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jhalak7

@jhalak7

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Posted: 6 years ago

#51

Radhika doesn't need to love or accept Nandu...she is dead and how she will.
Just keep a photo of her makes radhika a bigger woman as she is the head of the family now and this is how Indian family and civilizewd families are made. That's Pari who is living there...by disrespecting and unaccepting her dead mom( who means no harm now) ...they are insulting Pari too. As if she is a illegal child.

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-poloenigma-

@-poloenigma-

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: jhalak7
Radhika doesn't need to love or accept Nandu...she is dead and how she will.
Just keep a photo of her makes radhika a bigger woman as she is the head of the family now and this is how Indian family and civilizewd families are made. That's Pari who is living there...by disrespecting and unaccepting her dead mom( who means no harm now) ...they are insulting Pari too. As if she is a illegal child.

She can keep a photo of her in Pari's room. Like I said, she isn't obliged to put up her photo in the family wall. We don't even know it they are living in the Malhotra house. She is already a large hearted lady. She forgave Kunal and accepted Pari. That's a lot.

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jhalak7

@jhalak7

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: -poloenigma-

She can keep a photo of her in Pari's room. Like I said, she isn't obliged to put up her photo in the family wall. We don't even know it they are living in the Malhotra house. She is already a large hearted lady. She forgave Kunal and accepted Pari. That's a lot.

Nandu did nothing wrong to Radhika.
Nandu deceived Mauli because Kunal made her do that. Only Mauli has the right to punish Nandu...not Kunal or uska family.
So hate or unaccept Nandu...hate and unaccept Kunal too. As her own son is the bigger culprit.

Edited by jhalak7 - 6 years ago

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phoenix27

@phoenix27

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

#54

I don't understand that this is not Malhotra house it's most probably Khanna house where Radhika and pari are living and if it is Khanna house there is no place for Nandini as she was nothing for Khanna's. Kunal is there in the picture because he is Father of Misty and others are mouli's family.

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Jane

@janecastle

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 6 years ago

#55

Why should Radhika put up Nandini's photo in that house? If anything she should remove Kunal's photo too. But I understand why she put up Kunal's photo and not Nandini's. Kunal came back and in whatever little way tried to make amends for what he did in the past. And at the end of the day Radhika is a mother and it's no wonder she forgave her son so easily. But in Nandini's case, she was already dead by the time Kunal came back to Malhotras. And when Radhika and Nandini met last, the former was cursing the latter for ruining her daughter-in- law's life. So there's no way Radhika has actually forgiven Nandini and accepted her as DIL.

And I am surprised that people are thinking only about Pari. What about Mishti and to some extent Ansh? Why should they accept a woman who deceived their mother in the worst way possible and caused her so much pain? Ansh may not know much about all this but Mishti is well aware of everything and was the one who suffered just like Mauli. So just because Kunal came back and Pari is living with them, why should MauHaan's kids be reminded of the past over and over by putting up Nandini's photo along with others. And let's not even put MauHaan in the same sentence as KuNan. KuNan's so called divine love destroyed a family and took away a father from his daughter and a son from his mother. It was MauHaan who kept that family together and took care of everyone. It was Ishaan who loved Mishti like his daughter and took care of Radhika and Dida like a son. It was MauHaan who did everything that Kunal was supposed to do. So if MauHaan are loved immensely by Radhika then they earned it. So let's not even compare MauHaan and KuNan. And what Pari said was absolutely wrong. Nandini was right just like Mauli? Like WTH does that even mean. To compare Mauli and Nandini is a big insult to Mauli. In that case, Pari was wrong and she's rightfully called out for that. I would have accepted this if Pari was a kid who didn't understand what was going around her. But that's not the case here. Pari is a grown up woman who's fully capable of understanding her parents' mistake and how much hurt it caused to the Malhotras, Mauli and Mishti. So it was completely wrong for her to compare Mauli and Nandini.

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Alohomora_

@Alohomora_

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: -poloenigma-

Pari can have Nandini's photo hanging in her room. There's no need to rub salt on Mishti's wounds and disgrace Mauli's memories by putting up her picture alongside the family wall. Even Kunal doesn't deserve that imo, but she's a mother so I don't judge her for forgiving him.

So let me get this straight. Putting up Kunal's picture on the wall who was equally at fault in the affair opposite Maulis pic is not a disgrace to Mauli or Mishti only Nandini is? And you are ready to forgive Radhika's blatant hypocrisy as you understand she is a mother so will be biased but that doesn't apply to Pari and her feelings towards her mother? Wouldn't she be biased to her dead mother too just as you say Radhika will be biased to her son even when he was completely wrong? Why different rules for different people?

