it can be understood why Kunal is there and Nandini isn't.


And no matter what, Radhika isn't obliged to give two hoots about Nandini just because she banged her married son and gave birth to a daughter after breaking their hearts.

If you've watched season 1 you'd know that the only reason Radhika and Dida accepted Pari is because MAULI gave them the go ahead. They were actually wary of hurting her. It was MAULI who said that she had no problem with them accepting Pari. And Kunal is there because he did apologize and spent a good part of their remaining lives making up to his mistakes and definitely was a part of Mishti's life in some capacity. Nandini was not a factor in their lives posi leap so I can understand why Radhika didn't put up a picture in the home where MISHTI and her brother live
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Posted: 6 years ago
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And Pari wasn't criticized for loving her mother. She was critized for comparing Nandini and Mauli and saying that both were not wrong. There was no need of that dialogue. You can love your parents without glorifying their mistakes.
As for the picture, I disagree. It will be disrespectful to Mishti to have Nandini's picture up there next to Mauli. It was already shown that Kundini make her UNCOMFORTABLE.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: -poloenigma-

And Pari wasn't criticized for loving her mother. She was critized for comparing Nandini and Mauli and saying that both were not wrong. There was no need of that dialogue. You can love your parents without glorifying their mistakes.

As for the picture, I disagree. It will be disrespectful to Mishti to have Nandini's picture up there next to Mauli. It was already shown that Kundini make her UNCOMFORTABLE.


You can love your children too wthout glorifying their mistakes- case in point Radhika and Kunal.You are okay with Radhika glorifying her son and his mistakes and even going to the extent of PRAISING him after al that he did to them and Mauli but you are not okay with Pari not admitting her parents relationship was wrong even though their relationship is the foundation of her very existence? There was no need for Radhikas praising dialogues for Kunal too as though he was some lost hero and not a cheater but I didnt see any commotion about it? There was no need for Radika to wish for nandini losing her babies while her son was enjoying the fruits of parenthood from both women. If you understand Radhika and her bias then you shuldnt have a problem with Pari and her bias too right? Also if kundini made her uncomfortable remove BOTH thei pics! Sirf Nandini ka pic nikalne se sab EMA bhuljayenge kya? Kunal ka pic toh hai na wall pe? Jo galti dono ne ki uski saza sirf ek ko kyu di jaye?In your own words you can love without gorifying too. Radhika shuld have done that as well na?
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

We can watch without being biased...but that should apply to mauli as well.Assuming mauli to be characterless ...cheating on kunal...and making aansh baby...is quite pukeworthy...and actually that makes mauli ...lower than nandu...so first pppl need to stop posting bullshit.

Same people who shammed nandu want mauli to cheat on ishaan .
Kyu bhai nandu ko itni gaaliya and mauli kare to taaliya.

lol...this is sick...we can't stop peoples imaginations but to post this nonsense 😆...how can anyone claim to be Maulis fan when they want to make her a cheater, to betray her husband , have an Ema and get pregnant and claim that child is her husbands ...So gajra MAde Mauli a clean decent character but people's imagination have made her a cheap woman. ..Lol😆...is the craze for Kunal so great that mAulis character must be destroyed completely so she can be just like him..We must be grateful that Gajra didn't have that sick mind ,.and kept Mauli a clean decent woman...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: -poloenigma-

@Alohomora

Radhika did regret what she said to Nandini so there's no point in fretting over that


@Kunal being there. Kunal actually did seek forgiveness from Mauli. He tried to mend the bridge. They spent quite a few years as family friends so I can understand why his picture is there. We all agree that Kunal was equally trash so we are not absolving him off his sins. All I'm saying is that it can be understood why Kunal is there and Nandini isn't.


And no matter what, Radhika isn't obliged to give two hoots about Nandini just because she banged her married son and gave birth to a daughter after breaking their hearts.

If you've watched season 1 you'd know that the only reason Radhika and Dida accepted Pari is because MAULI gave them the go ahead. They were actually wary of hurting her. It was MAULI who said that she had no problem with them accepting Pari. And Kunal is there because he did apologize and spent a good part of their remaining lives making up to his mistakes and definitely was a part of Mishti's life in some capacity. Nandini was not a factor in their lives posi leap so I can understand why Radhika didn't put up a picture in the home where MISHTI and her brother live

In your own words , married Kunal 'banged' his married wife's married bestie too so I dont get why this is being made out as if it was only Nandini who was the evil one . Nandini 'banged' him..Nandini broke his home..haan Kunal toh doodh peeta bacha tha na jo fisal gaya? SMH.🥱 So Radhika regretted what she said with one line and we are supposed to forget that she wished a woman never conceives because of something that her son also was responsible for? Nandini too regretted in her CD to Mauli so then by this logic you should forgive her also right? And if you are saying you understand Radhika's hypocrisy and glorification of her son by praising him as a hero and putting up his pic on the same wall as Mauli, then I dont think you should be questioning Pari for loving her mother and being biased to her.too Same logic there also na?
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