Edited by Alohomora_ - 6 years ago

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FruitToasty

@FruitToasty

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 6 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: Alohomora_

So let me get this straight. Putting up Kunal's picture on the wall who was equally at fault in the affair opposite Maulis pic is not a disgrace to Mauli or Mishti only Nandini is? And you are ready to forgive Radhika's blatant hypocrisy as you understand she is a mother so will be biased but that doesn't apply to Pari and her feelings towards her mother? Wouldn't she be biased to her dead mother too just as you say Radhika will be biased to her son even when he was completely wrong? Why different rules for different people?

I agree with this

I don't like it but I have to say that Kunal failed Nandini and Pari. Radhika is considering Mishti's discomfort but not Pari's pain at her mom being treated like an outcast, very unfair to the child and her mother, who is actually Daughter in law of the house. Radhika didn't like Nandini, is understandable but at least think about Pari.

Its obvious Kunal must have kept Nandini's picture in the house when Mishti and kids didn't move in after his death and maybe they removed Nandini's picture seeing Mishti's discomfort

I don't know Mishti can kiss her father's picture, who actually betrayed her mother but Pari can't keep her mother's picture

Edited by FruitToasty - 6 years ago

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Alohomora_

@Alohomora_

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: -poloenigma-

She can keep a photo of her in Pari's room. Like I said, she isn't obliged to put up her photo in the family wall. We don't even know it they are living in the Malhotra house. She is already a large hearted lady. She forgave Kunal and accepted Pari. That's a lot.

Large hearted lady my foot! She is the biggest hypocrite in this show. I still remember her cursing Nandini that she will never become a mother but her son making babies with different women was completely fine by her. Her son has the right to become a father but Nandini shouldn't have the right to become a mother even though they BOTH CHEATED. That is HYPOCRISY! If you expect Pari to be all mature and talk crap about her dead mother then why don't you expect humari dearest Radhika jee also to condemn what her son did and not have his photo alongside Mauli as a sign of respect for her? Isn't he the same son that abandoned all of them while Mauli stood with them? Why then she should have his photo opposite hers? I am sure she can also utilise her own room for that no?

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Alohomora_

@Alohomora_

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I agree with this
I don't like it but I have to say that Kunal failed Nandini and Pari. Radhika is considering Mishti's discomfort but not Pari's pain at her mom being treated like an outcast, very unfair to the child and her mother, who is actually Daughter in law of the house. Radhika didn't like Nandini, is understandable but at least think about Pari.
Its obvious Kunal must have kept Nandini's picture in the house when Mishti and kids didn't move in after his death and maybe they removed Nandini's picture seeing Mishti's discomfort
I don't know Mishti can kiss her father's picture, who actually betrayed her mother but Pari can't keep her mother's picture

Exactly my point. I mean Radhika is being justified for being a hypocrite and putting up her son's picture opposite Mauli despite knowing what she went through because of his betrayal but Pari is being questioned for not calling out on her dead mother ! She is a child who never saw her mother for God's sake. She didn't see what her parents did or what Mauli went through. All she knows is that their love brought her into this world. She is in this world today because of their relationship so how do you expect her to be that mature and call them out for it . If parents can have bias for children and you understand it then you should also understand that children will also be biased to their parents .If you can justify Radhika then you cannot question Pari either.

Edited by Alohomora_ - 6 years ago

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-poloenigma-

@-poloenigma-

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

#60

Originally posted by: Alohomora_

Large hearted lady my foot! She is the biggest hypocrite in this show. I still remember her cursing Nandini that she will never become a mother but her son making babies with different women was completely fine by her. Her son has the right to become a father but Nandini shouldn't have the right to become a mother even though they BOTH CHEATED. That is HYPOCRISY! If you expect Pari to be all mature and talk crap about her dead mother then why don't you expect humari dearest Radhika jee also to condemn what her son did and not have his photo alongside Mauli as a sign of respect for her? Isn't he the same son that abandoned all of them while Mauli stood with them? Why then she should have his photo opposite hers? I am sure she can also utilise her own room for that no?

Is Radhika a hypocrite for forgiving her son? Maybe. Did Kunal deserve forgiveness? No. But why should Radhika be obligated to forgive Nandini? That is clearly up to her. And Kunal's photo is not next to Mauli, it's next to Dida. Nobody here likes Kunal . All we are saying is that we can understand why Nandini's pic is not up there. She was never a part of that family

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